Trutherme:


Some women see the warning signs even before they get married but they ignore those signs. I understand you are in Naija and there's not much you can do for this woman but does moving to a new apartment in order to avoid interrogation for murder make you sleep better?

I think so, there is nothing I can do for her since she doesn't want to leave. I feel like I am the one abused whenever she gets beat up. I need to move for my sanity.

bukatyne:


Leave to where?

I am wondering why you are salty this blessed afternoon.

K

bukatyne:


I did not say the husband did right (why you would assume that is a wonder) ; I said she is in the best position to answer why she is still staying since you are concerned about it.

And I have updated my post for 'further clarity.'

I am curious to know your old moniker/alternate

I don't see how my old moniker is of concern to you, just post your opinion and leave.

bukatyne:
And you opened a new account to talk about your neighbor's marital issues?

Your neighbor would be in the best position to answer why she continues in a marriage where she is battered without doing anything.

Even if she does anything, is beating her and in front of her kids the right thing to do ?

This my next door neighbor, her husband is always beating her even in front of their kids. It has become a norm for her to receive beating two to three times weekly, he beats her and sometimes locks her outside with her two kids.

Most of the beating always happens when she asks him money for food, this her husband is rich always driving around with small girls in his car. When I ask her to leave, she would say no that she doesn't want her marriage to break up. I wonder what she is protecting. The type of abuses I am seeing, domestic violence is a norm, cheating is a norm.

Nigeria marriages are scary.
I am moving to a new apartment, just if my neighbor's husband ends up killing her, I don't want to be interrogated for murder.