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Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 7:27pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos:. I am only concerned about my love life as per money I know who I am. Can create something from nothing. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 7:22pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Divoc19:. There are healthy ways to go about it. Not creating bad blood. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 7:12pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Divoc19:. I don't want to have resentment for her when things work out. My mentor is advising I put the relationship on hold for now so as to avoid bad energy and am seriously considering it. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 7:11pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos:. Go back and read my post. I like when I spend my money because it makes me feel like a man. If I chose to go with the other lady, it is for me to go get a decent income. Someone must lend a hand for you to cross the bridge. I am not a lazy person. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 7:08pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Acidosis:I did mention that I always pay back whenever I take money from her. Sometime she wouldn't have it but I always insist. I don't want to hurt her else I will have call it quits while I work on my finance and self development. It was her ideal that we should evolve together. I only need a little patience from her. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 7:02pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Rubbiish:. No you are wrong. My girl is a good person but her inconsistency is my problem. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 7:00pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Divoc19:Me and her plan to leave Nigeria so the other lady is not the issue. I need a level playing ground to achieve my dream don't know if I am asking for too much? |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 6:58pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Divoc19:. Her attitude is not my problem. Threatened to walk away is the issue. I am working on my financial life and I know things will improve ASAP. I don't need a fair-weather kind of relationship. I need her to give me the benefits of the doubt. If things go south for her what do you expect me to do, stand by her right? |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 5:06pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
delugadou:I have sent you mail through my email box |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 9:57am On Aug 13, 2021 |
yomi007k:. You are right. I only want to do the right thing. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 9:37am On Aug 13, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:? I did have such an offer but I drop it because of my girl. My girl comes first and I don't even have an option but my problem is her inconsistency and fear of the unknown. Trust me I don't want to lose both ways |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 9:29am On Aug 13, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:. I won't lie sometimes I ask my girl for a loan which I always payback. Money Issue is our main problem. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 9:26am On Aug 13, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:. We use to date online until I couldn't bear it so I come clean with her. She didn't trust me then but now she is dead serious. I want to be a good husband and great father that all I want. |
Family / Re: I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 9:23am On Aug 13, 2021 |
Drake10:. I gave her my word that I won't hurt her. I love her deeply. |
Family / I Need Your Opinion Please by Kindaheart32: 9:15am On Aug 13, 2021 |
I chose to post this in the family sections because I feel I will have nothing but a great opinion I can work with I am in a serious relationship that focuses on getting married to each other. My girl is the most wonderful soul a man will ever be with. It has been two years and covid 19 deal with us. I noticed that anytime things went south for me, my lady will come with some attitudes. Note she doesn't depend on me because she has her job and we spend money on each other. I am a blessed person which God always Crown my efforts with something to show. So it's not like I am bad luck, right now I am rich( if you know what I mean) but I know things will improve. Here is my problem: I have a female friend who has been disturbing me to relocate me to the US on the condition that I marry her and create a life for myself. We have been friends for years and she has supported me financially twice. I keep telling her I have a serious relationship. Before this my friend, there was another who gave me the same offers I turn the lady down. I didn't want to hurt my girl because I am the first man she is in love with and I don't want to ruin her emotionally. I love her deeply without a second thought. My girl keep threatened me to walk away anytime I have a setback. If I reject this offer and stay with her and she walks away from the relationship, I know I kiss goodbye with anything marriage, and I also lost the opportunity to make a decent income. Note I don't plan to live in my country. Please people who had experienced this how do you deal with it and what should I do. |
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