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lefulefu:
this statement i very much agree with it.If nigerian women had the freedom most american women have in their marriage many nigerian marriages would have collapsed long ago.many nigerian wives depend on their husband for food,shelter and other comforts hence they have no choice if the man abuses or cheats on them.

Exactly!!!

pDudd:
Here we go again.

You started it and I don't have a problem finishing it.

wiseone28:
Don't get so upset the op might be somehow right.

I had the same perspective by mere watching hollywood before i read it from op.

I know its not bad by trying to defend your own.

Damn what is wrong with you people? Hollywood is FAKE. It's the land of make believe. Do you people eat each other the way Hollywood has portrayed you? Do you people live in the jungle wearing next to nothing and living amongst the lions like Hollywood portrays you? Don't be foolish.

lefulefu:
or maybe he got married to his black american landlady as reward for letting him to stay rent free
there is no how no how u went through an american college or european college that u wont see a fresh foreign girl to marry

American girls aren't desperate to get married because they don't need a man to leech off of unlike your Nigerian girls. Truth be told, the only reason your marriages last long (on paper) is your women can't provide for themselves not because they treasure you.

pDudd:
E be like say that Khia Akata girl don wake up. Mtscheww.

The stuff the op is posting applies to women in general including Nigerian and your precious WHITE girls.
The op is prejudice and stupid.

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Denique:
Nice read!

Some of Khia 's points are quite valid I had to give her likes

If they are uncouth to us, then we should blame Naija men who marry them for papers. No woman will be happy with you knowing that.

Violence etc like Naija nor get dia own for body�... Abegi

Most of them are hardcore lovers. Love them right and they'll treat you right.

They shoot their cheating spouse, hell yeah cos that shit is disgusting.

How can I be faithful to you and you're not? Did you expect to get a medal from me for making me unwanted? I don't think so...

They are just more expressive than us cos of the freedom they enjoy.
Naija women would do worse if in such environment.
At least we've read about murder cases amongst Naija couples.
They are in a country where polygamy is allowed yet soooo pained.
Tell me they wouldn't do worse in a saner clime

There's no manual as to how a scorned woman should react.

The OP mentioned there are good ones among them. Did y'all bother to find out why they are good? Be good to people ,so, you can get good in return.

Their government needs to find a way to make them go to school- that's like a major problem for the community. Other than that, we are all the same if not worse...

Scoundrel and co, pls you guys should take it easy on her. She feels attacked as she's the only one here. We would do same for our community.
Besides, she could be misinterpreting your write-ups as we type differently.

Cheers to everyone!

My sis, there isn't a misunderstanding lol, illiterates.

fid4fid:
Hello Khia,

I 'm a little curious about what the African American community think of those AA women with kids from different fathers or vice versa?

Do they accept them or think it's morally repugnant ?

From the Nigerian perspective, this is "highly" unacceptable, and nobody would want their children to marry from such a family.

What do the Nigerian society think about their unmarried women with multiple kids from different fathers?

What do the Nigerian society think about the fathers who have been raising kids that they thought were theirs but were created by an outside man?

It's sad that your culture has no problem killing innocent babies through abortion.

Techcrunchng:
come on "you don't beat a child and expect her not to cry" doesn't literally mean he'll beat you or you'll cry, it's a proverb! Besides I was just advising him to do the right thing.

Ok, I reread your post, I get you.

Techcrunchng:
hey dude! Just one punch line and you're off balance? But she's being castigated left and right while you supported that! Come on, you don't beat a child and expect her not to cry.

You people couldn't make me cry if I paid you to. Honestly I see you like white people see you as children who needs an old fashion ass beating every now and then and I am very excited and willing to give you the beat down.

drezzyx:
kia rio be calm not everybody loves african american.
For me they are too violent,crazy and can kill at a slightest provocation.
AFRICAN AMERICAN IS A NO NO.

Nobody is as violent as you Nigerians with your cults and rituals. You kill innocent babies for ritual schemes to get rich quick. You take your violent and criminal behavior into every country you invade.

ZINIBANKS:
Khia or what's your name
I thank God am not raised by single parent
And am well cultured talking to me on phone you can't know my exact behavior because I try to bring out the good side of me even though I talk with stupid People
Now tell me what will you call someone you haven't seen before just talking on phone might be voice or chat
And you already know the kind of behavior that person have
You made mention of bad home training
You're not my mom so how do conclude that am being raised badly it's is you that is being raised badly you don't know me before you haven't seen me before yet look at the way you talk rudely not only to me but to other people,do you now see that you are a good example of them which I claim not to see yet I already know their behavior
You see that's the problem God gave we men
I don't know if you're married or yet to
Have already seen where is problem will start from I pity him

#1 If I were your mom you would be better trained.

#2 Stop stereotyping Black Americans to come from a single parent home. I was raised by both of my parents as was so many of us.

#3 You can't analyze a person just by talking to them on the phone because people aren't always themselves.

#4 All of you people talk badly and rudely towards and about black Americans but want to play the victim when you are treated the same way in return.

#5 Rather I'm married or not I wouldn't be married to an overbearing, possessive, arrogant tyrant of a man like most of you Nigerian men. My husband would reject your pity so keep the pity for your wife. God bless her suffering and oppression..

Zoie:
You're not even a Nigerian sef. Why are you beating chest on top our matter sef.
Wetin dey whine you?

Read the topic and there is your answer.

ZINIBANKS:
I didn't see that and am going to warn him about it
You claim everything op was saying is a lie
Do you know how you can make us believe you
Give us some prove
There is a paragraph there that what he said is absolutely true have experience that with them before
Although I haven't been to USA before but at least have chatted with some of them before and they showed me their real behavior even without seeing them imagine that

You said it yourself, you have never been to the US before which means you have never met a black American. It's so strange how you people complain about the behavior of others but are too blind and arrogant to see that your behavior is much worse. A result of bad home training.

Thastie:
An interesting read
Khiaa proved the Op is right. Very unstable gal.
Every normal human know that there's an exception to every rule. Not all African Americans are bad.


P.Dudd, drop tips for ladies that want to catch their white/black foreigners

Nastie, you are a very ignorant and arrogant girl. You're just like the girls your Nigerian boys complain about on NL. A normal person knows not to generalize COON.

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Do you see why I call you hypocrites? That poster said I was a crazy woman and I called him delusional. It's amazing how you overlooked his comment.

Eulalia:
Lol... You again? Anyways, how old are you? Please if you're of marriageable age go and marry. Biko hehehehehehe...

He's gay.

spinna:
Its ok na..make sure u burn it to ashes.




Just joking because...

The urges will be there still. Dont be dumb...Dont hurt yourself..dont overjudge yourself.

Sexual urges are natural and put in you by God dont see them as bad.

You and i are products of our parents sexual urges. Our parents are products of our grandparents urges.

It is God's design to keep the earth populated.

Thank God for your urges. If u feel guilty approach the throne of grace boldly as the Bible says and obtain mercy.

Work hard meanwhile and throw this devilish thought out of your head. Its better to think of the yansh than to think of burning your JT.

Im going back to sleep. Just woke up to remove my baby cow from the rain

He's trying to stop his sexual urges for men.

Durentt:
Please respond

Please do it and let us know what happened.

excanny:
At least he posted this story.
https://www.nairaland.com/4492114/american-wifey-vowed-last-blood.

What do that story have to do with Black American women? She is Jamaican.

excanny:
Haha. The OP is simply having fun and laughing at your bigoted defensiveness.

I was expecting you to bring strong proofs/examples to counter the things he said instead of just labelling all of them as lies.

How are they lies? Show examples.

You should ask the op to show his proof on every lying statement he posted. LMAO You call me a bigot, did I create this unfounded bigoted topic?

bassette:
Your responses thus far seem to disagree

So you disagree with me stating the truth? I used their own words against them and that somehow makes me what the op described?

tiptoe1:
You're crazy woman.

And you're delusional.

Judybash93:
I feel you. Sometimes, the best weapon to use is to use the same weapon against the oppressor.
You just leave him to it. It's all rant

That is exactly what I'm doing, using their own weapons against them. I'm glad you noticed.

Jamesfantasy:
Dear khia, inasmuch, as i understand where d disdain is coming from,bt ur behaviour z no different, infact, u're aiding this OP Theory...

I don't have any disdain for them I'm just showing them what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I am showing them that every negative stereotype they can use against black Americans I can use the negative stereotypes against Nigerians in the same way.

In noway am I aiding the op, I'm simply taking what the op said and turning it onto them.

There is a lesson in my method, hopefully they are smart enough to learn it.

Judybash93:
I understand the angle you're coming from but you shouldn't take him serious. There are good and bad people everywhere. So, don't bother yourself about him or others. I used to generalize but thank goodness for education though..lol

I'm not generalizing I'm just holding up a mirror to their faces and hoping they can see that their ignorance and hypocrisy is part of the problems.

Judybash93:
seriously? All of us?

You know I'm not talking about all just the ones with the mindset of the op, the COONS and
the CRIMINALS.

Judybash93:
Dayuuummmm!!! Nice one
But to be honest, most Nigerians aren't actually like this, we've got 99 problems and our beautiful black women all around the world ain't one.
Africans tend to forget that African-Americans have been through a lot from slavery to the famed Jim Crow's era and to a whole lot of crap they had to deal with all because they're black. They had to build a level of self defense to deter people from treating them like crap. I respect African Americans because if not for them, we Africans would have had it worse.
Just leave him to it

Its ignorant COONS like the op and many others who make it hard for Nigerians in America. Black Americans fought for the right for Africans to permanently migrate to the US and it wasn't an easy fight.

Today we don't care about immigration because of the behavior of the Africans (mostly Nigerians) COONS. When Trump sent the Muslims back to their country and the Hispanics the country was in an uproar. When he said he was sending the Liberians and Nigerians back to their "Shithole Countries" nobody cared.

We used to care and would have made a big protest in the past but today we are too busy taking the daggers out of our backs placed by Africans Nigerians like the op and his followers.

SmartMen:
How many of you Americans consider yourself Africans in the first place? Are you guys not the same set mocking Africans in Africa at slightest opportunity?

Yeah, of course all 40 million of us do that. Reality check... it's the whites who hate you not us we just hate your COONING for the whites. This whole topic is nothing but racist whites talking points, that's where the op learned it from.

pDudd:
Next tip: Akata women have an extremely high body count.

If you are the kind of guy that gets offended when you find out that one or two guys before you were screwing your present chick, then forget about following Akata. Whatever number you are in Sequence will be dependent on her age.

If she is in her 20s, then you may be guy number 25.

If she is in her 30s you may be guy number 38.

If she is in her 40s (yes 40s body nor be plywood) then you may be guy number 42.

And so and and so forth......

So are you ready to take the plunge yet?

Anybody who believes this crap is an idiot.

tiptoe1:
You're totally ignored cause you're a non event to me. Bye felicia

LMAO Yet you use black American slang. Hypocrite!!