The No 1 relationship killer is the ego (the myself, the me, the I). Remove ego and all the 10 points above will be eliminated.

skillz111:
i have what I know for certain is both party can't be right or wrong and when the truth prevails eeriebody would eventually see who would be disgrace but nobody can be trusted you are guilty until proven innocent and am referring to both parties

I think you got that backwards..... Is it you are guilty until proven innocent? Or innocent until proven guilty? Lol

Funny enough... By this time next year nobody will remember all these...

[b][/b] First of...I AM NOT JUDGING, ACUSING, OR AQUITING ANYONE.

Wisdom, the holy book says is the principal thing.

This whole Reality Show started from the supposed "gift" the pastor gave to help someone in need.
THIS IS ONE OF THE REASONS WHY THE BIBLE SAYS.... WHEN YOU GIVE ALMS, DO NOT LET YOUR LEFT HAND KNOW WHAT YOUR RIGHT HAND IS GIVING. This way you avoid becoming attached to the help you have rendered and avoid taking advantage of it.

Now... The question is why didn't the Pastor delegate the matter of philanthropy to someone in his team... Probably a worker in his branch in Canada where the lady resides?

I can't imagine a pastor like Papa Adeboye or Kumuyi sending money from their private accounts to a lady who just called and asked for help. Their are channels for that.

Anyways... God is Just and he sees all. May the truth be revealed.

Ok. He tried

I can totally relate to this story.

I made that journey once (or rather Twice...I actually crossed the Sahara Desert to and fro). oh....the adrenaline...the reality of living between life and death... when nothing else matters but life and the air we breathe each second that we so take for granted...

Death stares at you and you use all your will to keep your eyes open. At that point nothing else matters...you just want to get home and fall into the embrace of your loved ones. A new vista of understanding opens up to you and you begin to see life differently. I gazed into the endless distance of the desert sands one evening at sunset and i had an epiphany....hmmmm. The journey was a big mistake...but somehow I am glad I was there and back again. It was an adventure of a life time.

I Thank God I am alive.