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This hurt I feel is eating me up.

I feel like she took me for a fool.

I feel like hurting her.

This hurt I feel is eating me up.

I feel like she took me for a fool.

I feel like hurting her.

I am really considering visiting her.

Please advice on this issue.

There is this girl I am in a distance relationship with for close to a year. She went for service and after a while she changed suddenly even after I paid her a visit. I have done so much to show her I so much desire her, She was supposed to come to my place, I sent her money but she told me several stories and she didnt come. On her birthday, I called her early morning but she busy my call and I dint call again, previously she has been ignoring my calls.

That same day, a birthday cake was delivered to her, but she only called in d evening feeling guilty of how she has been acting up. Apart from this, when I visited her, I bought her a phone as she requested, I send her card even when she does not ask.

Lastly, she keep telling me that she is engaged, which I dont believe its true. And I confronted her that I feel she is cheating on me, ever since then, she hasnt answered my call for about 2weeks.

I am close to 30, a graduate and self employed, not doing bad.

I intend to visit her where she is serving just to let her know how serious I am about building my future around her.

If you were in my position, what will you do? (Matured advice please, Thank you)