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Here's a very simple technique that takes 3 minutes that you can practice anytime you start to feel overwhelmed by your fearful, angry feelings and negative thoughts.

Use this technique when your negative thoughts and feelings are keeping you from functioning in your daily life and you want to shift them to more empowering ones. Negative thoughts and feelings can become a habit but they can also be changed.

1, SIT--Sit in a quiet place. (The bathroom will do).

2, SETTLE--Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, bringing your breath into your feet so that you feel grounded and connected to the earth. Feel yourself slowing down and your breathing deepen. (Maybe 30 seconds)

3, AWARENESS--Come into awareness of your negative thoughts in this moment. (What exactly are you thinking? Example: "I�m thinking that I'm a real loser when it comes to relationships."

4, ASK�Ask yourself if you know your negative thoughts to be true�absolutely true. Can you find evidence to the contrary? Chances are you can find somewhere in your life where your thoughts cannot be substantiated.

5, ALLOW�Bring your attention to your heart or gut area and feel the sensations in your body. (What are you feeling in your body? Is there tightness, a big knot, emptiness, heaviness?) Allow your sensations to be there without judging them and breathe into that area of the body. (If you feel heavy in your heart area, breathe into that heaviness until the sensation softens. If you felt a knot in your gut area, breathe into that knot until it starts to loosen.)

6, REPLACE�Replace the limiting, self-defeating �movie� running in your head to one that is more in alignment with what you want in your life�because the reality is that both outcomes are possible. Run this new movie whenever you feel your negative thoughts coming up in the future. (If you know that your negative thoughts aren�t true but you see yourself alone forever and in pain, replace that "movie" with one that could happen that you'd like much better. See yourself taking your next step in an empowered way instead of the damaging cycle you find yourself in.)


Practice this as many times a day that you need. Keep a copy of it with your phone in case you are tempted to call your ex. Put a copy in your car to remind you to stop yourself before you drive by his or her new living situation.

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We are all subject to temptation - it is simply how we deal with it that matters.

Sometimes we have the power to ignore it and therefore we do not succumb.

At other times we fall victim to it, and then it is just a matter of what we do next:

1. We have to accept that we are not perfect, that sometimes we slip up and that our partner does not need to know because the infidelity was basically a dalliance - if we do this, then we have to allow our partner the same mishap. It is best to say nothing.

If we say something, if we mention the 'meaningless infidelity' then we simply dump our guilt onto our partner - which is not fair.

All relationships involve these types of problems - it is best to let the mistake glide by and make sure to make an effort to be attentive and loving to our partner in the future.

2. If the infidelity is an ongoing affair, we have to deal with the issue at hand - our own relationship:

Is it that we no longer love and respect our partner?

Or is it that we are just not sexually satisfied anymore?

Option A: If we no longer love or respect our partner, then we have to consider moving on -

However, if we have children then we have to consider allowing the infidelity to continue without effecting the stable home we are providing for the kids - but this requires forthright and honest communication, and two partners that are strong enough to handle the truth, that the sex life no longer exists but the home is all important for all parties involved. Now, each partner has the ability to stray.

Option B: If we are just no longer sexually satisfied by our partner then it is time to put some effort back into the relationship -

The effort that goes into having an affair should be put back into the important relationship we have with our partner; it is time to communicate the issues and try to re-kindle what has been lost (after all, there was a time when sex was good - and if it wasn't, then option A should have been enacted long ago).

Sexual satisfaction is made up of two things - variation with consistency and the ability to be open-minded - without this combination, sex will become mundane and monotonous, and monogamy will be unlikely at best.

In order to prevent infidelity in your relationship, step up to the plate, communicate, 'sexercise' more often and be realistic

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1. Be the qualified candidate
Know why you are qualified for the position by matching your experience to the specific requirements of the job ahead of the interview. By offering examples that match your qualifications to the exact position, the interview will be a breeze for you.

2. Prepare by doing your homework
Do your homework on the company as well as the position. Get up to date on the company’s current business issues so you can address any questions about direction and opportunity. Develop a list of questions prior to the interview to demonstrate your interest and curiosity about the company.

3. Speak with confidence
This is not the time to by shy and timid. Be confident about your professional accomplishments and talk about your results. Talk about yourself through your previous employer’s words to give your claims needed validation. If you have some work samples you are proud of that are related to the position, why not show them off?

4. Act like a professional
This may seem like common sense, but you’ll be surprised how many people forget this completely. Common courtesies will take you a long way at setting the right professional impression. For example, dress appropriately for the position, be sure to turn off the cell phone and most importantly, be on time!

5. Be a good communicator
Listen and be appropriately enthusiastic. Listen to the questions before you answer. If you interrupt, it could send a warning flag that you are not interested. Lean forward, listen carefully and be sure to make direct eye contact

As youths,our generation depends on us for its sustainability and the political terrain knows they cant do anything without us,that is why its virtually impossible for them to mobilize old peolple for elections;they've belittled us to the extent of using us as political thugs forgetting the future belongs to us and after their major aim of acquiring political positions has been accomplished,they dump us.We're young young people and the young blood still runs in us.As a team,we have decided to come under an umbrealla to take the baton and take full responsibility of how and who governs,i want to inform all the youths of ajegunle that soonest,we are planning to come up with a forum which would act as the mouthpiece of the people,the name would be disclosed in no distance time.
One Ajegunle, One Youth!!!
Since they believe nothing can come out of Ajegunle,we would make them understand there're still agents of change that are ready to fight for a worthy cause because the story below simply depicts that of an immesurable disregard for the youths,


RECENT CHAOS IN AJEGUNLE!!!
Days after the youth in Ajegunle protested the killing of Charles Okafor allegedly by police officers from Ajeromi police station Ajegunle( in the Ajeromi-Ifelodun local government area), normalcy seems to have returned to the Lagos suburb.

But controversy still trails the number of people felled by police bullets during the face-off between the police and the protesting youth on Saturday, April 3.

While the youth leaders are putting the number of deaths at five, police authorities insisted there were no deaths.

Two sides of the mouth

At about 8 pm on Thursday, April 1, a team of police officers attached to Ajeromi police station raided a viewing centre at Layinka Street, Ajegunle, and allegedly gun-butted 24 year old Mr. Okafor to death.

The youth took to the streets two days later to protest what they termed incessant harassment by local police officers while also listing a catalogue of demands.

The initially peaceful demonstration, however, turned violent when the youth arrived at the Ajeromi police station where they had expected to be addressed by a senior police officer but were instead met by armed rank and file police officers.

Media reports had, in the wake of the crisis, quoted the police as denying culpability for the death of Mr. Okafor and the string of deaths that occurred on Saturday.

But the police public relations officer, Frank Mba, insisted the statement never came out from the police.

"I'm actually surprised that people are taking this thing out of context," said Mr. Mba, who also said he was quoted out of context by the media.

The flying bullets

While the run-in lasted, stray bullets were also flying all over the community. One of the bullets pierced through the metal doors and smashed a wall mirror at De Dawn Cuts and Styles, a beauty salon at Achakpo Street, just behind the Ajeromi police station.

"The whole doors were locked and some of the girls were working inside the shop. Thank God nobody was hurt," said Patricia Zuokemefa, the proprietor of the salon.

Another bullet went through the head of 28 year old Tunde Olotu, a staff of the National Union of Road Transport Workers (NURTW), Boundary-Aiyetoro Unit.

"On April 3, at about 1.30 pm at Babani Street, near Ajeromi Police Station, my brother was receiving a call when a bullet hit him on the head and he fell," recounted Solomon Olotu, Tunde's elder brother, during a press conference on Monday.

Quadri Aderibigbe was lucky. He was taken to the Lagos University Teaching Hospital where he is currently receiving treatment for a graze wound which he got when a stray bullet narrowly missed his eyes.

But the police said that it was sceptical about the accounts of deaths on the day of the protest and that the proponents of Tunde's death from a bullet may be spinning a yarn.

"If they said he (Tunde) died from police bullet. Why would they bury him before an autopsy is conducted?" Asked Mr. Mba.

In his response, Mr. Solomon said the family had to bury Tunde because of the swollen nature of the corpse and spirited attempts by the local police to retrieve it from them.

"The bullet smashed his head such that you can't even look at it. And by the time it was taken to the Baale (the local chief)'s palace, it had started swelling up, so we had to bury him," he said. "If anybody is in doubt, we'd take him to Amukoko Health Centre where he was buried."

Corroborating Solomon's tale was Adebayo Abdullah, a youth leader at Ojora Street.

"Na me bury am. Nobody wey no know Alangba (Tunde's nickname which translates to lizard because of his slender built). He was very popular here and everybody knew he died from police bullet," said Mr. Abdullah.

Back in business

Barely two days after the protest and killings, the police officers had resumed their road blocks and toll collections within the community. Also, dozens of armed police officers were sighted daily in front of the Ajeromi police station apparently to extinguish any ideas the youth might be having of organising another protest. There had been rumours of a second protest to honour those who were killed during the first one.

The secretary of the Labour and Civil Society Coalition (LASCO), Tolar Dagga, said the best way to assuage the youth and residents is to hold a public inquiry so residents could air their grievances.

"Interestingly, to show the kind of government we have, a similar incident occurred last week in Ireland where a young Nigerian was killed by two Irish youth. And that same day, their minister of Internal Affairs issued a public statement apologising. Even for somebody who was not a citizen of that country, the ministry saw it necessary, And yet the kind of government we have in our country, all what has been happening in Ajegunle, neither the local government, the state government, nor the federal government, has issued a statement," said Mr. Dagga, who was initially arrested for organising the protest but later released.

A community leader, Adeshina Ojora, appealed for a better relationship between the police and Ajegunle community, especially the youth.

"Majority of our youth are graduates and I appeal to them to help educate the lower cadre people, tell them what is on the ground. But our graduates are the people showing thuggery attitude because they think they know what law says, which they don't know. If you are not a policeman you cannot know police law," said Mr. Ojora, the Baale of Alayabiagba Apapa.

Wilson Okafor, the father of one of the deceased, said that the police authorities paid him a condolence visit on Wednesday.

"I think the issue of whether to be compensated or not should be after the autopsy which is coming out next week. It is then we can talk about the compensation, but no amount of money can replace my son,"


original story by ben ezeamalu

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A lot of males all around the world want to know how they can become more confident and relaxed around the opposite sex. This question actually has to be broken down into several steps and the roots of the solution go a lot deeper than you can imagine. The first thing you have to start working on is your beliefs and how confident you are in everyday life. If you are not confident around women and feel that you can't relax, there is a pretty big chance that you lack self belief in other situations in life also.

Therefore you should start identifying the arenas you feel uneasy in and start working on them by putting yourself in those situations as much as possible. Slowly but surely, you will start to get desensitized towards these situations and you will start to become a lot more relaxed.

The next step is to start working on your personality and actually figure out who you are as a person and what you stand for. This includes finding out what you look for in the opposite sex and what kind of behavior you will like and what kind of behavior you feel pushes your personal boundaries and what you are willing to accept.

Too many males constantly whine that they never meet a sweet girl but when I ask them what they look for in a girl they don't even know what their dream girl would look like or behave. It is very important to write all of these things down as you can never find something if you don't know what you are looking for.

The next thing is to stop putting females on a pedestal. They are humans just like you are and the majority of women might like it in the beginning when you put them on a pedestal, but in the long run it bores them and they lose all respect for you. Once you get these steps covered it is time to start improving your communication skills. You do this by approaching people everywhere and it doesn't matter whether they are males, females or old people. After a couple of weeks you will become more confident with your communication skills and you will automatically become more relaxed around females. This will lead to you getting more dates and gaining even more confidence.

I am Ogunmiloro Kehinde and a graduate of Guiadance and Counselling from Adekunle Ajasin University and the initiator of Creative Reality Consult,an initiative born for the main purpose of emancipating the mindset an average young person from a mediocre stage to fulfilment;our visions cuts across Youth empowerment summits,Capacity Building,Human Resource Management,Event Planinng,Forex Trading(outsourcing),Entertainment and Counselling Services(Relationship and Career) and I happen to be the Director of Counselling services.
  In this article,i would expose  timeless truth on how to make a guy feel the need to be with his lady all the time;as Africans we have lost moral value and this has reduced an average to woman seeking solace where she is not supposed to.Follow these nuggets,put them into practise and get back to me if you have challenges;relationship wise-07069696166

CHANGE YOUR LOOK

Nothing drastic like from classic to punk, but something subtle like new highlights or sexier clothes. Now, if you're already wearing sexy outfits, switch to a more conservative style with a hint of sexiness, and leave everything to his imagination.

FLIRT WITH HIS MIND

Aside from being flirtatious in your movements, you should also try flirting with his mind. Play games but don't go overboard. Never undermine his masculinity for a joke or a game. This will definitely backfire on you - big time.

Be unaVILABLE

Would you believe that the less you can fit him into your schedule, the more he might be willing to go after you? Of course, again, games like this can backfire, so go out with him, but try to reschedule the dates so that it's not always when he wants it. For example, you could give him an alternative for that Saturday night date, and ask for a Sunday picnic instead. You don't have to drop names of other men and try to make him jealous because that would just be plain petty. He should want you because of who you are, and not because someone else might get you.

Lose weigHT

If you can afford to shed some pounds, then sign up for an exercise class or sport so that you can shape up. Looking better is good for you and will make you healthier.

Live dangerously

This does not mean anything other than trying something new with him like bungee jumping or sky diving. Experiencing something new as a couple could attract him more to you, mainly because you like to have excitement in your life and are willing to take chances.

Give him signals you're ready
If you're ready to move to the next level or take the relationship further, drop some subtle hints. He just might be waiting for a sign from you because he fears being rejected.

Be successful

Whatever it is you do in life, whether it's a job, career, or pushing yourself to the next skill level, try to be as successful as you can. He will respect you for having a life without him, and at the same time, he will also be proud of what you have achieved. It works especially well if you let him know your frustrations and problems, and asked for his advice.

I am Ogunmiloro Kehinde,a graduate of Guidance and Counselling from Adekunle Ajasin University and one of the initiators of Creative Reality Consult;an initiative whose visions cuts across Youth empowerment summits,Capacity Building,Human Resource Management,Event Planinng,Forex Trading(outsourcing),Entertainment and Counselling Services(Maritals and Career).Overtime,i have gotten to realise that students dont read simply because they dont want to read but because they dont see the need to read,we inculcate the spirit of willingness to stay glued to the confines of the room to sttudy and expose students to hidden secrets of reading with ease.for more info,contact me on 07069696166

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My name is Ogunmiloro Kehinde and I am a pro active young man who graduated from Adekunle Ajasin University with a B.ed in Guidance and Counselling.I am one of the initiators of creative reality consult and our vision cuts across Youth empowerment summits,Capacity Building,Human Resource Management,Event Planinng,Forex Trading(outsourcing),Entertainment and Counselling Services(Maritals and Career),I am the Director of Career Counselling and there are several testimonies in times before from previous clients.In this present generation,most youths are confused about what they want from life and that is where we come in.We inculcate the spirit of discerning what field of study that is meant for a particular person.To cut the long story,contact me on the these numbers-07069696166 or 08072033442 for further enquries,