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Glink2018:
Who is this slowpoke quoting me? Oni kuure

It's your mother that is an slowpoke.

Pelaguis:
Hi guys, I'm in dire need of advise....I've been in a relationship with a very beautiful lady for the last 8 years. We started dating since we were in high-school and we are finalising plans to spend the rest of our life's together. She's currently serving and we plan on getting hitched after her service year. I recently found out that she's been in a situation-ship with a married man. I had my suspicions few months ago. When I tried reaching her around 8pm (she's usually always reachable) and she didn't pick the call, the phone was later switched off ...I called her room mate and was told she's not at home. She later explained that she went to the cinema with her female friends. She's a bit of a photo freak and does not miss the opportunity to take a good picture...so it was surprisingly convenient when I asked to see pictures and was told there was none. Fast forward to a few days ago

I needed her email details to update an account, I was still logged in when an alert of 40k came in.....we are extremely close hence I'm very familiar with people that could send her money. The name attached with the transfer was non I was familiar with. I confronted her and she came clean, that it was from a married colleague of hers, that he's sent her money twice. She claims there's nothing attached to it, he comes to her apartment once in a while, parks outside and they sit in the car and talk for 30mins to an hour they text almost everyday for long hours (4-5) and he's sent her one or two gifts. She swears they've never been intimate and that they've just gone out once the day she claimed to be at the movies with her friends.

I think they've never been intimate, and I'm tempted to forget about the whole thing but she broke my trust and lied to my face multiple times when I confronted her about things I'd noticed, she insisted I was acting out of proportion for being suspicious and assured me nothing was going on, when you've been with someone for so long you know the person almost completely...so I could tell something was off. The thing is she's adamant that all she did wrong was lie about going to dinner with him, she's making feel crazy for thinking she emotionally cheated on me, she feels collecting cash and spending so much time texting and chilling with a married man in the car is not an issue, especially when he's asked her out and is clearly interested in shifting her pants. Am I wrong to feel cheated on, should I continue with someone that thinks this way, is this a red flag??

sorry

SmellySperm:
When Adams give to Eves freely no one hears, but when Eves give to Adam the whole world hears

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Are you trying to justify the man killing his wife?

JayKayMaybachz:
Chineke!! This thread is as old as fvck..... Forgotten about it sef.... How you take find am Does it matter .... Errrrmmmm, you talked bout bonus here.....Okay, she denied me of 'em bonuses which is my right then.... Anyways, about cheating on my gf, she caused it.... Always giving me excuses that she was busy.... When she visits, she wouldn't want us have sex either.... Ah never knew she was buzy fvckin' her colleague.... Untill she got preggy....You know thatz the fruit of her buzinezz... She's married to the n*gga now sef.....Mtcheeeeeew!!

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All through the thread you've been sounding like someone that deserves to be cheated on.

Btw, there is no union that can give you rights over anyone's body....married or not, if they don't want to sleep with you, they never have to.

Glink2018:
It is because women add their burden and troubles on man's heads to carry on their behalf...and some mumu men take joy in carrying women 's burden and thereafter, they have a heart attack and die, and meanwhile, the woman is busy enjoying the mans benevolence and also extend it to her own extended family.. the woman will look for another mumu man to continue from where the last mumu man stopped...

There was a particular time I try to observe the interaction between the female gender...I then discovered that the interaction between female genders are always without cheating and a parasitic mentality but when it comes to interaction with the male gender, they will be thinking of how to convert properties, money, and wealth to their own...even among the married women...

You've spoken like the true ignorant creature that you are.

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