₦airaland Forum

I hate it when people try to put their beliefs across using God. It's blasphemy.

Pathetic isnt it? Probably one of those people that dont use lotion/deodorant/toothpaste etc all in the name of being natural

why not stick to pako?

Those with natural hair tend to use chemicals as well, like gel and what not. It's just as unhealthy as the other stuff so quit crying

Anyways most people with natural hair are seen as radicals just like during the civil rights movement people wore their hair natural to show their appreciation for how God made them. I didn't realize that being radical could make someone feel important.

50 years ago they were considered as "radicals", now no one thinks twice when they see it nor do they care. They didnt do it to show any "appreciation". They did it to be like "we're not like the rest of you that are oppressed"
People do it all the time now and no one gives a damn, they WANT people to notice them now and think they're unique hence the condescending attitude.

Lol @ abominable act. fayahsoul, go and sit down. You're making noise.

whats so healthy about using beeswax on your head like the dreads do?

Point is why are people so bothered with what others do with their own head?

How are you so sure it's not her own hair?

savanaha:
You fail to see that one is adding on to what is their own hair type while the other is wearing something that is totally different from what they are.

Adding is adding. everything else is merely an excuse.

savanaha:
Bs. how can girls with natural hair be "hos" when most black people men and women think that the whiter you look the better you are.   Most people that go natural are often seen as the radicals not assimilating to the norms and earthy. Most "hos" on the other hand want to look cute with the crazy colorama weaves and what not.

  I don't get why when people say things with relevance even history can attest to they are seen as elevating themselves on a "pedestal" (pedastool). Virgins are also seen as acting holier than thou and what not.

For example Erykah Badu and her fatherless children yet with the same mouth she screams against processed hair like you're doing now

Maybe if she minded her business, she'd know the father of her children.

She's not the only one guilty of this though hence my snide comment.


and no one looks at those iwth natural hair as being radicals. That's just what they want to beieve to make themselves feel important.

savanaha:
Paris Hilton is also wearing weave her hair color and texture and not an afro or one the texture of a black persons hair. When black people wear weave are they doing the same?

Um Yea? Never seen an afro or kinky weave before?

savanaha:
I don't think is holier than thou. I see people wear weaves even after their hairline have all fallen out and am like why don't they stop destroying their hair. Anyways judging by your post you do admit that going natural is "self-improvement."

Have you seen the hairline of the editor of Essence Magazine? She only braids her hair yet her hairline now starts from behind her ears

savanaha:
t they probably wear weave extension that long like their natural hair. Blacks wear weaves most of the time that look nothing like their natural hair.

I fail to see the difference between the two. Seems like you're making excuses for white people to me. It's ok for them to add hair to their natural hair but black women arent?

What I don't get is why those who go for that "Natural" look have this "Holier Than Thou" attitude. As if their one act of "self-improvement" places them onto a pedistoole.

wish I knew. I braid my hair more than I perm it yet I dont go around thinking Im some special star

Cant stand girls like that. Doesnt help that most of them are the biggest hos but that's a whole different thread  

savanaha:
The sex tape has to do with the irrelevance of bringing up Paris Hilton who has done enough idiotic things that it is obvious she has self issues. N

Pnce again, Paris has complete relevance to this topic cos she OWNS A WEAVE LINE called Dream locks which she advertizes with her own head. Many white celebs patronize this line as well so whether she's a sex fiend or whatever crap has nothing to do with the fact that she wears a weave and so do the many that buy her stuff

You sincerely think those country singers with the big puffy hair, you think that's their hair?? Rofl.

Abeg

Jakumo:
Karma,   Alek Wek is so masculine looking that only a gay man could ever really find "her" sexy.   She was deliberately elevated to the status of a super model just to SPITE all black women, by reminding them just what they would look like if they retained natural frizzy hair.  

Like Savanah mentioned, Tyra Banks, on the other hand, has a look that would reduce most men to pleading, 3-legged horn-dogs, and WHO CARES what she does to her hair or body to look so devastatingly sexy.

I dont think Wek is masculine at all. Infact her face is very childish.

Tyra got in cos of her colored eyes. Not her hair. when she first started modeling, she did NOT wear weaves.

I was hoping for a complete suprise

Neither Hiliary or Richardson

Alex Wek has never worn a weave. is she not a runway model? She's been one for years now. Weave-less.

Tyra ko. Taiwo ni.

what does her sex life have to do with the fact that white women also wear weaves

The was the point, what the hell does sex tape have to do with anything

They are worn for versatility. If your hair is short and you wnat it long for an evet, you can. If you want it short for an event, instead of cutting your own hair, you can get a short weave.

If anyone is bringing in irrelevant crap its you

alagolo, we're talking real SOs, not spirtual husbands

Jakumo:
The one category of black "beauty" products that to me do signify intense self-hate are skin bleaches, which generally contain highly poisonous mercury compounds which sicken, disfigure and often kill users, and which do not EVER produce the intended result of making a black woman appear white.

Definitely agree with you here

and I dont know why those with afros or natural hair are lauded so much as being "unique". No one stares at a woman with an afro/kinky twist, etc. If indeed they are staring NEGATIVELY, it's most likely your face.

Nonsense

I just took out my braids a few hrs ago, looks like ive been electrocuted, went out and there were no weird "omg why isnt her hair permed?!" looks so spare us the rubbish

does Paris Hilton hate herself when she wears her weave?

who be bro? O l'eko

when did baba Sweet T come back

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=199008.msg3124832#msg3124832 date=1227400405]I am almost sure that topic has been created.[/quote]actually it was called "Nigerian Girls are Dirty" specifically Yoruba Girls

of course none of the guys remember that

what is skunk

why is it titled part time lover if the dude is just an ex who's now a friend?

liar. I can name a few movies where he gummy mouth has been kissed

can we ban snazzy84?

Yahooze

No one has hatred, just stop acting like an expert on Naija marriage/relationship UNTIL the day comes when he gets his greencard and he;'s still with you 10 years later. Then none of us will bother you  

sista women, tread lightly when speaking of the Yorubas

Handsome is as handsome does, and just as there are black women who some may not consider wife material, likewise there are black males who can't be considered husband material by any stretch of the imagination.

There you go.

sistawoman:
You mean to tell me you don't know any white baby mama's with black daddies?    Sista you really have to get out more.

Black men can only pull that shit on trailer trash. However they can pull it on majority of BA women.

You know if a person is going to give so much about themselves/life on NL, they should remember that some of us have excellent memory

Jus' saying

tpia:
who are these real men you're referring to?

I wonder. If a black man can marry the white woman he knocked up, why is there an excuse for not marrying the black woman he knocks up?

what bloody difference does it make