₦airaland Forum

free2ryhme:
fubara for second term, wike go cry blood 🤣🤣

TheStoriesOfMan:
Troost-Ekong nko?

No Aghahowa?

No Obafemi Martins?

No Emmanuel Emenike?

No Pius Ikedia?

Hmmmmm

richiemcgold:
We should be expection hostile reception on Wednesday because the North Africans have really suffered in the hands of Nigeria, especially within the last 1 year.

Libya was suspended by CAF after their poor treatment of Nigeria players.

Super Falcons of Nigeria beat Morocco in their backyard to win female AFCON final.

Tunisia was beaten by Nigeria in group stage of this AFCON

Algeria were eliminated out of the competition by Nigeria and Morocco will be eliminated too.
It remains Egypt, which I believe we are meeting in the final.

Helpout12345:
That's Venezuela army US media are calling militia.

They are setting up the new scheme to invade the country.

DONT FALL FOR IT.

Flangelo12:
Na so US go do.

After 10 years of intervention, they'll handover to Boko Haram.

By that time, you go don even forget wetin you dey fight for.

Realinfogeneral:
Until Donald Trump dares North Korea, he remains a predator on weak and easy targets.

victoryenergy:
Yes, the Venezuelan leaders don't value the oil, they prefer to refine drugs than oil, so since they don't know what to do with the oil, the US will help them, after all with all the oil reserves in Venezuela, the country is still a third world country, hunger everywhere in that country.

DoctorAyukebot:
That's a weak argument. Should we now not follow the ten commandments because it was given to the Jews and a Torah

Antichristian2:
Why should Christians stop the sexual act when Samson was active sexually without marriage and Holy spirit was still empowering him?

kernniejay:
Are China and Russia also drug peddlers or do they support criminality?

MT:
I advise you to read this. You think US will overwhelm China? Think again:
https://www.armyrecognition.com/news/navy-news/2025/leaked-u-s-war-games-show-china-could-sink-uss-gerald-r-ford-carrier-in-potential-taiwan-conflict

Focusmind:
Trump is just trying to form superman and hype the US. The man, Maduro, voluntarily gave himself up. That was the news from the vice president of Venezuela. Maduro voluntarily surrendered but Trump, in his usual way, is using the word, " captured " as if Maduro was taken after a fierce battle. There was no resistance from the Venezuelan armed forces and Maduro was sold out within his own regime.

olumaxi:
What's d essence of the UNITED NATIONS....I guess it's an organization formed by the U.S......invading a sovereign state and capturing the leader shouldn't be a standard the U.S should be setting...we will see more of dis from China and Russia in d coming days

OriOko88:

When US is busy dolling out billions of dollars to poor countries for aids you think say dem dey do father Christmas? Na because of operations like this.

No country so far has dared threatened US on this Venezuela matter,they're very cautious of their statements. Even Russia is urging restraint,while China has not said Pim so far.

When you're big,you're big jor

gigabyte13:
SK that keep running to Trump whenever NK threatened them.
You make me laugh
Trump can't mess with NK and the world knows that.

Guyman02:
Russia has nuclear weapons that will sink US.
Only 10% of Russia capacity has been deployed against Ukraine backed by NATO and they are advancing daily across multiple fronts

gigabyte13:
L

Make America carry their craze go jam Small North Korea , awon see something
Or better still Russia
Trump craze but him craze get limit and control

Mirasteel:
They only mess around with small countries.

They should try messing with countries with nuclear weapons.

IMPARTIAL:
I don't understand. Does it mean Trump can come to Nigeria and capture our president and his wife?

ernieboy:
the USA will never go against a country cable of punching back, north Korea has nuclear weapons, even if they cannot target mainland USA, their allies and military bases are easy targets and Kim Jung in is as crazy as trump himself

Originality007:
I.thought venezula is part of BRICS . Y cant dey help?

judewrites:
Unlike Hitler, trump is democratic.

But like Hitler, trump is a bully.

Trump, antichrist? Nope_ not to that extent.

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
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So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
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So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
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Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
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So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
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She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
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So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
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P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Richtaiwo:
There’s really no need for this theatrical publicity stunt by the NPF. AJ and his fellow travellers are not toddlers on a school excursion. If the driver was overspeeding, it was entirely within their rights to rein him in.

The police would do well to focus on matters that actually demand their attention, rather than manufacturing tension where none exists and mistaking calm situations for crime scenes. A little less showmanship, a little more sense.

AqualinaXYZ:
Did you stand on anyone’s mandate for too long and hunger wan wound you?



Talk fast

CyynthiaKiss:
Nigeria would rather divide, than to be islamised..

The funny thing is that no Muslim cleric or political leader has come out to distance themselves from from these terrorists or distance them from Islam.. They are all mute..

I pity Nigerian Christians

Dpsychologist:
FORUM DISCUSSION: Let’s Talk Honestly About “Talking Stage”, Money, and Expectations



But here’s the real issue:
We’ve blurred the lines between talking, dating, and courtship.

What exactly is the “talking stage”?

The talking stage is information gathering.

Do we align in values?

Do we communicate well?

Is there mutual interest?

Is this even worth pursuing?

It is not a spending stage.
It is not a benefits stage.
It is not proof-of-pocket stage.


The core problem isn’t women or men

The real issue is orientation. Many people now believe:

Interest must be demonstrated financially

Attention must be paid for

Presence must be sponsored

And on the other side, many men enable this by over-performing early, then feeling used later.

Let’s be clear

Talking stage ≠ dating

Dating ≠ commitment

Commitment ≠ responsibility overload

You don’t stand under a streetlight to talk, yes but you also don’t finance someone’s lifestyle to prove curiosity.

A healthier framework

If I’m interested in you:

I’ll talk to you

I’ll observe you

I’ll understand you


Men: stop trying to buy interest.

Women: stop pricing curiosity.

Talking is free. Connection is priceless. Confusion is expensive.

Let’s hear other perspectives respectfully.