₦airaland Forum

Ijayababe:
Have done it already, full of sores now

WHY, WHY, WHY mess with perfection. God gave you beautiful lips. Start the healing process and don't do it again. I would definitely put shea butter on there to start the healing.

[bMen, ]Please don't mess up your gorgeous, mouth-watering, luscious brown/black lips. DON'T DO IT I TELL YOU [/b]

Alezy, stay away from this.

That's not attempting suicide. You notice those slashes were nowhere near the vein in her wrist, that is where the danger lies, not cutting her skin.
There is a clinical name for people who cut themselves but I forgot what it is called. It's a form of mental illness. I know a girl who has at least 30 razor slashes on both of her arms and she did it to herself. This is the deal, people who do that to themselves do it because they hold a lot of pain inside and they can't let it out like we normally do, so they cut themselves to make themselves feel and release the pain. It is also a cry for help and attention. She doesn't want to kill herself if she did there would be no records because she would be dead. One deep slash going straight down the wrist, not across and she's a goner. She knows what she is doing. Well, at least she's getting the attention that she craved.

[quote author=escapefromusa post=73588248]In the United States (the capital of freedom) the black man or woman is traumatized, this is not a problem you can learn by reading books or watching a movie.

You need to walk on the streets in their ghetto's, visit the schools and hospitals in black-american dominated neighborhoods, and the prison yard or county jails
if you so can.

You obviously have little knowledge of what you speak of and are simply using your "educated by the television" mentality to reach a conclusion regarding "the black man".

You need to learn the difference between a black man and an african man these are two distinct entities or subjects with different ideologies, experiences and belief systems. This will help next time you vilify the black man or african man. So, you state it equivocally at the beginning of your self serving thesis.

I have nothing against you because I have met many like you, male and female who hate the black man and african man even though they are either black or african.
However, you need to realize the U.S, the college educated black man (black american) - is more likely to marry a mullato or white woman than a black woman.

And African men (Nigerian men) in the US or Europe are increasingly settling with white women despite the cultural differences and high divorce rates.

Alas, it actually is not the black man or african man at a disadvantage ... it is the black woman.[/quote]

******************************************************************************************************************
Let us discuss some of your points, shall we?

1. You people need to stop this crap about black Americans ghettos, what about your villages, schools, and prisons? There are black American suburbs and higher class, but for some reason, you always find a reason to overlook those Black American neighborhoods. so stop with the stereotyping.

2. An African man is a black man, just like a Swedish man is a white man.

3. The prisons are filled with black men including Africans, not because they all are guilty of any crime other than being black. It is coming out every day about the police and judges framing black men for things they did not do. A police chief in Florida just got sentenced to three years in prison for framing unsolved crimes on black men, along with his three officers. He went from solving less than 50 in a few years to 200 in one year. That's 200 black men wrongfully imprisoned. I know you heard about the judge who got sentenced to twenty years in prison for doing the exact same things. Prison is a business and slavery only ended on paper.

4. That comment that you wrote about college educated black men marrying mulato and white women is so wrong. The statistics show that 88% of Black American men marry black American women. As far as the college thing goes, it's black American women who are finding it difficult to find an educated Black American man because there are more educated women than there are men. The interracial marriages in Black America are low. You may be right about African men with white women tho, I'm pretty sure you are because that sounds about right, also your women are marrying white men as well.

amaniro:
Lol whites are snow??

Snow is cold as ice.

Martin0:
eheh so are you trying to say you are beautiful or ugly?

This is what I said. Ugly Daddy+Ugly Mama=Ugly Baby.

oluwakayode25:
Abeg how we go take get these white ladies,,2 years and I am still single....Sometimes I think the whole dating thing is highly overrated....mostly because it is rarely genuine..... Its totally devoid of love, chemistry and other needed ingredients and emotions

Don't give up, your love is out there waiting for you.

amaniro:
Khiaa my God you really dealt with this mediocre. Just because you mentioned you're an American, he started worshipping you asslicker

He has mental issues.

amaniro:
I saw a thread of a guy saying White women are the best.

What came into my mind is, Why are our women so Naive, hungry, zealous, annoying, boring, dumb. No offence thou


An average African girl has at least 4 boyfriends. Yes white girls are very adventurous, I plan on hooking up with one. But our precious African girls are something else. it's an issue of sober reflection.


Cc Lefulefu

Iamplato

CAPSLOCKED

Staff

Khiaa


and soo many other let's discuss, ooh I forgot to tell you one broke my heart today

All I can tell you is to stay away from the snow.

Bloooody:
Who is talking about length.
Normally if we got down you would leave the room in blood.
Now enough let's get to know each other baby.

Boy, Bye.

Bloooody:
Real black men?
If we were to Fvck you would start worshiping me the next day and your mother will come for her own share but that's not my point, Let's get to know each other just gimme your number or snap.

I could care less how big you imagine your pen-is to be, I only deal with strong black men. I will not settle for less.

Bloooody:
[b[b]]I mean wish you were white [/b][/b]but I can manage you since you're an American.
It was all just a joke, Don't worry just gimme your number and you will know the real me.

You are so barking up the wrong tree with me. I only deal with strong and proud black men, you are beneath me. There are some white girls on this site, or at least they pretend to be, get their numbers.

lefulefu:
thats the importance of education .if he was educated he would not have been played.anyway the lady"s just a gold digger and hopefully other youngmen should learn from Ebou"s misfortune

What was really sad about his situation is all of the friends that he had wouldn't even help him when he had no place to go, they stopped all communications with him once he lost everything. I hope your brother learned to stop playing in the snow, but I doubt it.

Uglymind:
There are no women on nairaland only girls!

Don't deflect, answer my question. Yeah, I knew that you couldn't tell a woman from a hole in a wall, that is why I let you know that you are conversing with a real woman. I understand that a little boy like you are only used to dealing with little girls.

Bloooody:
Doesn't matter.
I was just joking about babe.

No, you weren't, you directed so much disdain towards me when you thought I was Nigerian, even called me a pig. Now you want to play nice. Really?

lefulefu:
yea he"s african..from ivory coast.well the mistake a number of african footballers make is as they make it they break up with their long term girlfriends and start running after divas.

I wouldn't call that dog a diva. When I first saw him sitting in that empty apartment after she had taken everything, I couldn't stop laughing. He's the dumb one who signed his name on every document she gave him without reading it right? Well, if I can remember I don't think he could even read. He signed off all of his property to her without knowing it. White women are truly the Angels God intended for African men.

Bloooody:
I was just joking about babe.
Gimme your number and let's talk.

You don't want my number, I'm not white.

lefulefu:
hmm for a girl to be dat nice to me first time meeting her sounds like something right out of a romance novel .oh lady chima
very long i have seen her here

Who was so nice to you, Chima?

lefulefu:
he is a footballer and his british wife divorced him and took his house and all his savings

He's African right? Good for her. That's what he gets when he plays in the snow.

lefulefu:
for real?

No, not for real. Hey, what happened to Mrs. Chima? You guys use to go at it.

Bloooody:
Oh why didn't you say so baby girl.
Are you in the country right now or in the US?

I'm home, the U.S. Why the attitude change?