₦airaland Forum

Progressive01:
Your brother wrote..

Are you a wawa or from abakaliki?

if only you are this active on the now weekly burials of your kith and kin facing ethnic cleansing from marauding fulanis but of course you are like the useless governor of benue state who has enough energy to engage wike who is feeling pity for you harpless and abandoned people of benue state.

Amarabae:
She is fond of you and the next thing your mind gives you is that she want sex?haba. why are men like this.
its likey that she is just fond of you with nothing else in her mind.

...i am not a baby...and i have been used to women coming around and tryna be friendly and all...and i certainly know when they want to do...there are the onces who just like you and all but you can always see that its just pure likeness and nothing more...some of them can even be young married women...i know and understand all of that and there no harm in them...but i also know when a woman want you to do...i can always see it in their eyes.

Nelgenius4me:
Dear Married Man,
Kindly remind this lady that throws herself at you that you are married and keep distance from her. A little fire can become conflagration#BeGuided.

...absolutely

anyebedgreat:
True talk. And most of the people dying are those that have been wishing Buhari dead.

WELL I DONT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR ANYONE TO WISH DEATH ON A DEAD PERSON.

nonsobaba:
Very ingenious products developed mostly by Anambra engineers in the Biafran army.

sense is cheap try to buy small add to the sawdust your carrying about...IBERIBE BU AJO ORIA! KWUSI IJIYA NA ASA AHU

...AND illiterates AND drug barons...AND killer herdsmen...AND boko haram members.

linearity:
Honestly, there should be no diplomacy in telling her an emphatic No, don't say or behave in a manner that she will interpret as you empathizing with her or that you understand her situation or the reason(s) she might be having such feelings.

Tell her you are married and are offended that, she does not respect your marriage, yourself or your wife. Tell her you love your wife and will remain faithful to her.

I believe the above is civilize enough; you are not calling her names, or disparaging her, you are just telling it as it is.

YOU ARE RIGHT

MrBrownJay1:
Friend/ customer / neighbor etc.... Same disrespectful act.

so in the case of customer how best do you go about it?

NCAN PLS DO THE NEEDFUL

MrBrownJay1:
Again, tell your wife and be done with this issue, or keep playing yourself about keeping such disrespectful female friends in your life.

she is actually a customer.... this are some of the things you should have askd

Jacksparr0w127:
do you take drugs?

DOES this place look like where you can peddle your drugs...you are high on your own supply too bad.

zealblinks:
It's very simple bro. Just call her tell her that you are a married man, you ain't interested simple. And if your still on i dont want to hurt her that means something is between you guys that you dont want to tell us.

your first sentence was all that was needed...dont know why you had to add that misunderstood line

linearity:
Your downfall will be your fear of 'bruising her feelings'. As long as you have that as an objective knowing fully well her ulterior motives, you will eventually compromise, not today, no tomorrow, but very soon. Obviously, she does not care about the sanctity of your marriage.

So, you have to decide which is of more importance to you; the sanctity of your marriage or bruising her feelings, then act accordingly.

i think some of you misunderstood that line ...telling her off without bruising her feeling......what i simply meant was how to cut her off in a civilized manner...thats all.

MrBrownJay1:
Well you seem to forget that there are two people that feelings may be hurt here.... But sadly you decide to care about this lady's feelings while disregarding the feelings of your wife on the issue. You clearly have shown which is more important to you.

i donT think youd make a good judge ...this matter has not gotten to where you are taking it...and worst, you dont listen, you simply pickd the first thing i said and held to it with a baby grip...

MrBrownJay1:
Your focus is on this girl, and how not to hurt her feelings while it should be on your union... Here is a clue: if there was a male friend of your wife bothering her for sex, would you really want her to A) stay in contact with such person, B) care about not hurting his feelings and C) ask NLers what to do instead of telling you?!

Again, ask your dear wife for the solution

I DO UNDERSTAND YOUR POINT ...but you seem to have this feeling that i want to sleep with her which is a no no... that i put up the matter here for discuss should not be seen as a weakness but as a strength of my ability to make open such matter to show it is nothing of importance to me.

dpete1:
If you told her already and she is still not leaving you, just tell your wife bout it. Let your wife treat her Bleep up

Hmm! you are on point.

MrBrownJay1:
If you indeed have no intentions of cheating then you wouldnt't have opened this thread caring about what this disrespectful woman thinks. If she had any respect for you or your union, she wouldn't try to have you cheat on your wife.



If you really cared for your union and really don't want to cheat then you must get rid of such disrespectful women from your life. The fact that you even care about not hurting her feelings is disturbing, and if you truly need advice on what to do, then i suggest you ask your wife, she will surely have the proper solution.

YOU are mean and suspicious ...i will not do anything with her and thats it ...i am very discipline person ...and she is not the first person to come along. ...YOU ARE RATHER TOO PRESUMPTIOUS IN YOUR JUDGEMENT BOTH TO ME AND EVEN TO HER ...you probably shoulda asked one or two questions before making conclusions

folarinmiles:
Fvck her na. No time to waste time

didnt i warn you about the absence of trash can here? now there is no where to put this your okpata

TosinDru:
Sometimes it's better to go on the offensive. If you try telling her in a mild manner, she might think you're actually interested in her and that's why you're taking it lightly. Better safe than sorry.

you have a point there...

Parpor:
Lols. U Berra no allow her temptations catch u ohh,trust me you won't like it at the end

naaa that is a no no

Parpor:
Lemmi just book a space first

IS ALLOWED ...just no yan okpata in the end because i no get dustbin here.

SHE IS JUST SO FOND OF ME AND I KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS ...BUT I HAVE NO INTENTION OF CHEATING ON MY WIFE ... AND I WILL NOT... all i need is advice on how to tell this lady off without bruising her feelings. ...Thanks in advance! ...and please i have no trash can to resident okpata from kids here... ONLY MATURED AND SENSIBLE ADVICE PLS! THANKS!

hardywaltz:
No nonsense PMB
Hope my fellow Igbo brothers can see how PMB treats his fellow Northerner so let there be no protest when such is meted out to any lawless Igbo public official.

and how did he treat his people with appointments into his hausafulani federal government of northern nigeria? IBERIBE BU AJO OYA

Rilwayne001:
Sense is far away from you .

not as farther as it is from your father and mother...who couldnt even be sensible enough to properly dispose a condomed thing like you.

Zenithpeak:
Oga Karl Max when did you invented it?

bros i am not the inventor of that badluck...that would be the handiwork of the aforjus and their almajiri masters.

BOKO HARAM

...benue leaders are as useless as that their nairaland representative...slaves

...WE KNOW

STORY ...e don tey wey almajiris don dey deceive aforjus... which is why this contraption is eternally on auto circumlocution

...when are we ever going to hear good news under this administration?

if its OK with whosoever decided to wife her then no problem...but sometimes time IS the best and only teacher.