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May God bless you bro 😆

discusant:
It's hard, if not impossible, for one unarmed man to rape a woman.

Most of what is branded rape are actually sexual intercourse that the women enjoyed but did not want initially.

PinkNature:
lol okay, your non virgin gf fit don Bleep like 20 guys before you and some of those guys can still assess her whenever they want regardless of your goddam marriage. 😂

everywhere good sha

Well am happily married sha 😊
And girlfriend is an option for me

Tinubu is stil fixing Nigeria 🤔
Outer obi is online leading the masses via social media 😦

Apc will win again I think

Responsibility is the main killer of urge


Omo marriage burden go make urge disappear entirely 😢
.how I wish I still maintain single life to some extent make I enjoy my sex life as before kai

JOACHINpedro:
First thing to disappear na urge for sex.
Responsibility na your mate?

Not stop though but least thing and will come once in a while 😂 😆


If you are still single u won't understand until I get there

mightyhaze:
Stop having sex?

I'm hearing this for the very first time

Exactly 💯

Berankis:
It is just life and nothing serious. Just like when you buy a new car, even without having any reason to go out, you will grab your keys and drive the car out but with time, it's become normal and less exciting and later, you just don't feel like going out much with the same car.

Upon all you wrote I still couldn't figure out the problem yet 😕😔 because there is no evidence of the man not being your father or not 🚫..


So what's the problem exactly ❓

Bro u are only meeting the wrong once that's why
Infact marrying a virgin too doesn't mean you wil enjoy the marriage .

Know this and know peace ✌️

PinkNature:
if you marry a non virgin, be rest assured that you’re marrying a condemned property

Eggzactly or rather his bad experience he is using it to judge the entire marriage in the world 😂 😆

You're telling us the story of your parents

Basically we allow a 2 years old children to goto nursery all in the name of giving little space from morning till afternoon but not necessarily because of learning

RollinTNDA:
I suggested to her that I can download those kids cartoon and our daughter can be watching at home.
She say baby needs to mingle and play with her mates.
I said when she turns 3 and can talk well then we send her to nursery naso argument start next thing I heart be say I no want make my daughter dey educated
Which kind yeye reasoning be that

I don't think he is even married for seeing this statement
You will agree with me that he is still single and also too young and not ready for marriage

nairalanda1:
So, essentially, you are setting a good example for your boys that your wife is not your wife, but your hired slave, and that men should sit down all day and do nothing but watch their wives do housewoork, while they rest because...they paid for it.


Am soorry, and I knoow peple wuld shout and call me simp, but yooour comment is the height ooof immaturity and is riddiculous.

And it shows you as a very proud and insensitive person setting a bad example foor your sons.

Your wife is submissive to you, yes, but she is not your slave. Do some self sacrifice for her. If she falls sick, you go sit down and watch as the house gets messy, ba?

That lord is your strength 💪

Ten gbosa for you

What u portray is not true probably u guys didn't live together with love and fatherly bong before or rather he disowned you for something he doesn't want ..

So tell u what u have done wrong to deserve that from your dad 🤔

Or rather you should ask your mum what is going on

So why are you telling us when the raper and rapee enjoyed themselves

Chummynoni:
Why kill them after robbing them? Which kind wickedness be this? They didn't even spare the innocent kids . Omo , some people do not even deserve to be an animal , they are meant to be stones .

Na d kids own pain me pass 😭

But during this period I never tag Nigeria best country ever for cheap products 😭

FutureFocus:
RIP nijeriya currency, I got my first car direct Belgium from Cotonou for 350k full A/C

During dating my own wife I did all and she passed all and till date over the 5 years infact I enjoying it positively now.


Give and take infact if am broke she will use like 3k from her hairstylist shop to run things for us to eat with two children.


That's when I understand marrying a wife that can help and assist in hard times

darediamond:
I have seen this happened too.
But some Men thinks it is not significant.
They don't know that once a lady demonstrate that selfishly irresponsible attitude, it means so many disastrous things of which is that SHE IS NEVER A WIFE MATERIAL, SHE WOULD NOT MIND SEEING HER UNINFORMED OR CARELESS HUSBAND DIEING YOUNG OR UNTIMELY ALL IN THE NAME OF HE PROVIDING FOR THE FAMILY etc.
It is during Courtship that a Responsible Guy lays the foundation against such mentality and if she disagrees, if truly the guy is Responsible, He will end the relationship sharp sharp because it takes two to tangle not one ooo! So why should He become a slave to a woman because of Sex??
Ladies whose love language is Money or ladies whose respect for you is based on your provisions are Community Wives on Rental Duties to you. Ones your Rentage expires or once you are unable to provide for them as you earlier used to base on uncertainty of life, Then there conditional respect and love for you ends.

Is that the kind of a woman a Responsible Man ought to wish to marry?

This is why So many Guys have to be schooled about how to choose a Wife.

That a lady is Employed, Hardworking, paying her bills herself etc. does not mean she is a wife Material. If that lady during Courtship does not FINANCIALLY COMMIT HERSELF TO THAT RELATIONSHIP JUST EXACTLY AS YOU ARE DOING, thereby showing to you that Money is her love language and or Because you are the Man, you are supposed to be the one paying for Every Expenses, Bro, you Must dump Her quickly.

Don't even try to persuade her to change at all. She as to be dumped by you if you don't want to enter one chance Marriage called Mirage.

Women with such mindset do not deserve to be the Mother of any of your Child because Marital union with them, 99% of the time always end up in Quick Divorce. She will Nag, curse the day she met you, compares you to are ex, cheats on you or worse force someones else pregnancy on you codedly etc.

So, the definition of My Money is Mine, Yours Is Ours is Terribly Heavy and Painful if you allowed it to be Practiced on you and life uncertainties happens.

This is why Courtship is the time for you to assess the Mindset of that lady you wish to Marry not the time for sexual encounters. No!!

Any lady who practically demonstrated to you that her love language is Money is readily or a Potential Open or coded community sperm depot (PROSTITUTE) and or "Our Wife"!!!

They hardly stay with you in times if Difficulties because THEY ARE NOT REALLY COMMITTED TO YOU AND THE UNION.
Run oo,the Future Matters!!

If truly you read the post and understood the meaning but finally came up with this just forget about marriage and if you finally do one u can't last in it
....

So just gently prepare to live and enjoy your single good for life

Jennyclay:
Why would a man put his eyes in his wife money/income in the first place?

A man is the head of the family, he should take care of the bills in the house, at least 90%, that’s his responsibility.

If you can’t take care of your wife/girlfriend let another man do the job. Don’t come and put someone’s daughter in abject poverty

She didn't read the post plz leave her alone

Kalatium:
This is the kinda mentality we are talking about. Did you even read the post well.

We have had cases where a woman has money but hid it just because it's the man's responsibility, her own child died as a result of that mentality. You have the money why can't you save your own child but you refuse because it's not her responsibility. That js a very selfish attitude.

Racoon:
Solemn truth ever spoken. Meanwhile Seyi Tinubu have the thinking that his father is just being beefed.

Is this government doing well? 'NOOOOOO! If you are not doing well, you are not doing well." Bishop David Oyedepo.

..which president has ever done well for Nigeria before since 1960?.

Bro to bro if he havebt traveled overseas to see how developed countries are operating how will he follow Thier footprint?

SeeWahala:
So you'd instead want him to spend almost 3 -4 billion naira going to France 🇫🇷 instead of staying at a high brow environment in Nigeria 🇳🇬 where we won't spend up to 500 million naira on feeding, logistics etc? 🤔

Think sir THINK remember its YOUR MONEY he's using up and spending, money that will be better spent on other things that will be beneficial TO YOU

Richtaiwo:
That's not the message.

The message is about the sincerity of a man who returned money to the family of the deceased knowing very well that he can keep the money to himself without any suspicion.

Thank you jare he is part of those citizens that always want to paint government black all the time without realities

If SUBSIDY ain't our problem .
Jonathan
Buhari
Atiku
Obi before tinubu won't be glamoring about removing it ..

So the removal caused all these that are happening and it's necessary 📍

When dollars was $50 is because it was subsized and is not that is not high ...
.Yet deplicating the development of the country ...

Even when things were cheap is because of the subsidy so it's not that it was actually cheap but yet many too didn't build when cement was 1k 2k even when cement was #70 majority didn't build house but when it's 2k that was when they built....


Either you like it or not subsidy cannot be back because we can't go back to assu strike also fuel queue also states owing salaries etc


So u mean coastal was inherited too?


Ask yourself before today even in 1980 that's was how they complained of bad economy then but now people believe we should go back to that time .

But why don't u praise the government then even during Jonathan's regimen when things were cheap . 🤔

People only realized that when he left power 🤔...

You can't satisfy the masses even triump of US the citizens wanted to in peace HIM earliar this year 🤔

So is it tinubu also ruling US??

Bro to bro 😁

Even if the subsidy is bad today some group of people will still abuse the government 🤔

So what exactly do you want ⁉️

wirinet:
Which major road has he built?

I mean a major road that was started by his administration and completed by his administration. Not a project inherited from a previous government, not one merely commissioned, and not one still under construction.

I await the list.

And what exactly do you mean when you say he increased the minimum wage?

Are we talking about the increase in absolute naira terms, or in real terms after considering inflation and the exchange rate?

Today's minimum wage of N70,000, at an exchange rate of about ₦1,400 to $1, is approximately $50.

During Buhari's administration, the minimum wage was ₦30,000, which was approximately $40 using the then black market exchange rate of about ₦750/$ (the official Market rate was around ₦550/$.

And this comparison doesn't even account for inflation, which has averaged roughly 20% annually since 2023.

So, in real purchasing-power terms, what exactly has improved?

Then comes the mystery of subsidy removal.

We were told that removing fuel subsidy would free up government resources that could then be redirected into infrastructure and other developmental projects.

So why are we borrowing more than ever before to finance government projects?

If subsidy removal was supposed to create fiscal space, where is that benefit being felt by the ordinary Nigerian?

What do you mean when you say Nigerians don't pay taxes?

Nigerians already pay some of the highest in the world in numerous forms.

We pay official taxes, levies, fees, permits, fines, VAT, customs duties and other charges at the federal, state and local government levels.

The Federal Government even deducts ₦50 from electronic transactions above ₦10,000. Do you know I much I pay to FG everyday in electronic levy?

Then there are what I would call unofficial taxes—payments to the police, Road Safety, unions, Iya and Baba Oloja, and the almighty agberos.

Many transporters reportedly spend up to 30% their daily income to these various payments.

Try building a house in Nigeria. You can pay the official government charges, permits and fees, and then encounter additional payments demanded at virtually every stage of construction and every activity carried out on your own property.

These are effectively additional costs imposed on ordinary citizens and businesses.

And that is the bigger issue.

In countries such as the United States and Canada, citizens certainly pay taxes and various official charges. But the system is not supposed to operate through the same maze of unofficial levies and informal collections that Nigerians routinely encounter.

So before telling Nigerians that they don't pay enough taxes, perhaps we should first ask:

How much are Nigerians already paying in taxes, levies, fees and informal charges—and what are they getting in return?

Bro even in the so called developed countries we still have citizens with this act so don't relate bad leader to wrong diids ..

He should be killed

Tinubu blocking loop holes of all wrong doujgs doesn't mean he is not right .
.Nigerians average mentality is to do rough or bad deals like yahoo etc to make money and they will flaunt wealth and still abuse the system ..

So ask urself are all d citizens in developed countries richer then me ??

Who told u all of them have homes and cars they used on their own 🤔

All countries have their own challenges so Nigeria is not excluded

franchasng:
It is decades of bad leadership that destroyed Nigeria and damaged the psych of most Nigerian youths to believe that the only way they can make it is through illegal deals like Yahoo Yahoo, drug, human rituals, human trafficking, thuggery, motor park and street touting, smuggling, armed robbery, kidnapping and what have you.


Tinubu only made things worst, not that bad leadership started from him but he made it worst and took bad leadership and tribalism in government to a whole new level never seen before and its shameful

SeeWahala:
Yes we are tired of allowing old unfit and greedy people lead us

Wasting tax payers money gallivanting the globe every 6 months in the name of 'working' vacation 🙄

So if he spends his holiday in zamfara how does that return subsidy to our food products in the market 😀

Ezeama400:
A good product markets itself, even opposition sometimes acknowledges that, unlike the bad product who’s desperately forcing himself on Nigerians despite the resistance he’s getting..


P.O is the man

So he has turned Anambra to UK and United state abi?

Or why do u want us to vote a man that do get advice from a mad man 😡

You are out of point

Before the incompetent leade renter are Nigerians not committing attrotiesi in overse??
If tmthe dude was successful with the cocain deal then he will now blackmail Nigeria of bad economy or country.

Not know he made it throw back doors 😞

franchasng:
It is well with Nigeria and Nigerians.


You will intentionally support glaring incompetent and corrupt people to become leaders of Nigeria just because of tribalism and then you hop unto the next available flight to abroad thinking you will escape the evil you support in your home country, no way, the evil will definitely catch up with you or your children one day.



Say no to corrupt and failed leaders in Nigeria so that Nigeria can be fixed and our youths will have worthy jobs to do and not to engage in drug trafficking and other criminal acts for survival

Stephen keshy did all but yet we didn't win world cup

I LOVE MY YORUBA TINUBU GENDER FOR SOMETHING BECAUSE HE DOESNT TALK MUCH AFTER ALL THE PARADE AND CROWEDED PEOPLE CAMPAIGNING AGAINST HIM AT THE END HE WILL JUST GO AND SIT IN ASO ROCK AS THE WINNER 😂😆

SO IS NOT BY NOISE BUT IS BY ACTION.

TINUBU TILL 2049 ⭐

During PDP is it not the same failure in aso rock we do post always in that era ??

So what actually changes

slivertongue:
the wellbeing of Nigerians depreciated under the failure in Aso rock

So if they put young boy there and he doesn't know anything about governance so what positive result are we going to experience 🤔

franchasng:
Yes being able to attend independence day parade gallantly is a sign of agility, youthfulness and ability to govern a nation like Nigeria. It means that he is sound, strong and agile and he will not be unaware of what goes around his government. It means bad people around him which is common with every leader, won't take advantage of his frail health or old age to milk and steal Nigeria's common wealth.

But I thought he increased state allocation times two or three

I think he also BUILT major roads that worth billions

I thought he also increased minimum wage etc and still counting 🤪

So you mean Nigeria is so rich like UK and Canada and Germany but we just stil want to borrow??

Yet if they ask u to pay tax u will still complain 🤔

In the so called developed countries they pay tax in everything they do and that's why they have enough money like revenue to build the nation but if we want to implement same strategy here .

You all will complain and u want a better nation like that same US and Canada 🤔

Do you agree with me

wirinet:
What did he do with the subsidy? After removing subsidy, he promised Nigerians that he will employ the savings to improve the lives of Nigerians, what happened to the savings? Instead he is taxing Nigerians more and more. Even Abacha as wicked as he was, used money from petroleum at N14 per litre to benefit ordinary Nigerians.

Then, where is the audited account of NNPC? NNPC accounts have not been audited throughout this administration.

What about transparency in public procurement, how are mega contracts signed without any bidding, passing through public procurement process and even budgeting?

Then there is anticorruption effort. How come EFCC has not been able to arrest and prosecute one politician in connection with numerous allegations?

I am explaining to you the reason ordinary Nigerians are chanting ole ole (thief thief wherever they see president Tinubu.