Hi everyone. I need your advice on this. I had to create a new account for anonymity sake.
I have been with this girl for about 3 years now before I relocated to a far away state last year. We have had our fair share of problems as it's in almost every relationship but we were okay. However, things haven't been very good financially for me recently, especially with this COVID-19.
Now, girlfriend is acting strange. After much pressuring, she admits to advances from other guys she is giving attention. She says she needs to collect money from them without doing anything with them.
I don't buy that crap. I have ended the relationship.
I need advice, I want to know if I acted rashly.
Is it possible for a girl to be getting money from guys without giving something in return?
Besides, distance is already straining the relationship. Thanks
If the mod could push this to front page, I would appreciate it for more input.

Waiting for the elders.

You ended relationship. You now want advice. Patent don die, you wan give am injection.

She's giving attention to other guys and wants to keep them for the sake of money, so you should be in the relationship cheering her up or what? Or you should keep quiet acting like nothing is happening when you can clearly see your woman's attention and affection is now divided.

Chief, you didn't act rash... Let her keep the so called guys for money and give them attention. When's she's ready for an exclusive relationship with you, let me know... There's no time to invest your emotions in unstable people

solonubinho:
You ended relationship. You now want advice. Patent don die, you wan give am injection.

Sorry about that. Thing is, it just happened tonight. I was having double thoughts. We have been together for long. Thanks anyways

MARX77:
She's giving attention to other guys and wants to keep them for the sake of money, so you should be in the relationship cheering her up or what? Or you should keep quiet acting like nothing is happening when you can clearly see your woman's attention and affection is now divided.

Chief, you didn't act rash... Let her keep the so called guys for money and give them attention. When's she's ready for an exclusive relationship with you, let me know... There's no time to invest your emotions in unstable people

Exactly my thoughts. God bless you brother.
Although I won't accept if she comes back.

Jumblejux:

Exactly my thoughts. God bless you brother.
Although I won't accept if she comes back.

Bro accept her for what na, when your heart knows a 100 percent she's giving other guys such attention. Are you a sucker for pain? When you're ready, go get yourself someone serious

You need advice on what actually? If you are to breakup with her again? You said it all 'you don't buy the crap', that's the advice.

Sorry man.

No.

Fúck that!

Well done man.

You did the right thing. Can you imagine that kindergarten lie she spun? She go collect money without nakking? Shey she see tribal mark for your face ni? Anyway, you always knew the truth.

Your love was only as valid as your ability to spend on her.

Move on. She is not worth it. You may be having withdrawal symptoms because no nakking for now but hang in there. It’s for your own good.

That babe was about to pocket you. As in, she was about to get permission to cheat on you. That’s a mess! You’d see men drop her off but you can’t complain cos you agreed to the stoopeed arrangement.

I need to summon thunder to faya her wherever she is.

AfroKnight:
Sorry man.

No.

Fúck that!

Well done man.

You did the right thing. Can you imagine that kindergarten lie she spun? She go collect money without nakking? Shey she see tribal mark for your face ni? Anyway, you always knew the truth.

Your love was only as valid as your ability to spend on her.

Move on. She is not worth it. You may be having withdrawal symptoms because no nakking for now but hang in there. It’s for your own good.

That babe was about to pocket you. As in, she was about to get permission to cheat on you. That’s a mess! You’d see men drop her off but you can’t complain cos you agreed to the stoopeed arrangement.

I need to summon thunder to faya her wherever she is.

Lol. U r very funny with words. Thanks bro

I don't think u acted rashly. If she can't fend for herself and relying on guys to feed her, a time will come when she'll be given an offer she can't deny which will come with a sexual relationship. It's just a matter of time, cos rarely will guys continously give a girl money with no strings attached...such guys exist, but are rare.

AfroKnight:
Sorry man.

No.

Fúck that!

Well done man.

You did the right thing. Can you imagine that kindergarten lie she spun? She go collect money without nakking? Shey she see tribal mark for your face ni? Anyway, you always knew the truth.

Your love was only as valid as your ability to spend on her.

Move on. She is not worth it. You may be having withdrawal symptoms because no nakking for now but hang in there. It’s for your own good.

That babe was about to pocket you. As in, she was about to get permission to cheat on you. That’s a mess! You’d see men drop her off but you can’t complain cos you agreed to the stoopeed arrangement.

I need to summon thunder to faya her wherever she is.

You have said it all bro..
Ubunja really exposed the female game on nairaland..
The babe want to pocket him to have a leverage to go on a cheating spree is clearly the Reverse psychology ubunja always talk about in his threads..


#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

Jumblejux:

Lol. U r very funny with words. Thanks bro

Bless up my G. You deserve better.


God no go shame us o.

Thattallgirl:
I don't think u acted rashly. If she can't fend for herself and relying on guys to feed her, a time will come when she'll be given an offer she can't deny which will come with a sexual relationship. It's just a matter of time, cos rarely will guys continously give a girl money with no strings attached...such guys exist, but are rare.

Thanks. I appreciate this, especially coming from a lady. Although it does hurt a little. We were together for a long time

Jumblejux:

Thanks. I appreciate this, especially coming from a lady. Although it does hurt a little. We were together for a long time

you're fake just as your story.....fake stories on NL these days

ABANGWABOI:



You have said it all bro..
Ubunja really exposed the female game on nairaland..
The babe want to pocket him to have a leverage to go on a cheating spree is clearly the Reverse psychology ubunja always talk about in his threads..


#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

That’s why we need to package that thunder for her. She think say she get sense.

The fact that she had the guts to even suggest it to the guy is an INSULT.

Women no get shame o. They can ask any kind of “favour”. They will test your mettle with all manner of nonsense. But na you go still clear the babe, as a man. You need to set unmovable boundaries to forestall such foolishness.

Heartlessbanker:
you're fake just as your story.....fake stories on NL these days

Seriously? I would stay up late this night, create a new account and type a story just so u can comment on it?
I don't know what to tell u

Jumblejux:

Seriously? I would stay up late this night, create a new account and type a story just so u can comment on it?
I don't know what to tell u

you're not the first to say that. Everyone keep saying that. I just doubt your story

Flyingpig,we dey wait for Tuesday oh
Cc:flyingpig

Heartlessbanker:
you're not the first to say that. Everyone keep saying that. I just doubt your story

Maybe it's hard to believe. I'm actually a little surprised myself. But which part do u find hard to believe?

Jumblejux:

Maybe it's hard to believe. I'm actually a little surprised myself. But which part do u find hard to believe?

OK now I believe you. The fake ones don't usually comment on their fake threads. No vex for the insult......lemme go back and read your post and give advce

Jumblejux:
Hi everyone. I need your advice on this. I had to create a new account for anonymity sake.
I have been with this girl for about 3 years now before I relocated to a far away state last year. We have had our fair share of problems as it's in almost every relationship but we were okay. However, things haven't been very good financially for me recently, especially with this COVID-19.
Now, girlfriend is acting strange. After much pressuring, she admits to advances from other guys she is giving attention. She says she needs to collect money from them without doing anything with them.
I don't buy that crap. I have ended the relationship.
I need advice, I want to know if I acted rashly.
Is it possible for a girl to be getting money from guys without giving something in return?
Besides, distance is already straining the relationship. Thanks
If the mod could push this to front page, I would appreciate it for more input.

you did nothing wrong. And no,a girl can collect money from a guy and have nothing to do with them. But this our girl,She's an entitled broke ass bvtch

Jumblejux:

Thanks. I appreciate this, especially coming from a lady. Although it does hurt a little. We were together for a long time

I get. From her angle, are her parents financially okay?

Thattallgirl:
I get. From her angle, are her parents financially okay?

No.. things are actually difficult at home. Dad is even Ill.
I understand that and it saddens me. But I can't endorse my girl going around just cos things are tight financially.
Truth is, if I weren't hurting I wouldn't be coming here to put up a thread.

Since she feels you can't provide for her, she should move on and meet those who she feels can. Besides it is difficult for a guy to give a girl money nowadays without expecting anything in return, it is very rare and so the probability that sooner or later your girl may fall and give in to their demands is very high.

Heartlessbanker:
Flyingpig,we dey wait for Tuesday oh
Cc:flyingpig

what about tuesday?

Jumblejux:
Hi everyone. I need your advice on this. I had to create a new account for anonymity sake.
I have been with this girl for about 3 years now before I relocated to a far away state last year. We have had our fair share of problems as it's in almost every relationship but we were okay. However, things haven't been very good financially for me recently, especially with this COVID-19.
Now, girlfriend is acting strange. After much pressuring, she admits to advances from other guys she is giving attention. She says she needs to collect money from them without doing anything with them.
I don't buy that crap. I have ended the relationship.
I need advice, I want to know if I acted rashly.
Is it possible for a girl to be getting money from guys without giving something in return?
Besides, distance is already straining the relationship. Thanks
If the mod could push this to front page, I would appreciate it for more input.

baba, abygirl wey dey collect money from other guys no love you again. I been dey toast girl wey dey very faithful to em ex, she no wan look my side for months but the moment she took money from me, e no tey she come my house. Now we are dating. All girl fit no be like this sha but most girls are. For me, I would break up and not look back twice. It's not easy dating when broke bro, just lay low and hustle, when you return financially, you can get a gf. If you get a gf when you're broke, she can easily be taken away from you. Again, not all girls are like that but most girls. The ball is in your court. Decision making as a man no dey easy.

You did well by ending the relationship. What happened to her hands, is she handicap? Can't she work for her money? I tire for some girls oo

They see relationship as poverty alleviation scheme. Smh

Heartlessbanker:
you're fake just as your story.....fake stories on NL these days

Since you knew the story is a fake one, why put all ur energy to click nd comment you for read nd pass to allow better people for input...

Fast, Wise and Furious.

Long Distance Relationship is a scam!

So, you made the right moves.

Enjoy yourself.

Good morning everyone. The opinions have been very consistent: I should maintain my decision no matter how difficult it feels. I should get someone else when I can afford to.
Thanks everyone for ur input. God bless you all.

Jumblejux:
However, things haven't been very good financially for me recently, especially with this COVID-19.
Now, girlfriend is acting strange. After much pressuring, she admits to advances from other guys she is giving attention. She says she needs to collect money from them without doing anything with them.
I don't buy that crap. I have ended the relationship.
I need advice, I want to know if I acted rashly.
Is it possible for a girl to be getting money from guys without giving something in return?

Baba, you've done the best thing to dish out the lazy handicap bitch away from your life. I keep saying this no girls is fucking loyal this days once they sight you aren't beneficial to them anymore be it financially, emotionally, physically etc.

My dear bro, she's gone forget about the babe cause shes on the verge of shit testing u to double ur hustle in other to foot her bills. She knows you will be affected psychologically when she told u shes getting it from other dude's No man want his girl to be taken care of by another dude