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Guy you sound so bitter and heartbroken. And also parts of your post suggest that you are a porn addict. Take it easy bro.

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Long rëtarded epistle of unsexy crap.
Op's creative imagination is highly handicapped, he/she couldn't write an erotic piece that could raise the dck of a hórny nigga an inche, let alone one who is not hórny.
Fck you OP. You made some valid points though, same as I always tell these sissies and e-goats who run after women. Women's sexual ego demands men to run after them, and this is satisfied when men do same, and if you're one of those guys, you're already conquered territory. But if you're one alpha Nigga who doesn't drool sheepishly over women, it hurts their ego and they see you as the new mission and territory to conquer.
Except you're not worth it but if you're worth it, no nigga has to run after bitches. Bitches are so cheap and abundant these days. Just be yourself and they would be the ones having the headache of running after you.
A girl drops a comment and all these sissies already clogging up her DM. That's sign of inferior men. Most times ladies gotten this way would leave you for more fitting nigga.
Samm9y read this, you would learn one or two things.





Love? Wake up son, this is 2020.
Love in a century like this is rare, it now exists only in the fantasy world.
Then, you're looking for faithfulness in fornication? Anyone who's not faithful in the first place to have fornicated with you, shouldn't be expected to remain faithful in the unfaithful act, except you're one big dreamer.
There's nothing like true love in sin, if there were, he/she wouldn't have committed sin with you in the first place.

Let's say my name is Cynthia (fake name). This story is about when I was still in school before all this whole Corona issue. I must confess I love my boyfriend, he is very caring and very passionate about me and does all the necessary things a good boyfriend should do. He even got me an iphone 8 this year January so the guy is really amazing.. But this story is not about him. It's about how I bleeped his close friend. I know I am supposed to be feeling bad, but the truth is that I don't regret it because it's still get me wet anytime I think about the sex! (Please don't judge me, you see most girls have an inner hoe in them)

Well let's say my boyfriend name is tobi (not real name) and his friend name is Michael (fake name too). I spend a lot of time in my bf house which is a well furnished two bedroom apartment in school and he usually have different friends visiting, all giving me the "our wife" tag of course. But their is one particular one which is the michael that is just different from his other friends. This guy is cute, tall and very quiet. the fact that he doesn't call me "our wife " , and he doesn't play with me stupidly like tobi other friends made him all the more attractive.. but the most attractive feature about this guy is his eyes! He has the eyes of a sexy smoker. Sexy smokers are those guys that look very cute because of how dim their eyes would be after they finish smoking. anytime michael is around, I always try to find a way to innatiate a conversation with him but the way he snobs me , not snobbing in a rude way, he would answer but he wouldn't even look my way, he would just answer coolly like he doesn't give a damn about anybody or anything in the world with is annoyingly calm voice and this usually pisses me off.. well truth is it gets me wet too because I am what Instagram people would say "a complete slay queen", I have the right curves everywhere, standing confident moderate sized boobs, light skinned with a babyish face. Because of my looks, guys have always tried to get down with me. Well according to one of my male friend he said I have the looks of a very sexy girl that would be very easy to get down with(hence the reason all guys everywhere constantly trying to sleep with me thinking I am cheap) truth is I don't sleep around but I have had my own fair share of d***s in this life. Remember I said earlier we girls all have some hoe in us.

Let me just skip to the part where I f***kd micheal. You know I said this guy doesn't really admire me which kinda pissed me off because most guys drool over me, there was one particular day when tobi wasn't around, I was alone in his house when I heard a knock on the door. I opened up the door and I saw michael. I was kinda surprised because he never came around like his other friends do when tobi wasn't home, so I let him in. He then explained to me that him and tobi were on their way to the house but tobi had to rush back to school to do something so basically he was just waiting here for tobi... I left him in the parlor and went to the room. But as I was in the room all I could just imagine was this micheal guy bending me over, pulling my hair backwards, and fucking me like crazy.. and I was imagining him doing this to me in tobi room.. (some girls out there would understand me when I say doing crazy and very wrong things like for example fucking a guy in his car in front of your hostel in school can be a huge turn on) the fact that this was a useless thing to think about made me very wet and Hot. I was so wet and Hot that I was finding it difficult to even stand.. I couldn't bear it anymore oo.. what I did was I called my boyfriend tobi, I told him casually that his friend michael was here and I then asked him were he was. .. he told me some story like that but from my calculations, I knew he wouldn't be home till another one hour. I knew couldn't stay Hot like that in the house when mike was there..
As wrong as this was, I knew I needed to have Mike in me that very moment. What I did next was I just changed to one of my dangerous bumshort I usually wear when only me and my bf are in the house and I want to seduce him, and I then wore one of my bf singlet! So my ass and hips were on good display and my boobs were popping out from the side of the singlet with my nipples dangerously erect and showing through the singlet. I knew when I go to the parlour with this combination, it would definitely catch mike attention. I calmy walked to the palour, and sat down, there was light that time so I just pretended to be innocently watching a movie mike was watching, knowing fully well the "Sodom and gommorah like intentions I had in mind"�.

From the side of my eyes I knew he was stealing glances at me and in my mind I was like "you must givee me the D today". Things was like this for some time before I then summoned one kind of stupid courage I don't understand and just went to sit down beside him. when I did this he looked shocked because definitely even a guy with a dead brain would know what I wanted, I then whispered in his ears that I wanted to suck his nipples and without even waiting for him to reply I seductively rubbed his stomach, then moved his shirt up and placed my wet mouth on his nipples and sucked. The way the guy groaned, It was wonderful as I felt I now had power over this guy, because this has been a guy that haven't feigned interest in me at all. Well I sucked his nips for like 2 minutes then he started holding my head as if signifying to suck harder, well I didn't just suck hard I started biting his nipples seductively and this started making uncle to moan loudly o... Then behind the moaning I could hear him saying your boyfriend in a soft whisper as if feeling guilty but had no control over himself at this point i just told him to...... READ THE REST AT https://naijadatingtips.com/i-slept-with-my-bf-best-friend/

Lol. Ghost her?? Really?? And you think you can come back in the future and generate a story?
You are funny.

ReluctantAdult:
The first two points are valid. The rest is bullsh1t. Just ghost her. You might need her in the future, so you can't hurt her by telling her you're leaving her. Ghost her and when you need her, it would be easy to generate a story and get her to believe it.

First of, your happiness is all that matters, if you not happy with a relationship, break off it. But this write up is just to show you how to break up discreetly. Truth is there is no really easy way to break up with a girl that loves you without hurting her a little bit.. The post is basically how to show you to break up in the nicest way possible and reduce her pain a little bit.

Sometimes we want to get out of a relationship because we are not happy in it due to various reasons. It doesn't have to be the fault of the girl, she might probably be doing all the things a perfect girlfriend should do but we just want out because you have probably gotten bored with her or you never truly loved her in the first place, she was probably supposed to be a rebound from your last break up.

To some people, getting out of a relationship can be a bit harder than getting in. (Especially when the girl is crazily in love with you). But best way to do it from my experience is

1) start ignoring her calls. If she calls 5 times during the day, pick just once and tell her you were busy. ( Yes the point is to start passing the message subtly that you don't want to do again)

2) Try avoiding her.. but not totally, if she calls saying she wanna come over tell her you are busy.

Do all this first two (2) steps for a long time and she would start to get the picture in her subconscious mind. Yes she won't give up on you with just this, especially if she is crazily in love with you, she might complain endlessly about your behavior and beg you to change.
Tell her you would change but keep doing the same thing.
The point is to subltly place it in her subconscious mind that you aiit interested anymore.

In summary of the first 2 steps, avoid her calls most of the time, and avoid seeing her most of the time too. But try to always give excuses and don't be rude. Everyone brain is wired to get subliminal messages even if our concious mind won't want to accept the fact. So in essence the first 2 steps would prepare her subconsciously for a break up without her even knowing.

Now for the final step;

3) After you have done step 1 and 2 for a while, sit her down and tell her some cock and bull story as to why you have been behaving that way by ignoring her calls and shits like that.

An example of a story I use is as follows, "Babe I am so confused right now, two of my ex's have been contacting me for a while now and explaining reasons why they broke up with me, they want to get back with me. And I have a project on my mind I am working really hard on and I really need to put my focus 100% in it so right now I feel really confused that's why I haven't been so attentive to you.. my emotions right now are scattered and everywhere, well they are basically on my 2 ex's disturbing me and this project I am working on. and it has let me loose sight of the love I had for you in the beginning.
Please let's take a little break so I can regain my "emotions back", so I can feel like I have lost you to someone else and hence regain the high value I had for you" I want to lose you so I can want you more...

The main summary of this step is to let her know you don't have that strong emotions you once had for her because of various reasons (the different cock and bulls above, or you could come up with yours) so you want a break so you can feel that spark again. Then during the break you can tell her you haven't still found that spark you are looking for so you guys might just need to slow down for now but you would always be there for her.

Quite frankly she is still going to be heartbroken, but in breaking off a relationship, trying to get out of it discreetly is still the best.. other than just treating the innocent girl badly until she gets frustrated.
And you might feel guilty, but always remember when it comes to relationships, your happiness matters alot. It's very difficult faking love to a girl you don't love.

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from what you explained, the girl really really loved her ex that is why she still felt bad when she saw he was getting married. but again, that girl still loves you. you really cant do anything now apart from just showing love to her. Tell her you know she still has small feelings for the guy but you dont care and just keep showing her love. Also make a stand that you dont want to hear anything that has to do with the guy and she should unfollow him from all medias. The only time you can start getting worried is if she is still in contact with the guy. if that is the case, you need to holla at me personally for help. As for her living couples life in the past, mehn you just have to forget about all that because it doesnt really matter. What matters is she loves you now... in school almost every one lived the couples life.

Jasonjay101:
Please I'm new here on this platform and I just want some advice to clear my mind.

Let me just go straight to the point. My girl that we've been dating for a year plus now just told me a week ago that she lived a couple's life with her ex back in school right from when she entered 300l (4yrs course) and the guy 400l (5yrs course) and I've not been able to get over it.

It happened a week ago, we were together and she saw a post of her ex engagement to his current girlfriend and she started feeling bad, so I asked her what happened and a little bit angry with her thinking maybe she was not over her ex yet. She told me she has gotten over him but she just remembered her past so I try to console her to let go and if there's something she hasn't told me yet about her past that is still eating her up she can tell me because before now we've talked about a lot of things about our past and we've try to forgive each other and let the past be in the past.

She had told me it was this only guy she had dated and it was the same guy that disvirgined her. I was not bothered about that because I was not a virgin either. She told me she has moved on even before I came and she stayed for close to a year to heal up and all through this time I was asking her out but she never said yes and never told me she was going through heart break.

Now, it's a year and few months into our relationship, she's been a very good girl, supportive and hard working. And now she just told me this, coupled with some lies she has used to cover it up in some of our previous conversations about her school life.

I'm not perfect either and I've had my past which I have told her. I never lived a couples life back in school and it was only a girl I've also had anything sexual relationship to do with.

Why am emotionally down now is because I know what it is like to live a couples life in school. I never lived as one but I know of people that lived as such in school and I know what happens.

Now I don't know if I can forget about this and we move on. I love this girl so much and she has shown to also love me as much and I've tried to forget about what happened but most times when I see her now I tend to always remember and it eats me up.

Do you guys think I can forget about this?