Amerengues2:


It is not difficult, just follow these steps I will show you.

1) The first thing is to get your documents ready which are;

a) International passport and any other means of identification.
b) Birth certificate or affidavits of your age
c) State of origin,
d) Marriage declaration (If already married) or bachelor/spinsterhood affidavits. You can get this at the federal high court only which is #200 bike from the registry to the court. It will cost you #1500 each.
e) Passport for each of you.

2) Visit ecitibiz.com, create an account, choose new marriage, choose Ikoyi registry, fill all the required information.

3) There are three sections there which are general info, husband details and wiife' details.

b) In the general details, you will fill the information there and choose your date. Two dates are compulsory; The oath date and Marriage date. The oath date is a Tuesday while the marriage date can be any other date. On the site, there is a day there that requires additional fee I think Saturday. Tuesday to Friday is fine but Thursday is the busiest day. So choose Tuesday for your oath and any other day. Oath date comes first. This date must be 21 days earlier ie if today is 1st of may, you can choose 22nd of may up ward.

c) Scan all the documents above in their respective designation. However, there is no designation for your international passport so you will upload it under additional documents, then title it as International Passport for Adekunle Ajasin.

d) Ensure you check once again before submitting.

e) You will be asked to make payment at the process of final submission.

4) You will be asked to download remita which contains your marriage application details and the amount of #15000. Proceed to the bank to pay 15150 (charges inclusive). An e-receipt will be sent to your email. You can print this receipt incase the bank network is bad. But the bank will give you.

5) The payment validates your application form. So download the receipt alongside the main application form.
Kindly note that it will show "Open" when it's successful done. It will show "Edit" if it's not concluded yet.

6) Proceed to the registry with copies of each. 3 copies of the receipt and 1 copy of the rest documents uploaded.

7) If there was any document you didn't upload and you've submitted, you will receive a message on your phone and email a day befor your oath to upload it. It doesn't come with any penalty.

On the day of your oath, just attend early. It doesn't take time. Bring along #500. On or before that day, you will have gotten an approval message. If you didn't get, kindly go to the account or admin session, they will attend to you. But it isn't any big deal at all because you will get.

9) On the day of marriage, get there early as the number at the gate will be used to usher you in. Afterwards, they will call you in and give you guidelines. Refer back to the article above.

10) That's all. If you face any difficulty, kindly reach out to me. Will advise you but most importantly, the online chat support is very helpful

Can I dm you so I can get your number. I plan on getting married this year by God's grace. Though I am not yet in any relationship. Hopefully I will see my wife before the year runs out.

JOACHINpedro:

Problem solved

For poke nosing , know that she won't go further even if she wants to before.

mylove4God:


Inform your parents and close friends about it. They might know one

Well I have done so already.

Divay22:

I'm ready for the party

Which party? Did one that is yet to start..nawa ooo

olar2g:
Getting married is every gals dream, check ur self if u are dating ladies and they say they are not ready for marriage, bro something is wrong with u.
Is either u have attitude problem or u are tight fisted.
Bro. If u are ok and mature any lady u dated for 2 months will take in for u without proposing.

So you believe now that any lady you date first will be the one you get married to? Use yourself as an example so that I can understand better. I am waiting for your reply

MissTemi1:
Lol. Just trust God for all your heart desires. The right woman will come. And everyone of us looking for a good partner,God will do it

Okay, thanks and Amen

Lionessza6:


What you're mostly likely going to get is a woman that's *ready* for marriage like yourself,who mostly likely will marry any man that offers himself to her . And there are a lot of dangers to that ; she ain't marrying you ,she's marrying the idea of marriage and when problems come knocking at your doorstep (and they will),that is when you will know the difference between marriage and a wedding . Anyways, good luck with your search for a wife.

Let me open your eyes to something, once you are ready for marriage. Make sure sex is the least on your items. With that you will see the true self of the person within a short term. You can have sex if you want but don't make it a priority. And don't allow spending on you to cloud your reasoning too. Wit this two alone, you will know who he truly is within a short time.

sweetman2022:

That is exactly who he is looking for, to get someone like himself. Who is ready in all the parameters he listed.
You can't hide your true self in a relationship, except the other person just want to be in denial, which is what we do most of the times I believe you inclusive.
If you don't set what you want in a marriage before embarking on it, you will just marry any woman or man just for marry sake.
I don't know what you guys discussed in relationships or you guys just focused on spending, sexing, shopping etc.
Well the OP is right with his assertion. If you as a lady don't learn from this, You will just be jumping from one guy to the other.

That lady still don't get it. If I meet a lady now, within two weeks the kind of discussion I will have with you alone, will show me your personality and mentality. Like you ask her, I don't know what they do in relationships but I guess you are right, they just sex their life out.
That is why she and a guy above believe you have to date a lady 2 years or 5 years before knowing those key ingredients about her.

Kajaard:


Know her family and the types of friends she keeps.

I have this in mind, thanks

Lionessza6:
This sounds scary . It's like you're looking for a robot to marry ;you've made all ths planning for the future relationship even before you've consulted the potential partner . So what if you meet somebody you like and she wants to get married after a year or two ?. Relationships aren't about one party,that's why it's called a relationship, so you've got to be accommodating to someone else's dreams and goals as well.

Well that means she is not ready like I am , so no need to continue dating.
I know I am ready mentally, spiritually, emotional and financially.
So if she is not in this position yet, then we are not set to be.

JeffreyJunior:
So if he doesn't pray, he won't see a wife to marry?

Well he is a Nigerian and just like every Nigerian, I guess the first thing he needs to do is talk to his pastor.

This country is funny aswear.

Meet my pastor kwe...I don't even have a Pastor. It is ignorant for anybody to believe their pastor must have a hand in finding their partner.

NigerianAngelo:


Your first problem. They don't date. Before you approach somebody, you should have been sure of the person. Better remove any former Nigerian mentality from your head.

1. Make a list of four, five qualities you must have in a spouse.
2. Pray and fast 9 days. 40 days if you can (Lent is by the corner).
3. Marry the first person that so suits (1). Arrange marriages work, talkless of ...

Beware of any former Nigerian mentality.

I currently have in view your number 1 and 3 but your number 2 is a no go area for me.

Skyview01:


You want to date for 4months snd marry after just FOUR MONTHS of dating and you are supposed to be a 30year old?.

SMDH!

So with all your experience in dating for over multiple years you have not learnt your lessons about the main ingredient of relationship.
Well I have dated ladies over two years and learnt that I can actually know the necessary details I actually need within 3 to 5 months. Every other time we spend together was just frivolously and a waste of time for both parties.
Ofcos you can never know everything about a person no matter how long you spent with them.
But when it comes to marriage, like someone said above, I just need to know the most important things about her and four months is enough to get those details.
I have seen so many wasted their years in unfruitful relationship.
So pls don't keep someone's daughter captive in the name of relationship, and later dump her just to start from afresh again after four years or more together.

Ulunne777:
Mould one.Nl boys said good women finished after their mothers' generation.

Ofcos there are good women out there even when they are few today.

onumadu:
@OP, here's my advice:

Step 1: PRAY for sometime for a wife. I mean do spiritual work first. It may take a few days, weeks, months or even years. Do it nevertheless
Step 2: LOOK and LISTEN: Because you did the first step well, you will SEE her and KNOW that she is the one.
Step 3: Once you see and know her, ACT with faith ;i;e marry her.

No wife is perfect, but the steps above will bring you a wife that will definitely improve your life.

Good luck in your hunt!

Well I can relate with this, thanks

ibechris:
Pls,avoid a liability.

And also check the background of the lady u are about dating for marriage.

Do not let anyone deceive u oh that it does not matter.

Background checks is vital before any other thing.

What level of background are u recommending?
Atleast knowing her parents, siblings and few friends should be enough.
Or are u suggesting something else?

Duchessree:
Meet your pastor to connect you to a sister in your church. Or you can tell your friends and family that you're looking for a wife, if they see anyone interested they should connect both of you . lol

Unfortunately I am not the church type. I go to church occasionally now. I stopped taking them serious few years ago. So that place is a no go area.
I don't even like ladies that are attached to their pastors let alone I will go and ask my pastor.

sweetman2022:
This will not be an easy feat for you to achieve because you can't really know someone until you date them and you said you want to marry whoever you date since all must fall into this year.

I know it won't be easy but is it possible?

I ended my last relationship last year because the girl I was dating was not ready for marriage in all ramifications.
I have planned my marriage for this year, being that I have a stable job, side business, matured 30+ and I am ready mentally and spiritually.
I want to meet a woman and date her for at least four month then we marry and live a happy life.
I don't want to date someone I can't marry so I am being careful with the female friends I have now.
I need a matured woman, working class and also ready to settle down.
What is the best way you will advise me to go about it?