₦airaland Forum

Sonnobax15:
. You even try say you allow am to stay your house after you discover. Person wey you for show the exit door the moment you see that price tag on top your TV. Honestly,na now I understand why my father say to help human beings these days don dey hard for am.

Sonnobax15:

Sometimes, just help and leave the rest for God. But then again,e get some kind people wey you go help,you go just regret why you be kind person for the rest of your life.

Personally I've gotten my own fill of this type of friendship. Your own even good na. There's a neighbor of mine whom I've helped countless of times,but today she doesn't patronize me at all. Instead,she patronize others . Unfortunately,things seems to have gotten tough for them. So 3 days ago,she came to my shop, wanting to fill her gas on credit. Imagine,she has been buying from others but for the first time of wanting to buy from me,na credit leg you use waka come . Omoh,tho I really wanted to help her but one small voice on the inside of me whispered to me, reminding me of how many times I've helped them in the past but was paid with bad.

Powerbandooo:
I have been in your shoes helping people like that, such that if I should look back at how much I have given them, patronize what they sell, I will feel that anger and annoyance in me when they betray you
One thing I used to comfort myself is I also have been a situation that I need help, and people go out of their way to help me,
But I believe we humans need each other, when you feel you are been exploited, you back off


The funny thing is that they will be addressing you as yes sir, yes ma, praying prayers on you like anything, when table turns, you will know their real colour, it better you just avoid them

In everything you do, never loose guard for anything

Proserpina:

Overuse is not good.

Proserpina:
This one is jealous of intimacy gadgets

Men and monitoring spirit ehn He should talk about men who self service and leave women to advise women.

Toto watchers everywhere

Mattswaggz:
You know wetin Arsenal fans see for Chelsea's fans hand all these years of little or no trophies so?. .

faithfull18:
This right here we both know isn't true. Look around you, don't we have more single mothers than fathers? A woman will think about a lot of things, the well-being of the child/children before any other thing. If not, there should be more single fathers. Women are really selfless self-centered.

gerizzim:
why not do this thing in a more dignifying way. look for am advance single lady or a widow too and wrk tins out dt way. In the real sense of marriage.

One dt will stay with you permanently to be ur companion Dan all these pay as you go gals. this ur approach will drain you of resources trying to keep maintaining these gfrnds.

Moreover, will you approve your 17yrs old daughter to date a single dad of 56yrs your age?

If you can not proudly introduce dt 28yrs old gal your eyeing to ur daughter as a side chick or gfrnd, den dnt push this ur amorous overture's further. Think about this

Mynd44:
I know the drug addicts will be the first ones to complain.

You fill your brain with hallucinogens daily and think you are "better and stronger" mentally and in judgement?

You are one bad trip away from the psych ward and any person who bets his/her future on you is in danger of a lifetime with someone who can develop a drug-induced neuropsychosis problem.

Heck your comment up there is probably due to hallucinations

onatisi:
most likely that church is situated near a bush

brain54:
You focus more on bad news and negativity...


You love using failed celebrity marriages to preach cynicism but conveniently ignore the many Nigerian celebrity marriages that have lasted for decades despite fame, money, beauty, career growth, and public pressure.






Listen up Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva
Married since 1989.


That is over 35 years together. They built businesses together. Raising children together and stayed together through Olu Jacobs’ health challenges.


Joke Silva openly cared for her husband during his battle with dementia instead of abandoning him when things got hard.



Omotola Jalade Ekeinde and Captain Matthew Ekeinde got married in 1996.

Nearly 30 years together. Omotola became one of Africa’s biggest actresses AFTER marriage. Yet the marriage survived fame, wealth and global recognition.


She repeatedly credits mutual trust and support for their longevity. They raised four children together while both built successful careers.



Simi and Adekunle Gold both entered marriage as successful musicians and continued growing afterward. Instead of competing destructively they openly support each other’s careers, collaborate and raise their daughter together while maintaining one of the most respected celebrity marriages in modern Nigerian entertainment.



Richard Mofe-Damijo and Jumobi Adegbesan
Married since 2000. Over two decades together despite RMD remaining one of Nollywood’s biggest stars and sex symbols.


No public scandal circus. No bitterness tour. Just stability and family.



How can I not add Banky w and Adesua Etomi



Both public figures. Successful individually and still together through fertility struggles, health scares, politics and intense online scrutiny.


They openly speak about partnership, therapy, faith and mutual support.



So no “helping your wife succeed” is not some guaranteed path to destruction.



Some marriages fail. Some marriages last.



The determining factor is not whether a woman became educated, successful or financially independent. Human relationships are more complex than that.


A healthy marriage is built on character, compatibility, respect, emotional maturity, communication and shared values. Not on keeping one partner intentionally small out of fear!

rowland545:
Y would any guy b turned on by another man's wife....that a red line

Starz825:
Bro...I notice one thing

Some girls are made for marriage- once you meet them ..you go know

Meanwhile, some other girls are just for fun...when you meet with them...you go know too..

If as a man....you no sabi how to spot the difference...then oyo

Goldrosewine:
You are trying way too hard to project your bitterness and low expectations of women onto me, but I have the time to answer you today.😋😋

First of all, let’s address your sad attempt to make me feel small with your "royal persona" comparison. Royalty isn't just a title or a bloodline; it's a state of mind and a standard of behavior.

I told you, when look in the mirror, what I see is a queen. It doesn't matter if life tries to put me down; I absolutely refuse to relegate myself to the dirt just because others are comfortable there. My self-worth isn't up for debate or comparison with women who lack the discipline to match their aesthetics. It's not my fault that you think your daughter isn't a royalty just because you are not a king! 😋🙂

Secondly, you keep calling having a next-door "Chike" an "opportunity." That right there tells me everything I need to know about your mindset. Marital breakdown is a sad tragedy, not a golden "opportunity" to audition for the streets. A woman who does what his wife did has absolutely no class.

If life happens and a husband goes rogue, a woman of value doesn't sneak around to get even. You take your time, handle it with dignity, go through with a divorce, meet good guys, select the best to avoid making the same mistake, and properly start a new life. That is what class is.

And boy... I will repeat this again! you really need to go back and actually listen to Mr. Frank's podcast again with your ears open this time. He wasn't exactly "keeping malice" he resorted to non-violent means of handling the matter. There is a massive difference, but I guess nuance is lost on someone trying so hard to justify bad behavior.🤷‍♂️

As for your little hypothetical question: "If your current boyfriend decides to ignore you for 3 months, will you wait or try the new guy?"

If a boyfriend ignores me for three months, he is no longer my boyfriend. Period. I don't cheat; I pack up and leave. It’s called having boundaries and self-respect. You should look into it. And it is for this reason I am taking time to enlighten you on this issue and hopefully you'll pass the message to your daughter🙂

Since you are so convinced that every woman's morality is in the mud and that cheating is just a natural response to being neglected, let me also ask you this again since it triggered you, obviously 🤣. If this so-called "opportunity" happens to your daughter, would you encourage her to do the same? Will you pat her on the back for throwing her dignity away with the next-door neighbor just because her husband was distant?

Answer that.

Gold 🌹 🍷

adamkkk:
Dele...happy birthday to an a hustler

Chienex24:
Cho Cho Cho Cho Cho!! Dem fit still beat you join!! Rubbish, like you be anything

Jerryblaq:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pv_Tl1T32Q4

SHOCKING FOOTAGE from a raid on an illegal factory producing counterfeit beverages in Nigeria.
This disturbing video shows rows of fake bottled drinks, stacked cartons of popular branded wines and spirits, mixing areas, and workers being questioned on site. From imitation premium wines to everyday drinks — these counterfeit operations are flooding the market with dangerous, adulterated products.
Many Nigerians are linking such activities to the rising cases of kidney failure and unexplained health issues among young people.
Public Health Warning:
- Avoid cheap or suspiciously affordable "branded" drinks
- Stick to plain water (properly treated/boiled/filtered)
- Fresh homemade juices (orange, zobo, tigernut) are safer
- Always check seals, labels, and NAFDAC numbers carefully

This is a nationwide problem driven by greed and weak enforcement. Your life is not a gamble.