biolabee:

that is strange
this act of stigmatising the women cant it drive the women out

Quetion for the ladies

How do you cope in social contexts - chruch, mosque, traditional ceremonies
How do wives of your male friends perceive you

Some churches do not judge but the issue is that certain individuals like married women judge. Some feel they are better than the single moms. They pre-judge thinking oh it's the woman fault.
Maybe she was not patient enough or she is an ashewo. Some even go as far as coming up to their men as soon as they see you walk in. Oh, if they only knew that a lot of these single moms don't want their man. Some are content being happily single and for others they do not want the same thing to happen twice so they tread cautiously when it comes to relationships. Like I said earlier strive to Be HAPPY and make sure you do not derive your happiness from any individual.

What a breath of fresh air that people are willing to share experiences. I can imagine how it is being a single mom or dad in Nigeria. The stigma but it is even worse abroad. The African community automatically calls a single woman "promiscuous". It is very sad how single moms are misunderstood. One thing I want everyone to know is that not one single soul wants to be a single parent. Sometimes in Life you cant help the cards you are dealt with but instead of making this an obstacle. Make it a challenge of improving your life. There is always a reason why things do not work out. It took a while for me to snap out of it but once I did I realized I was way better off without my ex. In retrospect, I laugh that I actually thought that my life began and ended with him but with God I have done more than what I thought I could ever achieve.
One thing is that no one prepares for it but once it happens you take it in stride and live your life. To all those who are bitter and feel all men are the same I will tell you as a living witness that there are still a few stand up, loving caring men out there.
Dating is a hassle but I always tell any man about my daughter. It's a done package take it or leave it. Love me but you need to know we are one in the same package.My daughter will not be hidden. To all the single parents out there keep your head up, live life and enjoy it. It's not a disease, nothing to be ashamed about. For all the judgmental married women out there some who are actually enduring to stay married it's your choice but do not look down on someone just because they're a single mom. It can happen to anybody. He who weareth the shoe knows where it pinches. That is not what life is about. Be HAPPY.

I seldom respond to any threads but this takes the cake. I am so impressed and it gives hope to those of us that are waiting for Mr. Right after weathering a storm. Many thanks to Mr. Serubawon

what do u need.

Hello everyone, Just wanted to let you know that there is now a RCCG in worcester,MA. It took us a while to get the parish up and running. We have been petitioning and finally we have our own parish. The Pastor in charge is Pastor Emeka Godwin.
Come and worship with us
For more info pls pm me
or email me at keji56@yahoo.com
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70 James st suite 129b
worcester,ma 01603
phone: 508-740-4806
508-468-7281
Tues-7pm-9pm
Thur- 11am-12pm
Sun-10Am-1230pm

RCCG WORCESTER, MA
a NEW PARISH HAS BEEN INITIATED IN WORCESTER, MA
WE INVITE YOU TO WORSHIP WITH US
COME AND EXPERIENCE THE AWESOMNESS OF GOD.
LOCATION 70 JAMES ST SUITE 129B
WORCESTER, MA
PH:508-740-4806
TUES 7P-9P
THUR-11AM - 12PM
SUN 10AM - 1230PM
LED BY PASTOR EMEKA GODWIN

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