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Old thread but Nigerians have had comprehension problems for a long time. OP clearly stated that she lost four pregnancies meaning miscarriages, Nigerians converted that miscarriage to mean abortions. Na wa

So ? What can you do about it asides rant online ?

You be mumu

correctyourself:
The name of this agency is it from Latin?

EFCC

TheJess:
Hi. I do not totally agree with you. They have been operating in other countries including Ghana, so right now, they are looking to get into Nigeria to give practical climate education to schools, communities and office spaces.

For the Notary, including plugs for such purpose was probably to make it easy for prospective persons because honestly, I never knew what Notary is, talk less of how to go about it. So that link gave me an understanding of what Notary is and also some person that could make it work without even stressing myself.

I think you need to understand that they work with processes and having a coordinator is not really something to point out because they cannot be everywhere. I’m Ghana has their own coordinators in different regions and that’s what it’ll be like here as their own kind of structure.

And no the assessment wasn’t rushed and filled with irrelevant or frustrating questions.

It was just questions that required them to know that you really are what you are as regards the role you applied for.

I’ll need you to be objective and see how the whole thing turns out.

this nairaland account was opened April 19th 2025, same day you answered this post. Why should anyone take you serious knowing fully well that companies pay for gigs such as what you're doing now

shortgun:
There's nothing like ghosts that can interact with physical matter.
They can only speak to you, that is if you know what to do.

lol okay

A private citizen utilized his time and resources as he deemed fit yet you, battling whatever economic demons that's afflicting you, are the one complaining. Are you his wife or side chick ? The wickedness you people exhibit in this country is mind blowing

EFCC case

They keep withdrawing mopols every four market days and that's why Nigerians never take IGP directives on this matter seriously

Everyone knows their history in Edo state except the Oba who wants to claim territories that never belonged to him since time immemorial. He started with the Ijaws who have repeatedly called his bluff and now, he has moved to the Igbankes

He won't resign, he can claim crisis in the PDP which clueless elders like you allowed to fester by treating Wike with kid gloves. The PDP as a party is populated by inept jokers

"If I Demand N20 billion every month and even award all the contracts to myself, that’s politics. Where was he when I was fighting?

“I have to be politically relevant and I must maintain my political structure. I can’t allow anybody to cut me out immediately.

“If you like accuse me all you like, I won’t have a sleepless night because the right thing must be done.”

This criminality is what APC vuvuzelas have been supporting with one mouth while condemning corruption at the same time with the same mouth. Does the "20 billion naira" of Rivers state money monthly belong to Wike's father ? I'm sure the evil ones will quip as usual that "agreement is agreement" before heading to the next thread and asking Nigerians to leave Lagos and go back to their dirty states. How does one go back to a state where developmental projects are handicapped because a single godfather demands (according to said godfather o) 20 billion naira every month and all contracts going through him in Abuja? Political hypocrisy and criminality has to be destroyed once and for all for Nigeria to move forward, it's just unfortunate that Fubara just doesn't have courage even though he could have ended this matter within three days from onset

SisterAnn:
Killaboi, why do you write this long epistle without paragraphing? Is it because you don't want me to read it?

no vex

Or more likely, the Democratic Party's sponsorship of terrorist acts against Tesla vehicles and facilities

There's absolutely no special function for this PWD number plates except to make money because, why not just make special stickers for them to be placed on their vehicles ? Criminals

The only thing you should be bothered about is security because, I can assure you that your father in law is way richer than you or his daughter can imagine (fear those old cocoa farmers with their raggedy clothes)
You already have a smartphone with internet and you're a member of nairaland so why not browse through the agric section and ask questions there while learning a thing or two from baba ? It's a shame people here have to advise you on accepting a sitting goldmine, a friend changed his life story with ordinary ugwu and corn planted in Ogun state, he's now based in Europe while you have cassava (assuming we forget about the cocoa). Baba, abeg use your head na

EnemyofGod3:
Please help me.

My wife has given me two weeks to send my mother back to the village,or she will leave or end our marriage, she accused my mother of been a witch,of which I was angry with her that day,I almost beat her up for accusing my mother

from the day she accused my mother of been a witch, she has developed hatred for my mother.

I'm the only child my mother Born,my old mother has nobody in the village to take Care of her,I'm afraid if I send my mother back to the village,my mother might die before her time.i love my mother so much and I also love my wife so much.

Nairalander, please what should I do ?

I don't understand why you guys have to tell unnecessary lies because, the highest you can get here is front page so, why not just post in literature section

Mansa6:
Oga!

Some bit of your advice is good but the part of saying the guy doesn't have confidence is kind of a "knee jerk" conclusion based on what you have taken from the OP's post..

There is NOTHING wrong with the man person say even when we understand that NO ONE is perfect ..

Talking about the man paying his bills and doing what he's supposed to do is an MODERN DAY MANIPULATION tactic used by narcissistic women to gaslight their men..

It's TOTAL GASLIGHTING...if a woman sees that her husband isn't doing as well as she wants or needs,it behoves on her to "switch on" her EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE THINKING MACHINE and do the "hardwork"..

This nonsense of women now giving silly childish excuse of misbehaving because the man isn't living up to his financial/domestic responsibility van ONLY fly for men that are SELF UNAWARE,which the streets erroneously call SIMPS...most people don't even understand the true meaning of being a SIMP..

My advice to the man is NOT to break up the marriage..it's ALWAYS better that anyone who isn't interested in keeping and working on the marriage should be allowed to walk away on their own...

Do your thing..Be your AUTHENTIC self...don't change for ANYONE ,so as to be appreciated more ..change for your own personal good..

Most men that are still.married for upwards of 25 years and above have seen such behavior in their wives at a pint in their lives but maybe a slightly different versions..

IGNORE HER!

I am speaking from personal experience..been married for over 2 decades and have seen this kind of behavior..

you're right but when I say pay bills or handle all responsibilities expected of him as a man, I want him to fulfil all righteousness for himself, the kids and especially just in case outsiders like family elders try to intervene or ask questions about what would have made the wife go haywire. I'm happy you're experienced in this game and I'm sure you know that women have one crazy mentality on stepping all over men with calm demeanors or as we say, good guys so there's no need keeping things in the chest, tell her shes fùcking up but if she continues especially on this path he's facing then as for me, it's all out war. There's a case I'm mediating right now that I don't want to talk about here but as we speak, the woman and her people are begging because true true, township na mind. Married women always forget that those men outside who tickle their ears only want a few weeks of adventure and never commitment. So like you said, if she wants to go, she can go but I'll advise him to cushion that effect by making himself presentable and indeed letting her know that there are many fishes ready in the river

This hypothetical husband has ingrained bad behaviour from childhood and if the woman involved goes back to him, it's suffer pro max. The reason he's begging is because no other woman especially those of high value will tolerate his bullshít and that's why I keep telling the ladies around me to be financially independent which first of all separates the wheat from the chaff of men surrounding them. Learn a high earning skill or start a profitable business with regular returns. Advise that lady as if she were your sister

Soweyrey is more interested in Peter Giringory Obi than the actual government in power who are tormenting Nigerians like never seen before and if that doesn't tell you something then your logical reasoning capacity is very flawed. The agent provocateur shall be exposed very soon

Ridross:
I’m currently studying for my first degree in Statistics. I can graduate with a 2.1 effortlessly, but getting a first-class would require a bit effort. My issue is that I’m already balancing a job, plus I’m feeling lazy and unmotivated about school.

For those who have graduated and have experience about the labour market, please:

Are there any significant advantages to having a first-class over a 2.1?
Did it make a difference in your career, further studies, or job opportunities?

I need real-life experiences and opinions to convince me whether to put in the effort or just avoid unnecessary stress.

graduate with the best result that you can possibly get and forget all those clowns telling you that school na scam. With a good result, you're one phone call from breakthrough but with a bad result, the hustle is ten times harder

kolente:
Dear Writer,

You can make use of ChatGPT some other time when you have a lengthy write-up of this nature.

thanks for your unsolicited advise but I'm not interested in outsourcing my thought process especially over trivial issues

Lol

CrisNews:
My Girlfriend went for a wedding and posted pictures from the event and I notice she Tagged her Ex-Boyfriend on the Facebook Post. On Easter, yesterday she also tag him on her post!

Should I confront her because I feel like something is wrong somewhere?

Advise me on what to do please

why confront her ? You've been given green light to play your own music and you're talking about confrontation
Does she have any beautiful friend or sister giving you green light ? Get that one's number and Facebook profile then be tagging that person constantly to your posts especially when you hangout. Testify with a crate of Goldberg Black later

I thought I was the only one with bad character

You don't need to shout or beg anymore, your wife is quarter gone out of the house already so the best thing is to look out for yourself and the kids. If its possible to get a lesson teacher and house keeper that comes once or twice a week, I believe you should take that option and don't even bother about asking her permission/input. Also take care of yourself by dressing sharp (if you dont) and smelling nice, go out more often even if it's to the gym. If your house is big, take a separate room from hers and don't ever bother her about sèx again. Give her anything she wants financially but allow her fly. You're a guy man so you should know women need rivals once in a while and it's just the sad world we live in. If you cant cheat then, get a bestie or rent a babe but you gan need to unload so how we wan do am now You gats blow outside Anyways, no follow am drag anything again even if she open mouth say she wan go, open door quietly and give her thirty minutes to move her stuff, nobody go tell her say township na mind, na she go find out by herself. Your main issue is that you lack self confidence which is very important when dealing with these our women. See, even if she involves her parents or whoever, you have to calmly tell them that their daughter is useless and you didnt know from day one that she lacked home training as a decent woman but no wahala. My advice is under the assumption that you're doing your full duties financially as a father and husband and if you're not, go wash your head for your papa village