Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 10:41am On Apr 16, 2021*. Modified: 11:50am On Apr 16, 2021 |
ShadowCracker: wow, I just read about it, guess I was misinformed . I didn't know it wasn't female bias like there could be a scenario whereby a man would be the one taking half of the woman's fortune in the divorce. It's fair enough isn't it , but why are they now making it seem as if it only happens to men and never to women.
The key thing is to ensure your partner, has a work, business, or investment anything to fall back on in case things go south . |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 9:13am On Apr 16, 2021 |
womenareapes1: why do you always keeping providing evidence that women have fish brain?  Don't blame your inability to comprehend logic on me. State your disagreements and opinions on the topic and STFU with your childish insults. |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 9:00am On Apr 16, 2021 |
pansophist: If I've been a good husband to you and you met Yang Chan, is it fair to take half my stuff, dump me and go with him? How would you want a situation in marriage to be favourable to you the woman, but penalizes me the man? Furthermore, don't you trust in your ability to work?
If you're also hustling for your own money, you should be happy that in case of a divorce, your husband will not take half your stuff, it goes both ways. And don't forget that women initiate most divorce, so the chances are high that you're the one dumping him, not otherwise. Isn't it a criminal act to dump and man, break his heart and take half his stuff? Anyway you're a woman, double standards are just like the air you breathe. If you are a good husband and I fall in love with.Alezy and cheat on you with him I would be the cause of the marriage failure and the judge will not reward me for it, there will be no spousal support from you, only child support if I am awarded the child. As long as I am capable of working I will always make money but I couldn't be in a marriage where everything my husband buys is his and everything I buy is mine. There's no unity in a relationship like that and it's quite selfish in my opinion. |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 3:08am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Mizzyliz: How many women pay child support on a scale of 1 to 100??.... The point is anybody who wants to leave should go with they have... The point is, material things are accumulated during the marriage, no one person has the rights to those properties. |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 2:24am On Apr 16, 2021 |
ShadowCracker: wow, I just read about it, guess I was misinformed . I didn't know it wasn't female bias like there could be a scenario whereby a man would be the one taking half of the woman's fortune in the divorce. It's fair enough isn't it , but why are they now making it seem as if it only happens to men and never to women.
The key thing is to ensure your partner, has a work, business, or investment anything to fall back on in case things go south . There are plenty of women paying spousal and child support to their ex's, Jennifer Hudson being one. Yes, there are cases where the wife is the sole provider or the highest earner and the man gets half especially in a state like California (where I live) which is a community property state and that means, what belongs to the husband also belongs to the wife and vice versa. Everything must be divided equally in a divorce under California law. If your partner has a business it can be sold and equally divided or the judge could make your partner co-owner of the business rather they worked a day in it or not. PS....A prenup can be thrown out by the judge if the spouse can prove he/she was pressured to sign it. |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 2:04am On Apr 16, 2021 |
shege45: ehhh you go away with your own money na. If the guy meets someone new, you go away with what you have.It better than I give her half There's no way I'm leaving after years of hard work to let another woman come and reap where she hasn't sown. You better watch your back if you burn me.  I'm joking.  . Am I?  |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 1:08am On Apr 16, 2021 |
ShadowCracker: Why don't you like the idea of signing a prenup ? is prenup a bad thing ?. If you were a man how would you feel, if a woman gets to take away half of your hard-earned fortunes with the excuse a marriage that didn't work?. It has nothing to do with gender, the court goes by who earns the most. If I have been an extremely good wife to you for years then you meet Ling Ling and decide you want to play house with her now, you won't kick me out the house pennyless because it will not be good for your health, with or without a prenup. Would you sign a prenup? |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 12:35am On Apr 16, 2021 |
pansophist: No one plan to have a car accident, but you still wear your seatbelt anyways, and that's how prenuptial agreement is. I watched the video and she was crying and I'm like, "how can you cry over something that is not yours"?
I like that the guy is hard on his decision and not moved by those tears and outburst, in fact if it was me, her disagreement for a prenup is a strong sign to not even continue further, marriage must be better than my singlehood if not, why go into it?
Smart guy. I Stan him. I would assume the lack of trust in her by her man is causing the tears. It would hurt my heart if someone I truly loved did this to me. He would leave me with the following options. 1. Sign it and move on with our plans. 2. Go home and think about it from a logical not emotional point of view, trying to understand why he feels it's necessary to write this contract before commiting to a lifelong partnership with me. 3. Tearing up the prenup and shoving it down his throat. 4. Write my own prenup relinquishing him from any future earnings of mines. I'm more than likely to go with number 3.  |
Romance › Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 11:27pm On Apr 15, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: After A Young Boy Impregnated His School Girlfriend, See The Photo He Posted by khia: 11:14pm On Apr 15, 2021 |
But Nigerians swear this only happens to Black Americans. They'll come on here saying the Nigerian youth are learning this from Black American Culture. No accountability. LMAO  |
Travel › Re: Why Bringing A Spouse Abroad Goes Wrong by khia: 10:00am On Apr 09, 2021 |
BigBashiru: So half cast will enter bus in Lagos without being kidnapped? Are you saying a biracial person will be kidnapped in Nigeria? |
Travel › Re: Why Bringing A Spouse Abroad Goes Wrong by khia: 9:44am On Apr 09, 2021 |
Ihekwoabasam: To b frank, Nigerians HV their reasons, we African love to b respected unlike white or black ladies over there, is mostly the reason Nigerians come bk to marry Black and white women want to be respected as well. |
Crime › Re: Najeebat Sule 'Najee' Shot Dead In The U.S (Photos) by khia: 6:21am On Apr 09, 2021 |
doxijaw: Oga your comment lacks self introspection.
Everything you say black Americans are doing, dumbass Nigerians are also doing.
The fact that your emphasis lies on the greatness of China and America shows you lack self awareness.
Remember it's all about averages not the individual.
Using data alone black Americans even though a failed race are still financially better off than Nigerians. Black Americans are not a failed race. |
Crime › Re: Najeebat Sule 'Najee' Shot Dead In The U.S (Photos) by khia: 4:20am On Apr 09, 2021*. Modified: 6:37am On Apr 09, 2021 |
Dobodobo04: Haha. Nigeria’s populations aren’t just limited to USA or South Africa. You will find Nigerians historically in places blacks haven’t been like Cyprus, Ukraine, Russia, UK , China , etc and are doing quite well.
I don’t think we worship the whites. Clearly the opposite if you know the Nigerian feisty spirit. What we are alluding to here is that there is a trend among African American communities where u find this mindless killings and ask why. Just because I’m Black doesn’t mean it shouldn't be called out. It shouldn’t be seen as betrayal of my race just because I’m calling it out. 
Regarding imitating African American culture, thanks, I got my African culture. It’s not perfect but it works for me. Not a culture where Shabisha leaves her husband’s house and go meet Teeshun. Teeshan leaves Shabisha with 2 kids and go meet Shalima.
I like my African culture where if u leave your wife, they summon the elders on you and that’s what all well meaning blacks should imitate. It needs some refining here and there but the best of all cultures. Your post is filled with so much contradictions and hypocrisy. 1. The mindless killings in Nigeria is unbelievable with your ritual killings, tribalistic killings, police murdering you like flies (SARS), and not to overlook the citizens robbing and killing each other for material possessions. Call out your own communities, it shouldn't be seen as betrayal to do so.  2.You brought up Culture right, a culture where Ami cheats on Uche, her husband of 15 years lying to him that he's the father of their 3 kids when in reality his own father is the true father. Uche has worked his ass off supporting another man's children for 15 years who turned out to be his own brother and sisters. Is this the culture you speak of? Work on your own community before you criticize black Americans or any other community.  3. Summoning the elders in your community isn't going to stop old married Sasquatch from sexing young Ufufu, neither will it stop thuggish, yahoo boy Akeem from scamming people and impregnating Pagina, Homely, and Karumba, leaving all 3 of them single mothers. Your culture is primitive and need some serious tweeking. Your Culture isn't the best of all cultures, far from it. Check your community first.  4. On the contrary, Nigerians worship whites more than whites worship themselves and that's a hell of a lot.  |
Crime › Re: Najeebat Sule 'Najee' Shot Dead In The U.S (Photos) by khia: 3:20am On Apr 09, 2021 |
goody234: Good stay where you are ..we dont like coons like you coming over to america and spewing old racist stereotypes about black americans ..Government handouts ? YOU MEAN REPARATIONS !! its only govt handouts when it relates to black american people, go ask the jews and the japanese war prisoners about govt handouts and listen to them lecture you on the wrongs done to them ...you sound like a redneck american thats how they talk ...Are you really a nigerian?...My God the depths of the coonery i cant even fanthom it ... Yes, the Nigerian Coonery is over the top, I think they are the worst of all Africans when it comes to kissing white ass. They come to America with their preconceived white supremacists stereotypes of Black Americans. I swear if MLK and Malcolm were alive they would shun them. Sometimes I hate that our ancestors fought for their right to migrate here. They can be so embarrassing with their white worshipping and anti black American rhetoric. SMH.  |
Crime › Re: Najeebat Sule 'Najee' Shot Dead In The U.S (Photos) by khia: 3:03am On Apr 09, 2021 |
planetx: All this talk of Africans should be grateful to black Americans for the ability to migrate to the US, why don't we hear other immigrant groups like the Asians, Arabs and especially the Latinos who are migrating in larger numbers than Africans being told to be grateful to Black Americans. We didn't fight to make it possible for them to migrate they have been here for decades, it was the Africans the government didn't want here. Sadly and regrettably my ancestors fought for Africans to migrate here.  |
Celebrities › Re: Dotman And His Girlfriend Welcome Baby Boy (Photos) by khia: 2:58am On Apr 09, 2021 |
blackslayer: What you are witnessing is a slow but steady breakdown of the nigerian family unit! Baby mamarism is now glorified....You guys are becoming an "AKATA" generation! LOL....idi0ts! What is an akata generation? |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 7:40pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
AFONJAPIG: hahahahaha black America from Benin rep  Where did you get Benin from? |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 7:39pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
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Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 7:41am On Apr 06, 2021 |
AFONJAPIG: another tribal e- warrior / hater on the loose  I'm black American, there's nothing tribal about me, that's why I get pissed when I see stupid posts like the one you made. You can't determine how a child will look based on tribe. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 7:38am On Apr 06, 2021 |
zimmaking: I did not know oooooooo.But female is what I saw He said he was a boy in his post, did you not read it? Reread the post. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 5:04am On Apr 06, 2021 |
Akabuking: thanks you, she will still grow. You think she will want to marry your old ass? The point is..you are attracted to a baby so much that you want to marry her. Are you Muslim? |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:51am On Apr 06, 2021 |
AFONJAPIG: only igbos can produce this stunning beauty. someone should help complete this sentence Igbo Ama..... Shut up with your tribalism. There's nothing special about that child that any black regardless of nationality couldn't produce. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:49am On Apr 06, 2021 |
doxxijaw: You're breeding yourselves out.
You will cease to exist, it's that simple.
Don't believe, check Latin America , Cape Verde etc.
One last thing, offsprings of blacks who are mixed develop hatred for their black ancestors.
I have seen this time and time again No truer words have ever been posted. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:46am On Apr 06, 2021*. Modified: 1:21pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
thecuteone: An Igbo Man. There i fixed it for you !  LMAO  You didn't lie about that, every Nigerian that I meet here in California are igbo. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:44am On Apr 06, 2021 |
AngelicBeing: Get ready for a trip to Mexico  Just come to California, they're the majority here. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:37am On Apr 06, 2021 |
Oppy2k2: Every country want to claim this young girl.
If na drug na, na only Naija dem go mention Naa! Just Nigerians. I wasn't going to say anything but this little girl is cute and smart and that's important but I have seen truly beautiful babies who aren't biracial. You guys really need to stop judging beauty by the lightness of the skin, you'll come out wrong every time. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:31am On Apr 06, 2021 |
CSTRR: On a serious note, Igbo with Mexico romantic relationship should be illegal.
The beauty of the kids would be too much. LMAO  You got jokes. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:29am On Apr 06, 2021 |
drakeli: Mama Na Mexican. Father Nigerian. The kid born in America Mama Nigerian Father Mexican hence the sir name Vargas. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:27am On Apr 06, 2021 |
FuckHomophobes: Hello beautiful, what's up  You got some sugar in your tank? |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:20am On Apr 06, 2021 |
heendrix: You'll only get beautiful kids as this when you quit wasting time with 9ja girls and chase foreign girls who are worth it So are you saying that the Nigerian man's seed can't produce beautiful babies with the Nigerian woman? Are you ugly being that you're Nigerian with Nigerian parents? You Nigerians and your self loathing is depressing. |
Fashion › Re: Kleopatra Vargas Wins Miss Toddler USA America Nation 2021 by khia: 4:14am On Apr 06, 2021 |
tit: I want to born for oyinbo Why? |