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A young woman has been thrown out of her matrimonial home by her husband after he’d used his fists and then his belt on her… Don’t be too quick to reason domestic violence.

From the husband’s reply to neighbors who cared enough to ask the “usual wetin happen, kilo șelę”; this woman doesn’t know where to draw the line between her husband and her male friends.

When the moral wall of the society was still very strong, it wouldn’t be heard (not to talk of seen) that a woman/man have thisclose male/female friends unknown to their spouses; it was an outright tufiakwa matter, even colleagues at work were known to spouses.

These days that public display of affection (PDA), passed down to us by the western world is the order of the day, it is common (especially among young people) to call any random person honey, sweetheart, boo, my love and pet names like these and act same way even when you’re very much “taken”.

As endearing as the practice is, it must be mentioned that not every guy/girl has grown enough emotionally to bear the feeling of fondness that comes with being called pet names without cooking up romantic emotions (even in places they don’t exist).

On this fateful day, this woman was escorted to her bus stop by a male colleague (a crush more aptly; the husband has severally seen them both in places and proximity too close for comfort) in her workplace.

Coincidentally, the husband just alighted from a Keke, he was going home too. He could see his beloved playing Juliet to another Romeo from where he stood at the other side of the road. They were going back and forth and touching each other in a way unbecoming for a married woman.

He decided to do a nollywood on them and watched this movie to the end so that no action would be left out incase someone else was to narrate the story to him.When “to be continued” appeared on the screen. He gave his wife few minutes to get home. He immediately followed her. On getting home he didn’t exchange pleasantries with neighbors like he usually does. He went straight to the wife and without any question began to pounce on the woman with punches and later his belt until neighbors came to her rescue.

According to the husband, the woman has had this challenge since when they were dating. He’d report her to the dad but baba was positive marriage would change her. Well, somebody should tell the old man that marriage didn’t or hasn’t change her. Perhaps a better upbringing would have done what he expects marriage to fix.

Marriage has only magnified a weakness that could have been corrected long time ago. There is a lesson here; young people have so many baggage of relationship issues before and during marriage, personal and social. They tell themselves marriage will change it. Marriage won’t my dear. It’ll only magnify your strength or your weakness, depending on which is dominant.

Up until now, I still wonder why and how my #first love could forget about me patapata in spite of howclosewewere. Now, I’m learning that some experiences are better when prevented rather than leaving them till they are full blown and then looking for a one-cure-heal-all-solution.

https://theexcellentway./2017/04/10/singles-work-on-your-personal-weaknesses-marriage-wont-fix-them

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GoodMuyis:
I Timothy 1:9 - Knowing this, that the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and for sinners, for unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers,

If you obey God's LAW, you dont have to fear about Govt law. the law of the land does not stop you from going to Heaven IF you obey God's LAW Jesus paid tax to avoid trouble with the then present govt. so if you wanted to avoid being stop from doing your business, pax tax

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Thanks for the contribution

neolboy:
read roman's 13vs1-7

This reference was supposed to address the issue of whether a believer is to go ahead and honour civil authorities when they make laws that are not convenient.
Rom 13:1-7

Thank you

DeSepiero:
Let me get this straight. You believe in God, and you don't know if he'd be pissed at you and throw you in 'hell' for defaulting in civic duties?
Hence you've sought and would further believe a convincing response from some other believers here?

Maybe you need to be more realistic and less speculative.
As for what makes sense to you, you should understand why I chose to use "more sensible".
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DeSepiero:
Replace the 'Hell' with 'Jail' and ask a more sensible question.

I think you're are saying the wages of tax defaulters is jail. Are you in essence saying God doesn't care whether a believer defaults in tax and other civic duties..

For the question being sensible or not, you have no idea what makes sense to me or not.

Thank for your contribution

amerimex:
No adult you knw pay tax? Bro, u and all d adult you know needs orientation, tax is ur civic responsibility
To your question, my question; are tax payers heaven bond?
Read d bible holistically to have good undstanding

We need orientation , I agree with you.
Bear in mind also that my use of hell for tax defaulters doesn't connote heaven for those who pay tax.

The set of Christians I have in mind before asking this question are those who're righteous in all things except tax and other civic duties.

I appreciate your comment

I can't stop thinking about this in the past few days... Will a Christian go to hell for not paying tax seeing that payment of tax is encouraged in the Scriptures (Rom 13:1-6 and Mark 12:16-17).

Now no adult I know pays tax. I understand everything goods and services we pay for have been taxed albeit I know that's not the only tax we're to pay.

There are many justifiable reasons why most people don't pay tax in Nigeria these include :
1. Lack of confidence in the government
2. Corruption
3. Infrastructural decay despite past tax adherence
4. Multiple taxation

Should a Christian continue to pay tax regardless whether he sees the effects or not, Can he use the above "justifiable reasons" to avoid tax? Will God excuse him on that ground? Will he go to hell for civil disobedience?

Please, people of Faith Let's contribute.

Mediator97:
PESSIMIST: A person who says that "O" is the last letter in ZERO instead of the first in OPPORTUNITY.
MISER: A person who lives poor so that he can die rich.
FATHER: A banker provided by nature.
CRIMINAL: A guy not different from others, unless being caught.
BOSS: Someone who is early when you are late and late when you are early.
POLITICIANS: Someone who shakes your hand before election and your 'CONFIDENCE' after election.
DOCTOR: A person who kills your ills by pills and kills you by bills.
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Undergraduate: a young university student eagerly studying what he will most probably not use in his adult life

Hustler: someone who leaves home early and return late at night just to avoid the boredom of idleness

Entrepreneur : someone who didn't get a job and decided to "start something" as he is not getting younger

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