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aisha2:
Do you think I reported immediately he started calling me? It took me months to say it out because I assumed just telling him off will do it.

Stalkers are not normal people they are sick people with a twisted version of reality what works with normal people does not work with them.

Stalkers are not normal chasers, stalkers are mentally ill so ignoring their calls will only make them feel you want them but you are playing hard to get. Infact when I started shouting for help people assumed I was exaggerating till I gave someone my phone for the night who thought he could ward off the stalker for where?

Please read up on stalkers explaining to you may not make sense if you havent been a victim or known someone who was

Honestly, those people their wahala no be here o. And the worst part is that they have absolutely no idea that their behaviour is a symptom of mental illness, they think up irrational self serving explanations and they create all sort of justifications in their messed up minds to continue. @topic; I don't know if it's just me but the moment I find out my spouse is cheating all the love I have for him will die instantly. I'm not even sure I can ever care enough about him to contemplate confronting his mistress. She can continue sleeping with his worthless asss for all I care.

datalossvictim1: So if you have a daughter, giving her a bath would ......Inyama!!! I cannot even finish the sentence. That person is very sick in the head and should seek help ASAP!! Whether you stare hard or for two seconds nothing should happen!!

I remember watching a show relating to this topic. The person had to seek therapy.

The guy doesn't believe he is sick and so will not seek therapy. I honestly have no idea what his problem is.

aisha2: Yes you are, am sure when you pounce on a 10 year old you will justify it with the fact that she dressed seductively and you were aroused. IT IS NOT NORMAL, GET HELP, DONT ATTEMPT TO ROPE MEN INTO YOUR SICKNESS. I OWE NO APOLOGY, DONT GIVE NIGERIAN MEN A BAD NAME

Very well said.

For the record this is the definition of paedophilia from wikipedia;

Pedophilia or paedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children, generally age 11 years or younger

So the mere act of feeling urges for children is enough to make one a paedophile, even if you don't sleep with the kids.

lofty900: perfectly normal. like I said , its not the feeling that makes one a perv ( everyone is entitled to their feelings ) but doing the deed does.

My God.........

lofty900: u r not a guy so I don't expect to understand. A man's senses are hundred times more pro active than female's

I don't understand you. So are you still insisting that this thing is normal with men?

lofty900: jesus I can't believe I caused this kind of commotion

Please seek psychiatric help before you end up hurting a poor innocent child somewhere. Your lusting after kids isn't normal. Please seek help.

SAMBARRY: to you, him or the general public?

To the general public! And on another note, I offer my heartfelt apologies to any man/woman I offended with this thread. That wasn't my intention, and that's the God's honest truth.

SAMBARRY: the point is that op is giving lofty another chance to clear himself since he made a general statement or generalizing all men that THEY GET TURNED ON OR HARAWUSED STARING AT NAKKID KIDS.its in the thread up there na.

I don't see lofty coming back to post on this thread because what he admitted to is an abomination.

aisha2: Dont loose sleep. Its how irresponsible men operate, instead of owning up and getting much needed help they will attempt to rope others into their sadism. Thats how they have people believing that all men cheat instead of working on their problem alone they want to rope all men in their mess. These are the ones giving men horrid names.

Thank you. The way lofty sounded VERY sure of himself is what chilled me to my bone marrow. This thread was an emergency instant reaction from the shock I felt.

carefreewannabe: Why would anyone even "concentrate for a long time" on children's bodies?

Do I know? Sick perverts everywhere

carefreewannabe: I don't know what exactly went wrong with him but I think that he wants to deceive and to console himself that his urges are normal.

I hope that was the case. I don't want to believe the majority of men out there feel urges after concentrating for a long time on children's bodies. How despicable. I want to throw up

carefreewannabe: I believe you had good intentions dear.
I believe that there are more paedophiles than we like to imagine but I don't believe that majority of men are so sick.
I am convinced it is a deviant minority.

Thank you the dude was questioned repeatedly on the other thread and he insisted, repeatedly, that all men do it. I was wondering if the men around him, friends and family have told him they feel urges for children.

bellong: And why did you open a new account to discuss this?

I don't want him to come after my main account, maybe with alts or something, because I exposed him.

carefreewannabe: I think you are wrong with your accustion. I don't think the op wanted to create a hating thread but rather hoped to contradict Lofty. And I believe she has been successful so far.

Thanks love I don't have the time or interest in doing what that guy is accusing me of. Like I said before, the peadophile in question sounded so confident that all men are like him so I was worried.

pickabeau1: Ok... i will pass.. seems to be another hating thread in the works
If the poster is female... are her family members paedophiles (closeted or otherwise)
So if that sample is not indicative enough.,.. i dont know what will

Stop being sensitive. If this was a bashing thread I wouldn't have added question marks to the topic. I'd have made it a definite emphatic statement. Lofty's confidence is what made me rethink his statements and come here to ask.

fuckshit: FÜCK!!! FÜCK!!! FÜCKING shi/t
FÜCK!! Can't FÜCKING shi/t try to imagine it.
Please it's not true, every FÜCKING single man? FÜCK that shi/t

Are you lofty900?

Have you decided to change your stand because people said they'll keep an eye out for you?

carefreewannabe: I feel like throwing up

I know!

And the sicko was strongly supporting his stand that ALL MEN DO IT but won't admit it in public so I was wondering maybe they discuss these disgusting things with each other, share how they get aroused by little girls bodies.

The accusation that all men on earth get aroused by staring at the bodies of naked children was made by lofty900 on this thread;

https://www.nairaland.com/1855786/what-age-should-baby-stop#25457722

To say I was shocked to read it is an understatement and I started this thread to ask you men if it's true.


RELEVANT SCREENSHOT:
https://i57.tinypic.com/1zee161.png

Lofty009 went ahead to claim that you men will deny it because you don't want to be stigmatized.

RELEVANT SCREENSHOT


https://i62.tinypic.com/33e3lab.png

Are you guys aroused if you concentrate enough on bodies of small girls?

Do your children arouse you if you concentrate long enough on their naked bodies?

Please you can register a new account to own up to it if you don't want to admit it with your main account.
God forbbid bad thing. What won't I hear on Nairaland?