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it would be best that you told your new bf to hold off a bit,yes you started a new thing already,but its best you ask him for a time off to set your feet on the ground firmly again,and within this period,if he is close by,watch him and get to know his moves,so that when you are ready,you will have full info to run with,as for your ex who has got no time for you,its good you called it off,cos it doesn't make sense been in a relationship and communication is one sided,does he think without him you can not live,good riddance.please take a time off the new one to recoup and get to investigate (know better) your new bf,lest he be wearing a mask.


Would so love to chat,or talk more about your position and what to do,cos that's what I do,relationship help and advising.

Well on your birthday bad,but wetin you ma do to warrant that. Well sometimes we don't get to do anything to deserve what's served.

Like wen my babe told me she wast interested anymore 2days to val after I had gone to borrow to guy her a gold chain and bendant with her initial.the only thing I did wrong was stick to her "no sex" law....and after found out that she broke off cos I didn't give her sex.

Just free her....the regret should be hers not yours.

Am pretty better off now,though she doing good too,but we still friends....

So just free her.

Sienna,did you read my reply,its not always about the guys Ego,its about keeping face when people get to know,ego or not,the family name is soiled.the dilema is how to remedy the situation.

Marriages are based on truth and honesty,and can be dissolved once it is found out that it is based on deception...lies...and life threatening.

So you can tell him this,or you go find out what could cause one to file for a divorce,and then tell him to file for one,since he can't afford to keep seeing or living with her.

Then you will be assured of him been honest or just wanting to get down and keep some urges satisfied.

Single mum or not,you have a husband somewhere.

Its a Hmm case.
If the cheating started sometime in the marriage,then I must have been doing something that pushed her to do what she did. But if it had been before we got married,then I would file for a divorce,because the marriage was based on pretense from onset.

And if it was my actions that led her to doing wjat she did,then she has to answer for her actions,cos she has got the choice to have called my attention to my wrong doings,instead of taking the laws into her hands.if we still leave together in this case,it will be a war zone,till the Lords grace helps us forgive each other.

But what ever the case may be,I would think of the children first,if we have them, before any action,what so ever, is taken.

As for the guy,I don't have anything to do with him,but will keep a tap on his movements.

I am an INTERNALIZER.

All them guys we de talk sef,weting you go do if na your sister de her position. FYI you don't force or coerce a lady for sex,its ought to be a mutual agreement thing,even if she is not in the mood and deems it fit to give you,she can,but you don't force it.telling you to drop her off in lag was cos she toy you were a friend,but when she realised what you were,she made up her mind to use you.
Staying in a room with a lady all night doesn't mean you can do whatever you like,why you no enter toilet go self-service if na so e de do you.she may have been testing you,and you failed.your libido made you fail,and like that you will keep failing lest you controlled it,ladies will suck you dry and even if you get to have sex with one or the other,they will still milk you.

You got to treat a lady right,and she will give you all you want.

You got money,car and job,make better use of it than as a lure for sex.

You got two kids but not married,I will advise you to take her to the alter fast before you lose your kids to another man.

SEX is free but you got to do well to earn it....high libido or not..you got a will and the power to controll it.

Or you go f**k an ASHI.

Just be a good friend,support her when she needs it from,with time she will see the light in you,but if not,find you another and show her what you have.don't break her relationship,cos you might end up losing a friend and same will happen to yours.

tell a lie and live on the edge knowing you will have to tell another when the first is found out and you have to always remember the first one. Talk true for once and forget you ever said it.some will say its a "WHITE LIE".


We all lie.....no saint anywhere.


If a lie will set you free,then its the truth.

No be me talk am oh......na lie

blaise26.abj:
na wa o. people shld stop saying guys are all about sex. Like women don't like sex at all. It is a basic human need. Even death-row criminals are not denied it.

@OP: when u are in the friend zone and u wanna switch, don't do it abruptly. Take time. Plant the idea subtly and let her recondition herself. Don't change or start looking all serious like u are abt to hug a bomb strapped bokoharam. Never let her feel a change in the friendship.

Nice words blaise,
This SEX thing is a complex issue,the life drive in every human is the EROS,sex drive,not necessarily the act.the tot of it subconsciously keeps us driven to live,when you loss that drive,you start having the death drive control you,you become antisocial,suicidal,loss interest in things.
So when you say all a man thinks is SEX,you are not wrong cos you,the lady,was also driven by the same sex drive to realize that.talking of the act is another thing,ladies should not think that when a guy starts saying hello,his intentions is having sex with you.pls let's correct that notion.