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Advice Please by sophiaabba(f): 4:03pm On May 24, 2016
I have been dating this guy for a year plus and he proposed to me on his birthday noticed that anytime i get pregnant, he cheats openly not mind in how i feel which made me lose four pregnancies. His dad came to see my pips and despite my answer decision on leaving the relationship, his dad completely understand me and he said he has accepted me as his daughter and he's looking forward to pouring his blessings on i n his son. After he left, my Ex went back to that same life style n even worst now. Have tried all i can to no avail n am being stigmatized of d lost of pregnancies which has left me in fear of going into another relationship as i dnt know if am ok gynaecollogically and my things still at d guys house. What do i do pls
Re: Advice Please by jonaifame22(m): 4:06pm On May 24, 2016
my daughter dem no dey sell human eggs for market better leave that guy b4 u abort and finish all the eggs wey dey ur belle wey u carry come dis world
Re: Advice Please by Nobody: 4:11pm On May 24, 2016
"He cheats openly"

Sis, seriously? Where's the worth at

Uve had abortion for him 4x already, so assuming you guys date 2 more years, Ud have had a dozen removed already

The writing is on the wall, he's only playing you

Tomorrow if he tells his father he's marrying another girl, he'll still support him

Pick up your pieces and leave him already.
A guy who values her lady won't play her like this truss me

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Re: Advice Please by torqque7(m): 4:12pm On May 24, 2016
Mtcheeew..
Re: Advice Please by ronald4lif(m): 4:14pm On May 24, 2016
Never heard of condom and contraceptive? undecided
Re: Advice Please by IRserveMyComent(f): 4:14pm On May 24, 2016
Within a year plus and you have already aborted four times In this present day the so called protection is everywhere Babe you want to kill urself?

My advice to you is to make your choice. because from all indications you have known him for who he is. Are you ready to be cheated everytime you are pregnant? who knows he might still cheat when you are not pregnant. Are you ready to condone infidelity through out your life time #Except he encounters Christ#?

If you are not ready it is better you walk away now.
Forget about the dad and what he said becos he is not going to live with you.

Babe you really messed up. Try and check up ur system at the hospital, I pray everything is still intact.
i wish you well.
Incase you enter another relationship wisen up gurl.
Re: Advice Please by lovingT(f): 4:15pm On May 24, 2016
Babes I don't know what u want oh. U want us to tell u to go back to him Am sure even if ur brain is not working u should know that even God can't make him a better man n you should run for ur life

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Re: Advice Please by ivyy(f): 4:18pm On May 24, 2016
Do you love thyself at all? If you do, you'd move on.
Re: Advice Please by IRserveMyComent(f): 4:18pm On May 24, 2016
lovingT:
Babes I don't know what u want oh. U want us to tell u to go back to him Am sure even if ur brain is not working u should know that even God can't make him a better man n you should run for ur life


"God cant make him a better man", says who
Re: Advice Please by onstelly(f): 4:23pm On May 24, 2016
IRserveMyComent:
Within a year plus and you have already aborted four times In this present day the so called protection is everywhere Babe you want to kill urself?

My advice to you is to make your choice. because from all indications you have known him for who he is. Are you ready to be cheated everytime you are pregnant? who knows he might still cheat when you are not pregnant. Are you ready to condone infidelity through out your life time #Except he encounters Christ#?

If you are not ready it is better you walk away now.
Forget about the dad and what he said becos he is not going to live with you.

Babe you really messed up. Try and check up ur system at the hospital, I pray everything is still intact.
i wish you well.
Incase you enter another relationship wisen up gurl.
I think she meant miscarriages not abortions or am I wrong
Re: Advice Please by firstking01(m): 4:23pm On May 24, 2016
Advice you wetinundecided??...you are a disgrace to womanhood...abegi, gerrarahia mehhhnundecided
Re: Advice Please by lovingT(f): 4:26pm On May 24, 2016
IRserveMyComent:


"God cant make him a better man", says who

OYA stay for God to make him a better man.
Re: Advice Please by IRserveMyComent(f): 4:33pm On May 24, 2016
lovingT:


OYA stay for God to make him a better man.

My dear she must not remain there waiting for God to make him a better man. But the fact remains that God can change any man.
Re: Advice Please by thorpido(m): 4:34pm On May 24, 2016
A year plus relationship and you have had four abortions?Where's your self-worth sophiaabba?Haven't you heard of contraceptives?
You are in a relationship with a guy who's not committed to you and you are damaging your body in the process.
Why don't you close your legs for a while so you can re-evaluate your life?
Re: Advice Please by fdnoble2(m): 4:35pm On May 24, 2016
she doesn't make it clear if it is abortion or miscarriage, i would have know what to say
Re: Advice Please by IRserveMyComent(f): 4:36pm On May 24, 2016
onstelly:

I think she meant miscarriages not abortions or am I wrong

Miscarriage?
i dont think so.
Re: Advice Please by sophiaabba(f): 4:37pm On May 24, 2016
Miscarriages n evacuation i meant
Re: Advice Please by lovingT(f): 4:41pm On May 24, 2016
IRserveMyComent:


My dear she must not remain there waiting for God to make him a better man. But the fact remains that God can change any man.

That statement was not meant to be taken literally. I meant he was too damaged for her to be asking for advice. Like she's considering staying in the relationship

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Re: Advice Please by sophiaabba(f): 4:47pm On May 24, 2016
I'd wanted to leave long before now but i feel am obliged to make a change in his life. Am not the malicious type and even if i leave, it shouldn't be grudgingly
Re: Advice Please by Nobody: 4:53pm On May 24, 2016
sophiaabba:
I'd wanted to leave long before now but i feel am obliged to make a change in his life. Am not the malicious type and even if i leave, it shouldn't be grudgingly


So you're willing to destroy yourself in course for an urepentant stiff-head?
Re: Advice Please by skywalker240(m): 5:16pm On May 24, 2016
it seems u sayin miscaraige and pipo be mistakin it 4 abortion...ok
A man who is ready to settle down should not do such kinda sh!t...
Ireservemycomment,..u know what to do urself.
Re: Advice Please by Cutehector(m): 5:21pm On May 24, 2016
Sophiaabba why? cry who cursed u like this
Re: Advice Please by Mcoldsoja(m): 2:34am On Aug 26, 2016
sophiaabba:
Miscarriages n evacuation i meant
Miscarriages!! Wetin be ya blood group?
Re: Advice Please by alobright17(m): 7:34am On Aug 26, 2016
firstking01:
Advice you wetinundecided??...you are a disgrace to womanhood...abegi, gerrarahia mehhhnundecided
Easy na abi na fight? grin
Re: Advice Please by alobright17(m): 7:38am On Aug 26, 2016
Keep forcing yourself to something you don't have control over,instead of facing the reality of life and move to the next level.
I believe one serious guy is somewhere around the corner begging you ever since,but that confused thing called love wouldn't allow you reason or think clearly.I hope and believe that after today you'll simply take the bold step and move on.

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Re: Advice Please by IamLEGEND1: 8:03am On Aug 26, 2016
women.

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