₦airaland Forum

omenka:
This is terrible and must be checked before it spirals out of control!

That is what you should have said when those thuggish cops decided to play judge, jury and hit man.

TheRealCoolHunK:
Oh yeah? Let the blacks get an education instead of getting pregnant and perpertrating crimes all over the place. Respect is to be earned.

Well aren't you the pot calling the kettle black!!!
Tell that to your own people, maybe they will take your advice and get an education, stop aborting innocent babies, stop 419 and commiting crimes all over the world.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
That hashtag #Shootthepolice will trend soon, I trust Black Americans they can risk their lifes for fame

What has fame got to do with this?

pyyxxaro:
The guy was a fugitive


American Police should be on red alert , cos blacks for yankee de vex srsly after all their racist moves recently

Yes indeed, what goes around comes around, it's sad but true.

TheRealCoolHunK:
Dude is a nutcase who just found an excuse to do crazy/evil deeds. Despicable and uncalled for...leave stupidity to terrorists. It's more of their thing. I strongly condemn his actions.

Yeah I agree, It's sad what happened to his girlfriend, may she RIP.

otokx:
Crazy America

Don't people get murdered in crazy Nigeria?

I remember that lunatic in Nigeria that killed his girlfried's ex lover and cut out his heart then put in on a plate then sat down at the table and ate his heart while neighbors and the police watched.
Crazy Nigeria!!

clovislouis:
am not black

If you aren't a black/nigerian man what are you? You look black to me.

clovislouis:
I know this is unromantic. But y re blacks not valued really thereby leading to abuse and dejection.some of the blacks in America are made to live in harsh conditions such as ghettos and slums in America not just America but different part of the world . Going by the way things are going it's gonna get even worse! # my observations #

Why are blacks in Nigeria made to live in ghettos and slums?
Blacks in America are not MADE to live in ghettos and slums, they live where they can afford at the time.

Exjoker:
I don't have problems with girls playing hard to get cause that is the only way to know if a guy is actually serious...

How can a woman know if a man is serious just by playing hard to get?
Some men will chase after a girl just because she plays hard to get and once he breaks her down and get what he wants he leaves because of the games she played was very annoying to him so he takes his revenge and dumps her.

A woman who likes a man would want to see him happy not miserable. Where do some of you girls get this mentality from were you taught this? Do you expect a boy to want you if you are treating him bad? There are too many girls for him to pick from, why would he choose one who will mistreat him?

Sunkyphil:
but u no in dat same bible divorce was kicked against dats y its good for both parties to pray to God b4 getting married to prevent occurencies like this

Yes it was kicked against by men who wanted to have their cake and eat it too.
Only praying to God will not prevent these things from happening people pray everday all day and these things still happen, you have to put in the work yourselves and say no to temptation. . I believe in the word of Jesus/God above all others and that includes the word of man which most of the bibble was written by.
Anyway this is a topic for another day.

Sunkyphil:
u are right but u africans prefer for better for worse;its not in our culture to get divorced

Well that part of your culture should be changed because Jesus said infidelity is a cause for divorce (if you believe in Jesus) Im sure that for better or worse is meant for the women only because if the women behaved like that survey says they do the husband would throw her out of HIS HOUSE (that part of your culture should be changed also because it is unfair to the wife) and he would more than likely seek a divorce.
I have noticed on this very forum men telling women that they shouldn't leave their cheating, abusive, unloving, uncaring husbands but they should take it to God in prayer, but when it's the wife who is doing wrong they will say throw that who.re out of the house, so many double standards

Sunkyphil:
o know but do u no d rate of divorce is high over there?

Yes I know the rate of divorce is high over here but that is because people choose not to continue to put up with domestic violence, infidelity, drug abuse or what ever the case may be when the disturbed partner doesn't want help, while in Nigeria women (I'm only saying the women because I don't think the men would put up with it) will alow this bad behavior to continue and live a miserable life all for the sake of saying I'm married. Don't think every marriage is a happy marriage just because they aren't divorcing.
Some marriages are so horrific that they should be ended.
No one knows what goes on behind closed doors.

Sunkyphil:
how

Well obviously all American women aren't the whores that people love to put out there to make themselves feel better about their situation just like you did, never mind what's going on in America, France, Britain be concerned about what's going in your homeland, although I don't believe the statistics are that high but your women are not saints alot of them are doing their thing just like anyone else.

ajebuter:
Oh yeah? From whose point of view? I'm sure from alcohol and hard drug-induced and unstable minds.

Nigerian women are most unfaithful? Then where do you place American housewives with their notoriety and morals of alley cats? These are women who are brazen and bold enough to bring their ' affairs' right into their marital homes even in front of their kids.
Then what about the French, Italian, Spanish, German, Brazillian, Mexican, Ghanians, just to mention but a few?

Nigerian housewives may be bad, but not the worst compared to the above.

Nonsense!

Nigerian women aren't saints and all western women are not wicked, so any cheating or wickedness any other woman can do they are capable of doing also, God made them just like he made the rest, nothing special.

You see how you call American women brazen alley cats who LovePeddler right in front of their children, just lies you made up to soften the blow that your women are screwing aswell.
The same way you are seeing other women, other men are seeing Nigerian women with the same ugly lens.
Such is life.

Sunkyphil:
dats a wrong statistics the americans should top that list

But we don't.

onoja12:
The issue of Nigerians been maltreated abroad is one which should mark a quick change in Nigerian foreign policy.I think its high time the ministry of foreign affairs begin to do more than talk,they need to relate with the Nigerian association in countries round the world,the Nigerian missions are doing little or nothing to help Nigeria as a country and Nigerian leaving abroad.more embassies cant even issue the Nigerian passport talk more of assisting Nigerians.
I dare to say that of the over 15,000 Nigerian in jail abroad more than 2/3 of that figure are issues of victimization.
most of this countries have it at the back of there minds that the Nigerian state would do nothing,so they treat the Nigerian citizen as they like,i want to quickly point out that this policy of silence from the Nigerian mission abroad is the main reason why Nigeria is no longer respected on the international seen.
A point of reference is a country in the Caribbean called Guyana,i was arrested for simply applying for a drivers licence.imagine how silly that sounds and then handed to the anti narcotics department,they could not find what to pin on me,so they in turn handed me over to the anti fraud unit,while under interrogation for no crime committed the officer in charge of the fraud unit told me that 99% of Nigerians are drug dealers to which i responded,he has no right to assume that over 167million people as drug dealer when he has never been to Nigeria. angered by my statement he quickly called the immigration department where my application has been pending for 6months,this by the way is a process that is suppose to take 3weeks but for Nigerians it takes as much as 7years,this treatment is only for Nigerians. and after speaking to a Miss Mohammed he then told me that i have over stayed on my visa and my application has been denied.i equally told him in response that i am more than willing to return to my country even though i have been married to a citizen of there country for over 4years but i would not return with any false hood on my passport.
My wife inform the crime chief who i must confess was a perfect gentle man,who immediately ordered my release but stated that the problem the O/C fraud has created from immigration cant be undone by him so the matter must be taken up with there ministry of home affairs.i have thus written letters of protest which of course has not been responded to.

The lessons which can be learnt from this are as followed
1) The laws of this country clearly states that if you don't have the appropriate visa you cant work,with the deliberate policy of making sure Nigerians don't get the visa,this in turn would make sure that the Nigerian population here can not get legitimate work and thus forcing them into a life of crime.
2) countries that produce drugs in this region do not have there citizens tagged as drug dealer but a country that doesn't produce drugs are tagged drug dealers
3)even Nigerian investors are not spared,they are frustrated out
4)Nigerian student take 4-6months to get a student visa while others take 3weeks,its is equally surprising that Nigerian student contribute over 500million Guyana dollar directly and indirectly and account for 60% of the foreign students
5)I have demanded for statistics and it clearly shows that Nigeria is not among the top ten countries with conviction rate in this country,so how come of the hash tag
6)Guyanese citizen in Nigeria are enjoying expertrate quoter and working as guest of the country while to the contrary Nigerians here are treated with such disgust.
To this end i have taken it upon myself to defend the integrity of my country,i shall be meeting with the president of the Nigerian association in Guyana to fashion out a away on getting the government to drop this hash tag on Nigeria and Nigerians,and i shall be writing a letter to the honourable president of Guyana to notify him of this and equally write the Nigerian senate and house of representative as well as the Nigerian ambassador to the Caribbean and the ministry of foreign affairs in Nigeria.
its time we begin to say no to this victimization of our great country and its citizens.

Thanks

LMAO
There is a 99.9% chance that you were guilty of something, be it drugs, guns, 419, because law officials don't harass people for no reason at all.

Redoil:
Mumu statistics just to insult african women. Though most times they are unfaithful to their husband as seen in the ones arround me.

Then why deny the survey?

onoja12:
abeg copy and paste,its faster

We are done, you are just too stubborn to have any decent conversation with.

onoja12:
IF am 12 then you are 2,as you can see none of the tribes have denied each other of been black,when it come to black we are united as black,have you heard of a divide when Nigeria's travel out of the country?

Refer to #6 on my previous post.

onoja12:
FOOLISH YOU,WE AFRICANS DON'T HAVE TIME FOR DIVIDES,THAT'S A WHITE MANS THING AND HE MUST HAVE REALLY FOOLED PEOPLE LIKE YOU WELL.that is simple because far more whites know the road to Africa than the black americans,and secondly foolish black americans feel its better to be american than to be black,i can remember some black american fools insulting farkhan for visiting Africa,that how silly the black americans are

How old are you 12? Did you even read this thread. Africans don't have time for divide yet they were dividing Nigerians into Igbo and yoruba, on this very thread when the article said nothing about tribes only stated Nigerians were the biggest cheaters. Far more whites should know the road to Africa (since they colonized it) than black Americans(since we were sold out of it).
Now who are you calling a traitor again and a slave, look at you praising the white man.
Let me go back to my prior post I just thought of something else I need to add.

onoja12:
FOOL I put it to you that you are a traitor,you are a slave to your white slave masters,and as you can see Africa is rising up,and soon slaves like you wouldn't be allowed in the new Africa

TRAITOR!! To whom? The way some of you tear down black Americans, and even prefer the whites to us and justify the murdering of black Americans by whites, no child, I am not the traitor but YOU are.

All these comments I have been making is just me giving you back a taste of your on medicine, not such a good taste in your mouth is it?
If you noticed in my posts I repeatedly stated..... statistics don't lie followed by a which is sarcasm because anyone with half a brain knows that they are full of lies, but alot of people on this site love to post untrue stats about black Americans (yourself included) as they are the gospel truth. I was sending out a message to those to whom it applies to.
#1 Don't believe everything you read.
#2 Don't dish it out if you can't take it in.
#3 Nigeria is part of the world like all the other countries, sins and all.
#4 Stop demeaning people who are not in your culture it is very ignorant.

#5 And this one is most important...... Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, you seem to forget that golden rule.
#6 Stop living in denile and face reality.

Peace!

mike4zeal:
This is a challenge To Nigerian women if the survey is true. Aal izz well n fair

Statistics don't lie.

Spuggie:
If I understand you correctly, being religious now equals to being faithful in marriage and thats why the rate of dovorce on grounds of infidelity is at an all time low and for the same reason our country is corrupt free because we are very religious. I know you are very important and thats why since you don't know anyone that took part in the study, its findings are invalid. We know your type and thats why we take you seriously when you talk.
@ Nigerian married men cheating more than the single Nigerian boys.......I am curious to know how you arrived at that but I do sincerely hope you read your comment again, feel sorry and apologise to the married Nigerian men. BTW, I have visited 14 countries spanning across all the continents except Asia.

Wow!!! You are right on point, I couldn't have said it better.

onoja12:
raping,that na western sickness every fool knows that.all the black people that the police are shooting in america,how many una done convict,see abeg you are wasting my precious time,at-list we kill one for ritual which is blood money,the hole of western civilization is it not build on blood money,from slavery,to Iraq and Libya,so you are a confused little girl,if you think you are american that is your choice but then you shouldn't be on this site,find dollarland

Quoting you:

Atleast we kill for rituals, which is blood money.
I rest my case, my work here is done with you.
Like I told that other knucklehead, when you purchase Nairaland from Seun, then and only then can you dictate who can and cannot come to this site.

PS.... here's some advice that may do you some good in the future. If you can't take it, don't dish it out.

PEACE

onoja12:
how would you say that rubbish,who compile the statistics?for what reason?how did he arrive at such a this statistics?did you ask that?and body who have traveled to america,britian or france would tell you straight up.the statistics is a big fabrication,Nigeria although losing her morale values due to the over influence on western culture,has ten times more value than france,britain and america put together,so therefor how can you compare a valueless nation with does that have values,infact see don't let us go into the sick things this white people do.so you better wake up and stop fooling yourself

LMAO Which country with values are you talking about? A country that is so full of corruption, killing babies for rituals, grown men marrying little baby girls, raping little girls with no punishment, stealing money from it's people. It's women are the biggest cheaters in the whole wide world, remember statistics don't lie.
Again I ask you which country are you talking about that is full of values?

lequatee:
op, in as much as the survey by Durex in agreeably inconclusive by me, I will draw out certain salient points which points me in the direction that this Is just another "rubbish the Blackman" campaign.
1) did Nigerian women also rank tops in the survey done by other condom manufacturing giants like : Gold circle, Ruff Rhyder, Elegance etc. until w rank tops in 2/3 of these surveys #idontbelievelt
2) what category of people participated in the survey and how are they Sure the responses given by the participants weren't false?
3) that Nigeria had the highest number of allegedly unfaithful women from 29000 interviewed women doesn't mean we have the highest number among the other "uninterviewed" women.
4) does ranking tops among 36 surveyed nations qualify you as the highest in the world? do we have only 36 nations in this world....
5) is the condom usage result enough to know the most unfaithful women in the world.what about those who do it without condom....and do unfaithful women use Durex condom alone?
I can go on and on to point out unfounded assumptions from this survey. so bleep the Durex survey with the bleeping Durex condoms. if we ask all the other brands to submit their result , trust me you will know our women are still learning.#aint saying our women ain't bad o, but the survey is grossly inconclusive.

With all the lying statistics about black Americans plastered all over this forum, you had better learn that if you can dish it out you better learn how to take it.
Nigerian women are the number 1 cheaters in the WORLD at 62%, and we all know statistics don't lie, it's been said many, many times when posting the statistics of American men in jail, out of wed mothers with 5 babies by 10 different fathers, 90% of black Americans growing up without fathers, 95% of black Americans dropping out of school, only 1% of blacks are in college all the rest of blacks in these universities are Africans and Caribbeans.
So yeah, if all those statistics are true (because statistics don't lie) then it's only logical that statistics proving Nigerian women are the biggest cheaters in the world by 62% leaving everyone else behind in the dust, has to be true, or is there a double standard going on here?

onoja12:
we people?so which are you?monkey when say ant na him papa.that your survey on second thought it may have some element of truth because in america,Britain and france women cant do anything wrong its only men,because women are boss and there men pussies

Where in my comment did I say you people?
It was not my survey, the op gave you all the information on the survey did you even bother to read it.
The surveys says the French, British, and the Americans cheat, but the Nigerians cheat by 62% leaving everyone else behind in the dust.
Nigeria is not above wickedness just because you aren't in the west, look at all the corruption that goes on there, face it your women are not saints above all women, and the survey has proven this by 62%.
Statistics don't lie. You have better open up your eyes and start strapping with all the stds out there.

onoja12:
LOL hahahahahahaah.who is fooling who,we don travel all does places finish divorce rate 70%,sleeping with each other that the order of the day,one woman with three kids from three different men,all this white want to be black slaves una no go kill person,abeg my people the west is a messed up place and if you keep following them you would get as messed up as they are

The survey was done in Nigeria not in the west, so you Nigerians are messing up all by yourselves without the help of westerners. 62% of Nigerian women cheat on their husbands, 50% of all first born Nigerian children do not belong to the husbands, unaware to them according to statistics. Multiple abortions by multiple men. Unwed single mothers. 70% in loveless marriages but won't divorce while cheating all the time.
Yeah your'e a mess on your own, stop blaming the white man for the messed up decisions you make.

CSTR:
Some 'men' are even trying to defend the women.
lol.
gullible sods.
A reliable stat pegs 50% of first borns in Nigeria as bastards.
Adultery is the cause of it.

Wow!! That is plain nasty, guys you had better get those DNA tests. Statistics don't lie.

ajuwarhodes:
Here is the write up of a cheat! Now I get ur drift, u have ur own lil roof where men come to Bleep u,and none of them see u worthy enough to take u home to mama.yes Nigerian women are desperate! While u are desperate to just get layed.mumu, by the way, this is nairaland not dollar land.means u are here looking for who to Bleep.idioooooot!

I see I struck a big nerve, I hit a little too close to home. I have my own place and you assume that I do to men what you do to other men in your HUSBAND'S house when he is away, like I said you had better get your own place because when he catches you cheating (and it has been proven that 62% of you are cheaters and statistics don't lie) you will be out.
Look at yourself with your profanity. Profanity is the result of an unintelligent mind trying to express it's self.
This is the type of girl some of you men are defending.
I feel sorry for the poor sucker that married this trash.
PS..... When you purchase Nairaland from Seun, then and only then can you dictate who can and cannot come here.
Until then just keep your filthy mouth and legs closed.

Litmus:
Nigerians are pretty lively online, it is possible, Knowing how the West operates, that Nigeria will always be sighted at the top in surveys because our reaction is sure to publicize such polls. For instance, the fact that Nigerians were said to be the Happiest people in the world garnered such controversy that this line of polling i.e The Happiest people in the World poll became popular and well known. Claiming that Nigerian women are the most promiscuous and unfaithful in the world, and knowing how conservative Nigerian are, and we were so outraged and took to the Mediasphere in droves to complain, benefited the Durex brand. In so many ways no publicity is bad publicity.

In Africa, Nigerian women are prudes. The idea that Nigerian women are more promiscuous or looers than women from South Africa, Ghana, Tanzania, Uganda etc is laughable

#1 and 62%, statistics don't lie.