₦airaland Forum

Few days ago I created a thread asking people to share how often they masturbate. Surprisingly the thread garnered a huge about of views and lots of comments came pouring in. I was especially impressed with the amount of honesty and people's willingness to talk candidly about a topic that isn't usually talked openly about.

Here is the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4926541/how-often-masturbate-please-honest

Today I'm pushing the boundaries and asking another taboo question. If you masturbate, what do you masturbate to?

The purpose for asking questions of this sort is to remove the stigma off this subject and to encourage open discussions on topics that we've been wrongly conditioned to view as taboo.

Uglymugg:
This guy

Who is that?

Who is the most attractive person you have ever seen?

funmisticqueen:
take a pink pill and u will understand #pinkpillsecrets#

I understand now. I edited my post. Enjoy your pink pill.

.

Allaboutkatiee:
Don't ever quote me again
I will never engage in masturbation
I hate it with great passion
So Carry your dull brain de go.

How do you deal with your sexual desires then? You have a boyfriend who services your kpekus on the regular?

tommyken:
I have vow not to do that dirty act again.....I made that vow on the 24th day of December. I will fulfill it

Why do you think masturbation is a dirty act? Do you also consider sex outside the confines of marriage a dirty act? If not, why not?

Allaboutkatiee:
Lol seems your brain is paining you
Am saying its this hot afternoon your asking such a question.
Hope you grab now?

Okay the afternoon doesn't have to be hot for you to masturbate? Just every Thursday afternoons? Am I correct now?

SweetBuns:
Jobless men. Your mates are looking for cures to diseases and you're here drawing masturbation graph for men and women.

I'm pretty sure there are also lots of women looking for cures to diseases while you are here replying to a masturbation graph thread.

Allaboutkatiee:
Op on a Thursday hot afternoon
Issokay

You masturbate only on hot Thursday afternoons? Wow.

I'll go first. I masturbate once a day, every week. Sometimes I skip a day or two.

Before I proceed with why I asked the question let me say
this. If you are shy or for some reputational reasons unable to
use your main account to answer this question please just
create a new anonymous account and answer the question.

The reason I'm asking this question is because these days
due to the rapid expansion of social media and the
increased interconnectedness among people, there is the
tendency by people, both male and female, to portray a
certain false persona in order to initiate a positive perception and to obtain the social rewards that come with that. This phenomenon is quite evident on the issue of sex and masturbation.

A lot of people tend to describe themselves as being averse
to masturbation or not engaging in the act even though they
may be addicts behind closed doors. This dangerously
distorts the truth.
There is also the tendency of people to lie or exaggerate
details of their sex lives just to seem cool and attractive
even though these qualities don't necessarily corelate with
an active sex life.

If an someone who has never been on social media reads comments by Nigerians on their views on masturbation and on whether they masturbate, such a person would think that masturbation is an activity engaged in by a very tiny fraction of the Nigerian population. But is this really the case?

If you come across this thread please be honest. Your
honesty will help lots of people who may think they
are flawed just because they believe they are the only
ones masturbating regularly. Like I said earlier,
if you can't say the truth with your real moniker, you can
easily create an anonymous one and air your own truth.

This question is directed to both genders.