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Well I've been doing a lot of thinking and wondering how people are able to move on from loosing someone they couldn't live without, at a point in their lives.

I'll share a short story...
I was young and naive, and happened to have found myself in a situationship with a guy. We were like lovers within an undefined relationship. He was overprotective and very jealous, making sure that I didn't have guys around me. After 4 years of uncertainty ( an maturity on my part) I asked for the relationship to be defined. He said I was like a sister to him.
Gosh I was head over heels for him. This shattered me to pieces. Mumu me still tried to maintain the friendship with the nigga cos I was afraid of loosing him completely. I deceived myself with the idea that I could move on even while in contact with him.
He kept playing with my feelings going on and off on me for a while until I completely ghosted him.

This heartbreak affected me a lot and somewhat changed my personality from a sweet accommodating girl to a strict realist.
Till date I can't seem to go back to my old self.
This brings me to the question,
Is it possible to recover fully from a heartbreak?
If so, how?

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