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firstking01:
Whats i love you in german

You could easily find that out on the internet, but I will just tell you very quick to get it over with , I love you is "Ich liebe dich" in German. There you go

Jorussia:
I pity this guy ,because if he knows how wicked and wayward most German ladies are,he won't be thinking of getting a German visa to meet a German lady.German women nor dey forgive person at all.I even suspect the op to be an old woman.

You do that! I don't give a flying fck XD

firstking01:
I'd love to learn the dutchsland/german.

Well, then ask all the questions you have

soupandeba:
Well, I've come to realise that we have three sets of Nigerians online: the one who wants to make money, the one out there for fun and the one who doesn't know why he is online.


The scammer falls into category 1 while the dupe (the person scammed) falls into category 2, whereas the one who spoils people's hustle online fall into category 3. From this thread, it's evident that category 3 is loitering this space.


@Julester; My question still remains, do you love this guy? Because in Nigeria, we understand that Europeans and Americans love easily and that's why they have been scammed over and over again ad infinitum. Whatever the case appears to be, you can't love someone millions of KMs away from you forever. It's only a matter if time before you guys meet. Whether you like it or not, since he's jobless you're gonna be used as a tool even if he loves you or not! Take for example he comes over, he's gonna live with you and all other expenses from your purse, right? So, if the guy were sensible he wouldn't even scam you, he has already scammed you by making you love him. God has buttered his bread!

So what?! If I bought my ticket to Lagos he would have to support me while being there too, for I'm not freaking rich, and he knows that. Plus, as I already mentioned, he get's supported by his family, meaning he has at least a bit of money.

BoboYekini:
Another one.

@julester, I was going to fly into a tirade and say how presumptuous, prejudicial and small minded you are. And then I see fellow Nigerians falling over themselves to label this DIQ (dude in question) a scam artist. Like you didn't know already. But that's the point. You always thought he was out for your food stamps, and you're here seeking validation for your twisted mind.
All's I got to say is, you're not welcome in Lagos. Plenty of friendly and open minded oyinbos here so don't even come and foul the air with your rancid mentality. You can get plenty of black cõck in Germany, no need to get on a plane.

Wow, what the Bleep is wrong with you? I'm not any of the attributes you stated, but hearing all these bad things is of course making you start wondering. I know exactly what to do. I'm in love with that kid, and I do wanna believe him, and I will drive this fucking ship against some cliff, if that is even necessary. All I wanted was some advice that would relax me, that's all. No need to be offending!

firstking01:
I'd love to learn the dutchsland/german.

Then go for it

chillingbabe:
He came up with the borrowing part so you would know it's not his personal money.Don't be surprised when he asks you for a refund later,cos he'll need to pay the person he borrowed it from. It'll still mean that you paid his ticket fee. Scamming is a gradual process, he can't just hit you once...it's gradually,he's almost there
The last sentence OYO "On Your Own" means you're on your own

Yeah, well, we'll see about that. I was really only asking, because I've been confused. I will only go as far as I can bear. I am generally a very sceptical person, so if he screws me over because of money, he will only be able to buy himself some ice cream cone, that's what!

chillingbabe:
I think you should go with this advice...Be ready to refund him the ticket fee because he will tell you he borrowed it and he needs to pay back...and you know he isn't working.. so you will definitely have to sort that out.
I think you should pretend and make him understand that you're only managing in Germany and you don't have much...then watch his reaction. So if he still decides to come, he wouldn't have the guts to ask you for a refund for the ticket fee he borrowed.
Secondly, only a scammer would spend time skyping apart from top business executives as this poster i quoted stated...
Just use your brain...If you fall mugu, OYO is your case!

Well, whatever the last sentence means , I already told him that I'm pretty short on money. Like, we were talking about sharing the expenses, and then he came up with the borrowing part

christinnah:
I mean is it a person's name?

No, it's an old word for 'citizen'. Sorry, I thought you wanted me to tell you what the German word "burgess" means, and therefore I said it's not a word

christinnah:
hey!!!

you're from german right?
can you pls tell me what burgess means in German?

It means "Bürger"

firstking01:
Who taught you english, dnt mind me i'm joking...for your topic, why is everything happening too fast??,,,i'd advice you give it time dear, let him convince you that he's for real so you won't come here and say that nigerians are scammers...my thought tho.

Wtf, wow, didn't know I'd sound that bad

delishpot:
It still doesn't mean he is not after what he is after. Do not come to Lagos. under no circumstance should you do that for a stranger.

I know, and I'm not gonna do it.

firstking01:
Btw, are you a german??

Yes. Why?

delishpot:
He prolly wants to leave Nigeria and sees you as a means to do so. He doesn't want to defraud you(money wise) based on your text.

He may not love you as much as you love him. If you feel inclined to, send him an invite but please, do not send him any money. Don't listen to those who say you should either.
Give him the invite and see how things play out when you guys finally meet.

But he wanted me to come to Lagos. It was me who refused to..

Jacksparr0w1207:
not all Nigerians are fraudsters. Just very little percentage are.

Since he didn't ask for money from you, he could be real and genuine


Anyways, Follow your heart but use your head

I wish you all the best

Thanks a lot

So that would be a thing if we shared the expenses? And that would not be a sign of a scam? And what if we meet in person, like, what is my proof that he's not scamming me? Sorry, these questions might sound naiv, but I'm pretty worried tho

Well not me, as I said he will borrow the money from friends I think

Hey,

about a month ago I met this nigerian guy on some flirt app. We started talking on Skype and Whatsapp, and we've had hours of video and text chats ever since. He said I love pretty fast, which confused me a lot, and I told him that he would be delusional if that was the truth, but he did not let go of me. I started falling for him, and now "I love you" has become part of our daily routine.

I started reading a lot about Lagos, his city of residence, and I came across the word "scam", which again both confused and worried me. I even confronted him with that, which first made him break out in laughter, and when I did not let go, he started being all offended.

He told me that he just finished schooling, but isn't able to find a job that would make him enough money to make a living, so he told me that he's supported by his family.

He never asked me for money. And he wanted me to come visit, but I told him that that would be too dangerous for me, and that he should visit me first here in Germany.

So that's the plan now. He told me that he will borrow the money for his ticket from people he knows as soon as he's able to show them his visa.

Yet, I read that many Nigerian/ African guys are only dating abroad that way they can live a better life.

I can't and I don't wanna believe that everything he told me so far is a lie.

What does this whole thing sound like to you guys?

Thanks for reading.