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Good morning,
please i have messed up my life and the only thought i have now is to just end it all..am in a debt of about 600k and they are on me, my family is already feeling ashamed of me because of how the person has been going about the whole thing.
all this started in 2020 when i lost my job, my mum got sick and later died last year after spending all my life savings and even sold the property i bought while working in the bank.
am the first child with with wife and 3 lovely kids but my wife left with the kids when things got so tough for me. have tried seeking for financial help from people around but no one is willing to assist as things are quite tough for everyone. where am working in owerri currently, the pay is not enough to sort out child support and right now am been pressured and the only thing that has been crossing my mind for the past 1 week is to just end it all.

Someone should kindly assist on how best i can overcome this temptation. My dad is not feeling strong too at the moment.

Thanks

Hunter102:
When did you receive the mail?

2 days ago

2 days ago

I got this mail from fidelity;

Fidelity Bank Recruitment | Employee Reference Form


Sequel to your interest in working with Fidelity Bank, kindly fill and immediately send back the attached form (passport photo affixed) to enable us process your recruitment further

Also send scanned copies of the under listed documents:

1. Evidence of current Employment

2. Last promotion letter

3. Evidence of current grade

4. Copy of last payslip and bank statement (three months back)

5. All credentials, including birth document

I will be available for further clarifications as may be required.

Thank you

What else should I be expecting?

It's very possible your elder brother's problem is spiritual and I suggest you don't be in a hurry to distance yourself from him rather try and see if there are people who can assist in getting his problem solved.. Am also a victim of such a situation, am the first child of my family and was doing great as a banker until I lost my job few years bank and since then it has been from one issue to the other.. Am currently battling depression couple with the fact that I later lost my mum this year to poisoning. Look, some first son passes through a lot in some family and I believe most of this situation requires prayers and God sent destiny lifter to enable some of us escape the where we finds ourselves. Giving up on him now will not help even though I know it's difficult.

Please I need advice from someone who has been in this situation before.

Lost my job last year and managed to start up a little business with borrowed fund but this are really getting so bad that I can't even pay the money I borrowed and they are all me. The whole situation is making me feel disappointed on myself.
Have submitted CV to couple of companies to see if I can get a job but nothing is coming up. I really need advice.

Thank you