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Good morning everyone. The opinions have been very consistent: I should maintain my decision no matter how difficult it feels. I should get someone else when I can afford to.
Thanks everyone for ur input. God bless you all.

Thattallgirl:
I get. From her angle, are her parents financially okay?

No.. things are actually difficult at home. Dad is even Ill.
I understand that and it saddens me. But I can't endorse my girl going around just cos things are tight financially.
Truth is, if I weren't hurting I wouldn't be coming here to put up a thread.

Heartlessbanker:
you're not the first to say that. Everyone keep saying that. I just doubt your story

Maybe it's hard to believe. I'm actually a little surprised myself. But which part do u find hard to believe?

Heartlessbanker:
you're fake just as your story.....fake stories on NL these days

Seriously? I would stay up late this night, create a new account and type a story just so u can comment on it?
I don't know what to tell u

Thattallgirl:
I don't think u acted rashly. If she can't fend for herself and relying on guys to feed her, a time will come when she'll be given an offer she can't deny which will come with a sexual relationship. It's just a matter of time, cos rarely will guys continously give a girl money with no strings attached...such guys exist, but are rare.

Thanks. I appreciate this, especially coming from a lady. Although it does hurt a little. We were together for a long time

AfroKnight:
Sorry man.

No.

Fúck that!

Well done man.

You did the right thing. Can you imagine that kindergarten lie she spun? She go collect money without nakking? Shey she see tribal mark for your face ni? Anyway, you always knew the truth.

Your love was only as valid as your ability to spend on her.

Move on. She is not worth it. You may be having withdrawal symptoms because no nakking for now but hang in there. It’s for your own good.

That babe was about to pocket you. As in, she was about to get permission to cheat on you. That’s a mess! You’d see men drop her off but you can’t complain cos you agreed to the stoopeed arrangement.

I need to summon thunder to faya her wherever she is.

Lol. U r very funny with words. Thanks bro

MARX77:
She's giving attention to other guys and wants to keep them for the sake of money, so you should be in the relationship cheering her up or what? Or you should keep quiet acting like nothing is happening when you can clearly see your woman's attention and affection is now divided.

Chief, you didn't act rash... Let her keep the so called guys for money and give them attention. When's she's ready for an exclusive relationship with you, let me know... There's no time to invest your emotions in unstable people

Exactly my thoughts. God bless you brother.
Although I won't accept if she comes back.

solonubinho:
You ended relationship. You now want advice. Patent don die, you wan give am injection.

Sorry about that. Thing is, it just happened tonight. I was having double thoughts. We have been together for long. Thanks anyways

Hi everyone. I need your advice on this. I had to create a new account for anonymity sake.
I have been with this girl for about 3 years now before I relocated to a far away state last year. We have had our fair share of problems as it's in almost every relationship but we were okay. However, things haven't been very good financially for me recently, especially with this COVID-19.
Now, girlfriend is acting strange. After much pressuring, she admits to advances from other guys she is giving attention. She says she needs to collect money from them without doing anything with them.
I don't buy that crap. I have ended the relationship.
I need advice, I want to know if I acted rashly.
Is it possible for a girl to be getting money from guys without giving something in return?
Besides, distance is already straining the relationship. Thanks
If the mod could push this to front page, I would appreciate it for more input.