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Exgee:
Hi guys,

I don't know what's wrong with me. Growing up, my best moment was whenever I was traveling(By road). I used to enjoy this.

But since I clocked 25, I no longer find it pleasurable traveling, I'm always scared of traveling. I fear that I may be involved in an accident that could maim or kill me. I have not been able to share this with anyone cos I don't know how to. Some years ago, my friend and I had a terrible ghastly accident that almost costed us our dear lives. We were returning back from the village in the early(6am) hours of the morning and before we would exit the village, the brakes of our vehicle(Lexus 350) failed and the speed of the car tripled. I saw death, I came in direct contact with death, but God saved me. My friend who was driving was quickly rushed to the hospital where he spent a week but I was lucky to not be much affected. I only had a cut on my lips and head. The vehicle somersaulted countless times. Farmers who were on their way to the farm that morning and heard the sound of the car somersaulting refused coming to help us. They said they didn't want to see Dead bodies at that early time of the morning, they didn't know we survived.

Sometimes again, I had another accident. I was about running mad when I eventually managed to pull out of the car, I had use my head to hit everywhere. These two accidents involving two different cars were all sold as scraps cos the damage were irreparable. And if they were to be fixed, the money would be more than imagine.

Again, my father died from a motorbike (Vespa) accident many years ago while I was just 7years. He didn't die on the spot, he even brought himself back home that night unaided. No external injuries but he had internal bleeding which wasn't detected in time, at 4am, mum took him to the hospital as pains in his chest became intense and at 7am, he gave up the ghost. The psychological impact of all these still affect me, I guess.

How do I overcome this please?
Its so bad that whenever a loved one is traveling, I will be saying in my mind that the person might die on the road and that we may never see again. God pls help me!

God has saved me countless times and if I begin to write here, we may not go to bed tonight.
To God alone be all the Glory!

People very fearful and with near death experiences while traveling are often hunted by the spirit of death 💀⚰️

Do you see dead relatives/family members in your dreams? Then it means you need deliverance from the spirit of death.

Apart from that, you can't be fearful and faith_full at the same time.

Reminds me of the good old days when our parents married in their 20s...now economic situations causes people to marry in their 30-40s.

God bless the union.

ufotunang:
The bible says faith without works is dead and the bible also says I will bless the hands of your labour.. not your prayers

What brings about the blessing on your works if not faith/prayers?

Both faith and works go together.

The spiritual realm is far higher and controls what happens physically.

While we use work to influence the physical realm, we use faith to influence the spiritual realm. Both faith and work go hand in hand.

But the spiritual is much higher than the physical. So we need more faith than work to move Nigeria forward.

Pastor Adeboye is saying the truth, things could have been worse if not for prayers.

DLSReigns:
Keep deceiving yourselves. Why can't Nigeria be a lender.?or is it a taboo?

Sadly we aren't more of a productive but consumptive economy.

She's just looking for attention and cheap publicity....and she's got it.

Most men can't resist looking at a naked woman and that's why porn sells more than many brands today.

Idols (demons) are in different levels....but they are all subjected to the power of God Almighty.

BABANGBALI:
Fake love.

Celebrity love .... she's in for the fame.

Telling people your destiny and future plans....like Joseph did to his brothers.

Addme:
And May the curses affect him to the last of his lineages.
What a wicked soul all because of money.

Only God knows the level of havoc and damages this man has caused people.
Little by little, God will continue to expose them as we still have many of his kinds in our midst.

When the spirit of mammon 🤑 takes over a person, their conscience become hardened/deadened like granite.

They can do just anything for money.

Even Jesus said, "no one is good except God."

Thank God for His goodness 🙏👏

HenryWilliams:
When someone finds their true calling..
As a teacher, educationist, mentor..
You'll definitely know..
When the job fits the person like a glove..
When there's love doing the job..
Not a frustrated soul forced to work due to limited job opportunities..teaching kids they hate..

It's so unfortunate/depressing when one is forced to do work out of poverty not passion ❤️

Phone/internet

MONEY247:
I work where I come across old people....
Mehn I don't want to grow old....

It's another measure of suffering....
As long as I fulfill purpose and attain destiny....

I am okay

To say the truth, growing old can be scary, but it's just a stage as this life is temporary.

I don't mind growing old as long as I fulfill my destiny. Nothing sweeter than living a destiny fulfilling life on earth.

LawWithEbele:
Cohabitation, no matter how long, without more, does not amount to marriage.

That was the end of the road for both parties—to your tent, O Israel....

Question for the house: Do you think our laws should recognize long-term cohabitation as marriage, especially where children are involved?

Cohabitation isn't marriage o.....

The former is voluntary contact while the latter is legal/divine contract.

Shameful

Sex isn't as cheap as many see it....it's a very deep covenant only between married couples.

Those girls aren't just 'kids', they are teenagers and they have sexual drives just like adults.

And that's why (alongside peer pressure) they dress seductively to get unnecessary/inappropriate attention from men.

There is much uncontrollable sexual tension among the youths.

Factcheck0001:
Good afternoon everyone, just like the topic says there are majorly two things no man can hide no matter how smart he is and how codes he is.

The first thing is POVERTY

No matter how good at management a man is, he can never hide poverty because with time it will rear it's ugly heads and become very obvious.

Any man going through financial difficulty, no matter how well he wants to hide it some things will start becoming visible. You don't need a soothsayer to tell you a man is going through hell if he carries bushy hair, faded clothes, worn out slippers.

You can just sit down at a junction and pretend as if you are making calls then mere looking at some people you know they are going through a lot.

That brings us to the saying that poverty is very hard to maintain

The second one is WEALTH

No matter how well you can hide things, wealth or affluence will show. I didn't give examples when I talked about POVERTY because I don't want to sound inhumane but let me give you a typical example of my friend who once tried to hide wealth.

He served in the north and got retained by a rich northerner who deals with trailer, he was treated well and after like 5 years the man died and our friend was well settled so he relocated to south west.

We normally call him coded due to his lifestyle of trying to hide everything, when he came he established block industry, boutique and poultry but he will still wear cheap clothes.

What gave him out was his fresh looks, nice perfumes and wristwatch always looking cool. He hid it to d extent that even his farm manager had a car already but the CEO is hoping around on bike.

Last last this guy had to buy Toyota big daddy because even the poorest in his clique was using something better, last last we all saw his house and it was one in town, he couldn't just hide it.

So it's obvious you can't hide those two things

POVERTY and WEALTH

Yes, you are right to an extent.

But both poverty and wealth can be inconsistent. A poor man can be rich tomorrow and vice versa.

It will take some time for a former billionaire to show signs of poverty because of excess clothes, shoes, cars, etc. But eventually he or she will start wearing rags if help doesn't come.

A poor man can change his appearance through wealth, but if he falls back to poverty, he can camouflage for sometime before true colours of poverty begin to show.

AntiChristian:
hmmm

What does he sell? What business is he into?

Anyways! Anyone God don destine to be rich go rich before hin Kpai!

And no be all of us go get rich sha!

Na Caveat be that!

Nobody is destined to be poor.

It's just that many people's destinies have/has been manipulated.

God's original plan is for us all to keep increasing though not at the same pace.

Bobxin:
He has fulfilled destiny.

Well, only His creator (God) can say that.

But so far in our eyes, he has done extremely well for himself.

🤣😂😅

Has he forgotten the scripture:

And Jesus answering said unto him, It is said, Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God.
— Luke 4:12

Truly, there's nothing that God cannot do, but we shouldn't treat Him like an errand boy.

Globad:
Female ministers wear transparent clothes? What's your position on this?

We all are wired for sex, but God has given us self control by the Holy Spirit.

Such female ministers have uncontrollable sex desires and are often singles.

What are the motives of women wearing leg chains and transparent clothes?

To seduce/tempt? God looks at the heart.

Even in our churches, some female ministers wear leg chains/see_through clothes.

True 💕....

Imagine being the most powerful man in France and yet accepting discipline by your elderly wife!

A gentleman Macron is.

Creamypie:
How can a young promising man fall in love with a woman as old as his mum?

Quite bizarre but nothing wrong as long as he finds peace of mind... marriage is a marathon not a sprint.

Man utd now a caricature 🤡 of its glorious past....

Aston villa to win. They need the points more than we do.

And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment.
— Hebrews 9:27

Luke 16
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¹⁹ There was a certain rich man, which was clothed in purple and fine linen, and fared sumptuously every day:

²⁰ And there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, which was laid at his gate, full of sores,

²¹ And desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man's table: moreover the dogs came and licked his sores.

²² And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham's bosom: the rich man also died, and was buried;

²³ And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments, and seeth Abraham afar off, and Lazarus in his bosom.

²⁴ And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.

²⁵ But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented.

²⁶ And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence.

Preciousgirl:
How will a Christian know that the Holy Spirit spoke to them?

What are the channels?

Also, can the holy Spirit flashback a Christian?

When you find favour with God like Mary did:

Luke 1
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²⁸ And the angel came in unto her, and said, Hail, thou that art highly favoured, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women.

…
³⁰ And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary: for thou hast found favour with God.

…
³⁵ And the angel answered and said unto her, The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also that holy thing which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God.

Red flag 🚩

Only abusers seek independence from in-laws to continue their cruelty.

Most women will hardly submit to a man they are financially stronger than.

That's a major reason why many marriages end prematurely.

Socratiz:
I want to die empty.

My greatest fear is to die with unused spiritual gifts and inner resources God gave to me.

I want to make adequate use of all the resources of God in my life and be a blessing to mankind so that I leave this world empty.

Not fulfilling your destiny....

That too is my greatest fear closely followed by missing heaven.