₦airaland Forum

Bunchersstab:
am good, how about you?

I'm always missing you when you are here. I will check you later.

Uglymugg:
Shut up. It's not about the eggs, she's a pumpous freak of nature. Just like MOsT African Americans. No wonder you rushed to support her.

Idiot, she's not African American, that's why she said WHEN WE RETURN. She should have picked up something and knocked you out. Keep your hands to yourself. If you can't afford to feed the girl don't invite her to your home. I hope that she has enough common sense and self-worth to dump your azz.

Bunchersstab:
am good, how about you?

I'm fine. Tell me something good.

Bunchersstab:
i just saw the lovely DM.

You know you're the best thing that can happen to any man's life.

I love yesterday,today and forever!

How are you?

SexyDenzel:
WTF! a lot of people?! why are they doing that?

Because a lot of people are homeless.

Deadlywoman:
If you dislike Nigerians so much then why are you on this website

I don't understand people who surround themselves with what they hate.

Where in that post did I say that I hate Nigerians? I was posting to that one poster about true facts.

Sarang:
Well from the story told so far..it seems like it's you guys that do not know the meaning of that word..
Use your senses..

Black American women aren't selling their bodies to white men all over the planet and then proclaiming that they have morals/values/standards because you have some kind of superior culture over the rest of the world. Your'e dirty. Clean yourselves up.

Tajbol4splend:
You ever heard of Yoruba language? "Motigbo" is "I got it" in Yoruba.

Ekaaro - good morning

Ekaale - good evening

Odabo - goodbye

Odaaro - good night

Bawo ni - how are you

Daadaa ni - I'm fine

Wa - come

Maalo - go

Duro - wait

Joko - sit down

Dide - sit up or stand up

Nibo loti wa - where are you from

Mowa lati US - I'm from US

Kilo feran lati maase - what's your hobby

Kini oruko e - what's your name

Oruko mi ni Khiaa - my name is Khiaa

Ekaaro Tajbol4splend, bawo ni? I love this. Thank you.

Sarang:
Sorry but am not a black American

I know you aren't, that's why I said you don't know the meaning of the word morality.

Tajbol4splend:
Why don't I let you try more

Teach me more.

AngryNigerian22:
[color=darkblue]i didn't write that for your amusement. u black Americans women are much worst.you fvck pink men who shoot your brothers all the time[/color]

Nigerian women screw white men who kill them and their little girls so I believe that's much worse.

Sarang:
No need! I have morals

I was being sarcastic. That's what you all say but most of you don't know the meaning of the word.

LMAO @ some Nigerians. Desperate times mean desperate measures. Is this part of your precious cultural values?

Bsuedu:
The origin is from the Yoruba language. Any Yoruba who is being sincere with you will tell you it is derogatory.

I know that it is a Yoruba word and I heard some of them say that it means wildcat.

MrI2015:
My brother , you are a good person indeed . Please come home and marry from home, whatever you think the lady in question possess, we have good ladies that possess such double.There are many unmarried and ready be with you down here.Brother please come home.Come down to take the person that will love you from the depth of her mind, ladies from good background and same faith with you.I mean pretty ladies, our ladies are the best.Please come and help their ministry and reduce their number.God bless you.Nigeria is blessed with what you are looking for.

Op please take this advice, but only if you are willing to marry a good Nigerian lady and take her back to Canada with you otherwise she would have no use for you.

otipoju:
The emboldened is called. " cunning man die, cunning man bury am".

As for the mindset thing, its not something I want to discuss in public. But i know you know exactly what I am saying.

I don't know what's in your mind that is why I asked. If you think that your mindset is the truth, why not discuss it on this public forum with a Black American who is curious to know?

Tajbol4splend:
It means I got it, lol you sound curious

Very curious!! Is it Igbo?

mgtow:
HOW NOT TO GET YOUR HEART BROKEN

1. Make peace with the fact that change is the only constant thing in life, and you are only here to enjoy the lady while IT lasts. Because it won't. It's a contract and it will expire.

2. Never spend more than you are comfortable with throwing away. As you see me so, I am the King of Transport Fare. Mr N500 or N1000 is my middle name. Am I cheap? Probably!

3. Tell her you love her and play the part of Romeo convincingly, keeping in mind that's all she wants to hear and that's how you can get her to fûck you like a porn star. Even hoes want to feel like you love them and can't do without them.

4. Lie about anything and everything. Exaggerate. Make calls with imaginary business associates talking million-million. Her eye go sharp and her ear go raise like antenna. At this point you can even start billing her off which she will gladly pay after all she is expecting something in return.

5. Flirt with other girls, preferably have other girlfriends. Never allow yourself get invested in one woman, no matter how hot she is. If you catching yourself slipping, slap yourself to revert to factory settings. Complain about one or two women that are disturbing you in her presence and even ask for advice.

6. Take everything she tells you with a pinch of salt. No matter how much of a liar you are, she is waaay better trust me. I can't stress this enough. If she says she's going for night vigil, tell her to pray for you, and of course, don't believe her.

Lastly and most importantly;

7. Have a life! When you are busy with more important things, you will always consider women as nothing but sport. Something you engage yourself with for its entertainment value and nothing more.

Deuces!

Is this what MGTOW taught you? I really wish that you would stay away from their teaching. They seem so spiteful and mean.

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY is not a good idea.

Tajbol4splend:
Ok I got it

I don't get it, what does motigbo mean?

otipoju:
My man... you have told her way too much about yourself...and if you dont apply wisdom in handling this matter she would not hesitate to open your yansh to whom it may concern.

You have gotten involved with a terrible woman who has absolutely no good wishes towards you. It will take some street sense to extricate yourself from her grip without damaging yourself.

As things are now, don't even argue with her. Just be laughing and playing with her as normal and tell her she is god sent to you and her advise has sunk in and has brought your closer to God.

When she brings up the issue tell her you have learned from her and wont do those jobs again. Stay at home to and play the play station with her for like a week

Let the bills be late and let her see the late fee charges.
Then secretly pay them and opt for digital receipts.

In fact tell her you can't afford the rent and you have to move into a shelter when your current lease expires.

Beg her for money. Beg her parents for money. Beg her brothers for money.

Carry your T.V with her in the car and go pawn am to pay power bill or something.

Let it be very clear that you have no money again.

She go run by herself and will never call you again.

As she is saying she can't work because of morals.
When her visa expires that same morals should make her get on the plane and go back .

The root cause of her attitude towards you is more deep than normal male female tension. It's not about you But their deeply ingrained mindset towards africans... But i can start explaining it on a public forum.

LMAO @ the embolden, but can you tell me what deeply ingrained mindset do we black Americans have towards Africans?

CyberWolf:
Your parents sent you to yankee for studies, you left your book and start chasing black American woman? Hmmm .. I have nothing to tell you but carry am for mind, na jail you go end last last if you no use your sense.

How is he going to end up in jail?

Sarang:
Are you stupid or is this who you are? No oo I don't mean to be insulting but are you really a Nigerian? The worst part is you are still being stupid. Chase her out of your damn house.. fiancee my left yansh. Your parents live in an uncompleted building, oh and probably pooing in a toilet and what are you doing? Feeding an American. What stops you from finishing your school and getting a permanent resident in Canada or is U.S a better place? I cry for your family mahn.. I am so dissappointed! And that woman, your fiancee's mother I mean.. no words. You spend all these on a woman who hits you cos she's a woman? You are working freaking hard.. god that is one thing with some of this oyibos.. they won't work the one they did will go to alchohol and party.. I am not praying for something like this to happen to me cos it won't lol (aputara m uwa itara mmadu ibe m ahuhu.. ) if it does, i cross my heart you are refunding all my money and leaving my house that day.. case closed. Just legodu.. she even has morals
(Sorry if I was harsh, I was so angry reading this esp the part about your parents)
Meanwhile where do you work, I am looking for a better-paying job

Just lie on your resume like he did and maybe that will help you to get a better job.

luminouz:
Knew I'd find u here!!

Hello Yooooou. How are you doing?

FisifunKododada:
You will not stereotype YET you are calling her akata. Do you even know the meaning of akata?

Who honestly knows what akata means? Some say it means a wild animal, wildcat, cotton picker or just black foreigner. I have read some U.S./U.K. based Nigerians say that when they go to visit Nigeria they are called Akata as well, so what does it mean? To be honest I question the motives of the op for this girl also, because it's not logical unless there is a sneaky ulterior motive behind it. He isn't innocent and I think his ultimate goal was to get to the U.S. but he chose the wrong girl. This is meant for Ogalanyaidi also.

addicted268:
Very true. And @OP just like someone said above: DO NOT FORGET TO AVOID THE PREGNANCY TRAP otherwise you 'll be paying her for the rest of your life.

Yes, this is true, a lot of Nigerian men fall for the pregnancy trap in the U.S. and the rest of the world out of Africa, well I wouldn't call it a trap because they knew what they were doing when they went in raw. They are partially the blame. They won't be paying for the rest of their lives because they don't take care of their children that they help to procreate, they would rather run back to Nigeria than be responsible for their own child. They are no different than some Black American men.

AngryNigerian22:
[color=darkblue] Nigerian women get value? U Nigerians women are Notorious for doing human trafficking every where from Dubai to Morocco, Libyan, Italy, Spain, American, Germany, England. So which stupid values you they talk about ? [/color]

Yes, oh yes.

farellstone:
You gave her three hot slaps. Is she your sister/object? There are ways to deal with a cheating gf/bf. You don't have the right to hit her.

He has no right to slap his sister, imagine that.

Bunchersstab:
yes honey

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