₦airaland Forum

uyiekpen26:
Being gay is not part of our culture. The fact civilisation came to Africa doesn't mean we should copy every nonsense from the West all in the name of civilization. The both of them should go in for it. Africa has really lost it. The funny aspect is that they'll certainly blame the devil.

Homosexuality was in Africa before any westerner stepped a toe into Africa, stop blaming the west for your actions.

nkemjacob2:
dey should go and try all dis sort in america and UK. Nigeria is not a safe place for dis diabolic rubbish.

It doesnt matter if they are in the west or Nigeria, because it's in their nature and they will screw whenever they get the chance, just like you.

Icansing:
Even in the animal kingdom, male animals don't mate with their fellow male counterparts. Nonsense

Yes they do. I had a female dog that would try to ride other female dogs, I was a kid then and I didn't understand what was happening.

icedbeatz:
Sorry you feel that way.

No you are not.

icedbeatz:
Comprehension is your problem, HATE white people? are you crazy or slow? quit the racist nonsense pls. I got no child yet so where is your silly child support assumption from sister? once again you couldn't address the points I listed and even numbered for you yet you skipped them and started spilling what you know nothing about again. Stick to the points and stop beating around the bush, maybe you don't have the ability to keep your emotions in check when posting but try if you ever could by disproving those facts I listed with statistics instead of your pitiable tantrums at me hun ok? ;-).
Hate? if you got energy to waste on that I don't dear? My main point is it will be awesome for people to better themselves instead of depreciating and mothers can play an important role in such mission by raising their kids right, the fathers also have big roles to play. The concept of family should be encouraged so that the children won't go through all that hell and difficulties that influences their life negatively.

LMAO Looks like I struck a nerve. Your posts are nothing but childish tantrums, you remind me of an angry child, learn how to post without spilling your emotions all over the place because when you do that it makes conversing with you exhausting and boring. Grow up little boy. The topic is, *Why do Nigerian men go home to marry*and all you can contribute to the topic is your obsession with AA women, instead of obsessing on what Americans do or don't do why don't you invest that time and energy on getting yourself together. Go out there and make that paper so that you can marry your queen, because she wouldn't want you without the big paper, without it you are useless in your Queen's eyes. You said that you despise white people, so you are the racist not me.

icedbeatz:
1. You can play blind all you want I expected it but the proves are in most black communities period.
2. I don't say that about all Nigerian girls except those naive ones that allowed themselves to be morally corrupted by the "ain't sh!+ AA b!+ches" and all their bulls, I love my true and real African Queens but I still despise wh**es wherever I see them. My African Queens are the best and are on top of their game too and I'm so lucky to have one :-).
3. The problem is that the system have corrupted the average AA females that they don't know the d/f b/w bi+ches and "ladies, Old b**tches and Reasonable women but I also don't expect you to know nothing about that too. Ratchet b****** think that they're wonderful ladies and there's not morally wrong with them that's why they have no shame rather they're proud of having 2-3-4-5 different baby daddies and running to the govt to for welfare (handouts). They get rid of the man or the man leave them because they're rude and not marriageable at all that's why some of their offsprings that never had that father figure to teach them how to be a man turn out to be thugs, embrace the gang life and shoot each other. They're the consequences, byproducts of the destabilized concept of family that the system encourage by telling these b***** that they don't need any man or to worry how many kids they pop out because the welfare and child support will be handed to them. Thats why a guy can F a girl and her sister and it seems OK to them, once one got money most AA females are ready to do whatever. Wh**es dicking around, on the prowl looking for an unlucky guy to enslave through C.S especially when they know you got some money. Many unfortunate AA males are in the jail because a hoodrat got them there so gtfoh, So many Nigerian naive girls want to emulate that crap and would if they could but at least they have limits.
They only thing I might be obsessed with AA females is their head game ;-), they got more skills than a mofo hahahahahaa. Pls don't throw the word Lady around because b*tches don't fall under that category.
This is not castigation but the fact that happens most times, its sad to see these wild things happening. Its time the AAFs start doing something to better themselves for the community or the continuous depreciation of whatever is left will be gone.

WoooooooW!! I was only teasing you but this is more serious than I thought. You are really butt hurt, brotha that girl screwed you mentally. This sounds like a personal problem, just pay your child support so you will know your kids are being taken care of. Whomever she was dude just let it go. You said that you love your African Queen and you have one right now, well love and respect her, be good to her and maybe she can help you heal. You said that you hate the whites, well it's clear that you hate AA women also and we should be the last people on your mind. Even though these are only written words, I can feel your pain. Just let it go luv. I am AA so I don't see any reason to continue conversing with you until you seek some kind of therapy. Don't botther replying to this post.

Bollinger:
You are rambling as usual. You have not denied that the divorce laws in Nigeria are skewered in favor of men. You have not denied that the economic realities is the main reason women are scared to divorce their husbands in Nigeria. You have not denied that a man can wake up one morning and chase his wife out of their home with zero consequences. Even your president has pretty much summed up the attitude of men as regards their perception of women in Nigeria. Again, denying the obvious only perpetuates your ignorance. I wonder how you people think?

Daaaaaaang!! I love this guy.

jasmineee:
most young ladies in America or Western countries are not homely or well cultured like the women in nigeria. add me on bbm to chat D1B4AB44

When you write "well cultured" do you mean "well trained" like a pet?

icedbeatz:
why would one do them? that's not the point. The point is are most AAF ratchet or not ? yes or no its that simple.

I answered your question in my previous post. Why are you concerned about what AA women do anyway, I mean why do you care so much, we don't care about you. I guess your obsession is kind of flattering tho.

icedbeatz:
Did you see the doctor there? the point is that calling a spade what it is is not a curse or disrespect but what it is and you just flamed up. Instead of disproving the statement ( which is impossible) you dived into offensive mode but it still doesn't change the fact that some of them are on top of their game while "MOST" AA females are ratchet and you know this and must have witnessed many situations where b*+ches are displaying their ratchetness. Are you offended by it? why? because its not true? Why do some people find it hard to swallow the truth.

when the truth is presented/proven to me I have no problem excepting it, but you have not proven or presented any truth, all you have given was your ignorant opinions and generalisations. It is impossible for you to know most black American woman in the United States, so what you posted is just pure childish jokes. You are funny tho. Oh yeah! Why do you write the same things about Nigerian girls? I think the problem is you. Why don't you get one of your boys (that's if they aren't butt hurt like you) to teach you how to talk to a woman?

icedbeatz:
lol hahahaha hahahaha Like its hard to slide things inside some of them, girl please. What do you call a cop? A cop, a doctor? a doctor. Truth hurts.

We call a cop a police officer, the law, the pig, one time, mr. charlie. I don't get what you are trying to say. If you think they are so disgusting, why would you want to put your little rasin inside of them, they wouldn't feel it anyway. hmmmm! You must be disgusting also.

icedbeatz:
By asking him;
Lady: are you a virgin?
Guy: Yes I am :-).
and it's the truth automatically, its one of the perks of being a male dear.
Most black American females are just trash I swear, nothing else. Their attitude, their "ratchetness", where would one start. The " only" thing the got is just that hips, punni and azz for a guy to drill. Hard to see a well and truly mannered one.

How ignorant of you to call someone ill mannered and post this comment, reread it and see how ill mannered you are, who raised you to be the low-life that you are? I guess you know most black American women and they wouldn't let you put your little shribbled up raisin inside of them and now your'e buttt hurt. SORRY Dude!!

bitchcrafts:
Good grief , I was trying to stir up something likewise until the hunter became hunted courtesy U and Nubian's gang up. I don't like playing hunted.

Ok, I'll give you a "leave me alone" pass this time, but next time Nubian and I will come at you HARD if you try to stir things up with us. Anyway, my cousin is here now, time to go, we'll converse again. Later!

bitchcrafts:
Excuse me? don't play that fast one on me when you were making it seem like I'm construing some bloody ass comparisons, I wasn't OK, I know u understood me right lol, just pulling some legs. No?

lol Yes I understood you, but when you said that my comment made you so furious that you were weak in the knees you only opened up a window of entertainment for this bored lady who is just killing time outside in my car waitng for my cousin to get off of work, I had to go for it. lol No offence.

Talk2Bella:

bitchcrafts:
This sorta negative vibe infuriates and gets me utterly weak in the knees. Yes, Nigerian cultures teach good morals and there are a few bad eggs as it should be, So what?

lol Don't take everything so seriously, and yes it is true, I have made alot of men weak in the knees but all I was saying is your culture and morals are no greater than the next persons culture and morals, primitive or not.

Op if you marry this low-life it will show alot about your character. Alot of Nigerians love to brag and boast about their culture and morals, and then I see topics like this and I think to myself "what morals"?

awakeuche:
thank you for that astute deduction

You are welcome!

SerRento:
On the contrary, I believe that systems have their unique flaws. I do not support a man throwing out his wife, but when an Americana tries to talk down Nigeria by showing our flaws, I let him know his heavenly America have their own flaws too.

Well, when a Nigerian trys to talk down America by pointing out our flaws, I too like to shut him down by pointing out their heavenly Nigeria's faults, so we understand each other. As one of your brothers like to post "no offence".

ochuciano:
hahahahahahaha. by testing na

How can a woman test a man to know if he is a virgin?

awakeuche:
When these so called cultureless hoe's can get everything you own just like that, why wont Nigerian men run away from them..... My bro always tells me how loud and weird some black women can be for no reason, Nigerian women are ok but he says the jamaicans are something else.

Your brother said!! Do you know this through your own experiences? Your post is nothing more than he said she said gossip,

onelife97:
@op......according to my own personal experience,women are the same...The Good and the bad ones.
I am married with Oyinbo woman in the EU.Of course I have my own PMA as well but I have always been a good husband until she started showing me some bad colours after the delivery of our lil boy....It Got me to the extent of me thinkin of suicide..
Then I thought maybe I should start looking for an African woman most especially Nigerian woman to be precise from my ethnic group.Mind u I didn't 't really care about what part of Nigeria she might come from.Until last year that I went to Nigeria and met few ladies but I only chose one as I am not ready for any trial.
To cut the long story short the Nigerian ladies that I have met are not quite better than the white ladies here...The only different is just the language and culture.
Maybe I ve been unlucky in finding a virtuous woman but my story is the same with many successful young guys I know back in 9ja.The only thing many 9ja girls think they have to offer is round mid-back and the front deep shop.
So maybe this might be one of the reasons our guys also see them as baby factory because that is all the ladies tend to offer.
Maybe if I ll be fortunate enough to meet a fine 9ja babe around Eastern Europe or anywhere around here,maybe I ll consider it.But until then,I remain a living alone married man..
I Don't blame anyone for their choice in marriage or for family.If u haven't walked in their shoes u might never know the reason behind their action.

Stop blaming the women because you are the source of your own problems. You CONTINUE to make BAD choices.

FreeWorld23:
travel abroad and see why. Who wants to marry a bitchh who bleeps for cash ?

You can't be serious, are you telling me that Nigeria do not have (whores) women who have sexx for cash?

ogbonti:
this whole talk by bella is bulls. The gospel thruth is that the western world thrives on 2 things.... (1) pulling men down before women and (2) Mistrust.

1. pulling men down before women is UN-AFRICAN. Men are a little more valuable than robots, with their rights coming third behind women (First) Domesticated Animals (second) then Men (third) in that Order. If you dispute the pets having more rights than men in the Western world, go ask Michael Vicks of Philadelphia Eagles who was jailed for dog fighting

2. Mistrust, the USA for instance promotes mistrust due to overbearing capitalism. Every man is watching over his dollar and the easiest way to mess with your money is having an unvetted olosho[/i] coming to ruin your life because of relationships or marriage wahala.

The marriage laws in western world is overprotective of women hence most men are just into nacking [i]congos and moving on. If i tell you the number of single "jaw dropping" beautiful women in my city, here in the USA, who have great jobs and living so well materially but no stable relationship or being married, you will scream until your throat dried up of saliva. Why ? because, Men dont want commitment .. wether white, black, asian or hispanic...

SO WHAT IS THE PROBLEM?

I hope bela is listening? An African taking out of his natural environment (Africa) is like fish out of water ... most of us live well materially each day in the west, but we are in sorrow as we are not living the life we intend to live; life of morals of a nuclear family, with father, mother and kids being brought up with love and respect and strict discipline. Bela, don't crucify your African brothers. many are still in the immigration system. some come home with paroles or temporary entrance permits with conditions that are scary. They do not have permanent resident cards so, or Citizenship... so if they decide to wait until they get permanent resident card, they may clock 70 easily.

Another thing is most naija men are married to women they do not really love in the WEST... FACT!

So, when kpali issues make a man marry a woman and before kpali comes, the woman starts hatching kids on the ground, what do u expect the man to do? It is not like naija where u can tell the woman to get out of ur house, NAH... so the man starts to endure. he contemplates ending the whole thing, to go back home and marry his African Queen, who he really loves and feels happy being with... BUT, if the kpali level spoil and he is deported, where will he start his life from?? Will you not be among the ones gossiping him that he traveled abroad and was deported achieving nothing? I beg, lets call a spade a spade!

Do you know I have a family member who is 65, he came to the USA since age 25, he got married at 28 to an african american woman and they have 4 kids... eldest of the kids is 34, last born is 25, none of them have visited Nigeria and they do not hope to ever come. THINK ABOUT THE AGONY THIS MAN FACES EACH TIME HE VISITS NIGERIA.. he looks like a bachelor to members of his family in the village, he starts showing them pictures of his abroad family.... IF THAT IS YOUR RELATION, WILL YOU NOT ADVISE HIM TO GET A LADY PREGNANT AT HOME SO YOU CAN SEE HIS CHILD BEFORE HE DIES? it is easy to cast blame on western based African men living double lives .

so, before you talk rubbish about our men, make sure you have actually lived in our circumstances or situations. You think say to get paper na moi moi for jand? mot guys will love to come home, marry their childhood love and settle well abroad, but paper wahala 90% of the time is the yawa... watch AWILO song, le problem de papier... and u will understand. I REST MY CASE!

I didn't read all of this but lmao at domesticated animals being before men.

Jay542:
Cos they went there to hustle

Ok, you make sense.

bettercreature:
Most of them prefer to stay with someone rather using their hard currency to rent apartment,You may not be able to save money if you own an apartment.Only big guys own apartment abroad

Come on, you know that is not true, a person do not have to be loaded to have their own apartment and as far as the girls are concerned, they can have their own apartment and get a roomate to save on expenses so that she will be able to save money in her own savings account.

SerRento:
But you refuse to mention the problems with the American marriage laws. What do you have to say about no-fault divorce and that campaigns are underway to abolish the policy? In the US, a woman can we up one morning and decide shes no longer happy with her husband and divorce him, and what's worse, he still gets to pay her monthly stipends and rent or mortage, whichever case applies. And the beauty of this is that this violation is sanctioned by government. What a civilised way of handling marital issues. The day a woman will try that rubbish here, her family will receive her corpse piece by piece.

By the way, speak for those women you know who are treated like slaves. Not everyone shares your sordid history.

You, sir, are definitely funnier than I am.

What is the difference between an American woman waking up one morning and decides she no longer loves her husband and wants to file for divorce and a Nigerian man not loving his wife anymore and throwing his wife into the streets with nowhere to go and no funds to live on? The only difference is the American is female and the Nigerian is male but both are doing the same thing. You just believe that bad behavior is justifiable for a man.

NgcoboP:
American females have forgotten how to be women .... not worth marrying

Women or slaves?

Bollinger:
You are funny. You think if the societal structure in Nigeria was normal the divorce rate wouldn't be ten times higher than what exists in America? No one wants to be treated like slaves and Nigerian women are basically treated as such. The reason they are afraid to leave their husbands in Nigeria is because of the economic and legal realities that exist in the country. Both factors do not favor them. They know how difficult it would be to survive without the surpport of their husband especially when kids are involved. To make matters worse, the legal system does not favor them. A man can wake up one morning and chase his wife out of their matrimonial home and bring in someone else that same day and nothing will happen. Come and try that shiit over here. The reason the divorce rate in Nigeria is so low is because of fear on the part of women. It is that simple.

Bowing down.

Malakh:
Bella you dont live in the States,I've been in the States for over a decade I will never marry anything American or anyone trying to be American

I am American and I truly thank you for your wise decision, you are doing American women a great justice.

theripper3:
Wetin typical Naija man wan usr all these abroad girls do?

The Latinos chicks can talk you to death, body to die for but no brains with half his brothers in one gang or the other.

The black American chicks are just good for nothing but straffing , dem no even get plan for their own life sef , na make dem dey chop man money onto child support .

White woman fit wake up kill you cuz she dey depressed.

Naija girls dem born there na still same with akata chicks too since na same environment dem grow.

Our naija babes get crase too but dem dey try for marriage matter based on teachings, experiences from motherland and even upbringing so they are least try make their marriages work

The other categories na just waste of time except you wan die young as a man sha. Goodluck

I'm sure those women are treating you like the piece of crap that you are, if you don't want to provide for your babies, common sense should tell you not to straff those African Americans, Latinas, white and Nigerians American women, but like we all know, everyone isn't blessed with common sense. Please do American women a huge favor and straff your naija girls only. On second thought, please continue screwing those white girls, maybe they'll wake up and do exactly what you predicted them to do.

ochuciano:
The women abroad should come home too and pick virgin guys as the men do too.


It should be easy for them cuz they have equal rights values already instil in them. Some nigeria guys will gladly accept their proposal.

lol How would she know if he is a virgin or not?