₦airaland Forum

tanigororo:
And there are weekly owambe, hall are fully booked, wedding planners keep getting jobs, dey play.

The topic is a lot bigger than your wedding ceremonies and owambè.

BrickandLace:
Well thank God.

I have a loving fiancé.

He can't live without me .

I know he also loves his life....

Good for you but that picture no follow sha. A man can't be happy when he's restricted. No one can be

Carry better mechanic follow before you put body oo

Chai. Our leaders no rate us at all
Nigeria is really irredeemable

insidelife22:
Honestly black south Africans are no better than 🐕🐶🐕🐕🐕🐕

Him even dey claim right ontop the matter! saying she's got boobs and she's matured enough. That tells you how the average SA man thinks. I just dey vex. Imagine the ones that didn't make it online?

The guy should have been bl00died, make em set finally. Imagine the guts

Some comments from viewers on IG

A South African 🇿🇦 man has reportedly admitted to repeatedly h@rass!ng an 11-year-old Nigerian girl, forcing her mother to confront him and issue a strong warning.

According to the mother, whenever young Zite goes out to dispose of the trash, their South African neighbour calls out to her and attempts to lur€ her into his apartment.

The mother revealed that this d!sturbing behaviour has been going on for some time.

Omor.. the most annoying thing is the guy still claiming he has the right to do anything since he's South African. Thank God no be my child na me for start the war walai and the guy would have been beneath the earth's surface by now

💔 A Nigerian mother has cried out that a South African man was dr@gging and attempting to lure her 11-year-old daughter into his room.

The Nigerian woman confronted the South African man, only for him to say that the 11-year-old girl had developed breasts. 😭

The distressed… pic.twitter.com/110DUp3qke

— Phonomobile (@Phonomobile1) June 10, 2026

Why is it difficult to leave that country for goodness sakes. They don't want you there. Can't other Africans just get it into their thick skulls for once? Leave!!!

There's fire on the mountain and these mfkaz are dancing and frolicking

Yeah i read this somewhere yesterday too and it's very accurate

Diamond098454:
Kiddaz you scared me with your words

I'm not sorry that i didn't say what you wanted to hear. I don't play like that

Diamond098454:
Are you this wicked? Hope you will not cheat on her ?

Lol wicked? If self preservation is wickedness then let me be Satan. I don't know how to fck two or more women at a time it's why growing up i didn't fancy relationships but just sexing with whomever aligned with me. When i started dating I never cheated. The only time i used to run through different girls even in my younger days was when I was single cos i owe no one no loyalty. It's the reason i must really like a girl's body and mind before even shooting my shots. Its not fun deceiving people. I rather be single and free than pretend to be with you while I'm everywhere. I'm just too evolved for that bs

Diamond098454:
Like seriously?

You won't forgive your partner?

Like if she cheated? Lol i will hold no grudges against her definitely. I will only be angry at myself if i didn't know she's loose from the onset which is most unlikely. Like i said no grudges, she's forgiven but I will never ever be a part of her anymore. As a matter of fact she's dead to me the moment i confirm it. If I'm dating a lady and she's entertaining other men she's already one foot out the door and i will make sure what we have is broken eventually because when a woman does that she's looking to fill a void and that means I'm not enough, and if I'm not enough now then I can't ever be enough for her. So spare me the bs. You're either in or out. Its very simple

Diamond098454:
The same thing that pushes men to get down with every soft skin out there is the same thing that pushes women too.

So, it's not about gender

It is.
This same thing that devalues the woman actually empowers the man, wether y'all admit it or prefer to still pretend about it under your fake wokeness and equally

A philandering man is seen as skilled and experienced in the ways of the sword but for a woman She's a garden tool

Lol that family will definitely not settle in this present day Nigeria. One day Nigerians will no longer see the need to japa, one day we will no longer suffer rampant insecurities but until then... By all means necessary, get that money and secure your family!

LabStores:

Modern-day men are increasingly drawn to traditional women for marriage, not because they want slaves or silence, but because peace, loyalty, respect, family values, and emotional stability still matter.

Many men are no longer searching for the loudest woman in the room. They want a partner who understands teamwork, support, commitment, and building together. Beauty may attract, but character sustains a home.

Ironically, in many homes today, the maid is often seen as more respectful, responsible, humble, caring, and family-oriented than the daughters raised with entitlement and social media validation. That says a lot about modern upbringing.

A wife is not chosen only by fashion, vibes, or online popularity. High value smart Men observe attitude, temperament, discipline, kindness, and how a woman treats people when there is nothing to gain.

At the end of the day, many men still want peace more than pressure, partnership more than competition, and a woman who can help build a home, not just decorate one.

You have said it all. Some months ago I was saying something similar and some people were arguing here that a domesticated woman isn't important and the eeeediiiiut was even mentioning Dangote s wife not cooking for the man, like he knows the man personally to know his preferences. Growing up in a very large polygamous home taught me a lot. I'm not from a poor family at all and even though we had maids and domestic staffs all through my growing up, they never really cooked what we ate, house chores, errands and other domestics but we the kids still learned how to and even today me as a guy cook pass plenty women I have met and dated. My old man back in the days when we were kids used to personally take us the boys, every last Saturday of the month to some of his lands on the outskirts so we can learn how to farm, no driver nothing, he takes us there himself, I remember very well. Once we reach the village we first stop at the King's palace and then proceed to the farm to work and it was fun cos we always brought things home and bragged about who did much and stuffs. He was teaching us something valuable even though he could afford not to but he saw that as something important that his kids should have. As a guy I can cook anything wella, I can't stand a dirty or unkempt environment or individual because I know better but some men are very comfortable with anything so long as they "love". Na so one babe my neighbor forgot her keys somewhere and decided to use my bathroom in a rush. After she finished this girl no let me rest again. Saying she's has never seen a guy's bathroom as neat as mine blah blah blah... I just dey look am like so I'm supposed to be dirty because I be man? I done stop to dey even argue the matter bro. Let everyone live how they want and bring up their kids how they want. In the end we all reap that which we sow.

BestLife247:
Belly Pack has come! Can't laugh abeg.

Una own dey come no worry, just dey laugh now

💯

Goo0dHardDick:
Waste of time and effort.

Perhaps these ones are jobless.

Other tribes shouldn't join any protest because if they do, Yorubas will call it igbo protest or anti Yoruba protest. After-all they said Tinubu single handedly built Lagos which is now competing with Germany and Norway in their Dreamland

Lol... even in their Dreamland, it's impossible 👿

Diamond098454:
Good questions

You are rightbut girls that date such men are trying.
I can't go close to unattractive man

Na so them talk too but then money / the good life can be very attractive when you have to do almost nothing for it

I didn't even bother reading everything because the reality is if it was your mom or dad that died there would definitely had been no excuse, so if he thinks you don't value or rate him enough to make sacrifices then maybe you don't really do and you should look elsewhere too. People make time for what they really care about. oaky I have finished it due to some comments and then your question:

My question is:

If someone ends a relationship, then later decides to "forgive" you and resume the wedding without your consent, would you see that as love... or as a dangerous sense of entitlement?

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

It's not love, you are both clearly not compatible. Like I said previously. Really move on and forget about them

Diamond098454:
Are you sure this is fake? Girls dating Alhaji really get mind Ooooooo

I know things do happen but most of these are just for content abeg and this one is probably one of them.
Where is this happening?
Who is she?
Who is the Alhaji?
When did all of it happen?

Fake

Mariangeles

VDM is a big ediiiot 😆😂

Hollandia2030:
Exactly what I have been thinking.


Damn niggarr😁

Shebi you know say na axxxeman without survival OT when base for Benin. Anything might have happened to his enemy or maybe he's tired of nairaland

Better work on your dirty character traits instead of laying curses that won't fly

QuinQ:
Sad thing is that the ones who do all that running around ("bad" girls) marry first. The quiet plain ones come last. "Badness" always finds a way to win

It's never about "marrying first " rather it's about marrying right so you can stay married and fulfilled for a long time. Most of those your bad girls who married first end up unmarried, separate or living in hell while they put on a show for you to watch from the outside without having a clue of what goes on inside. I know a lot of them in this category. Give or take 7- 10 years the pretence and fake love comes crashing down. A really good girl always wins in the long run and it's a fact

Sonnobax15:

Werey people everywhere.

Instead of them to act,and think beyond the box,on how to rescue the innocent kidnapped pupils,here they are fighting someone who came out to speak about exposing those who are behind the whole scenario

This country don tire me. And to even think there are some maddddd people who derive their daily erections from defending these politicians beat my imagination.

That's not fighting him. These are very trying times and a lot is at stake in case you are sleeping. If someone comes out to say such he should be bold enough to mention those behind it. Are you not tired of fighting shadows? There's obviously people behind these attacks all over the country and if anyone knows anything they should openly say so, instead of biting their tongues like cowards. Every little information is important right now and this information isn't little at all. If Igboho is too scared he can go to exile and say the truth from there. I'm tired of the bs running around in circles abeg

God forbid

Lifestyle in UK will drain you. If you're not mentally and emotionally strong enough na you know. Exactly what my childhood friend was discussing with me yesterday. Guy has been in UK for long with his family. He was just talking about the difference between here and there and the way they work sooo hard with almost no time for leisure. She should find a shoulder to cry on so she can get a pipe to ride on. Depression is real and good sex reduces it's symptoms