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I didnt make myself. I didnt come from somewhere im aware of, consiously. I have a conscience, and i make decisions everyday that lead me closer to my end. Everytime i think about the end i get scared that i might not get it right...the odds are always against me. From the bible we know that the heaven wont be as populated as the Hell beneath.
The people that brought me into this world didnt know me before i was concieved. The task of raising me was given to them. I am where i am supposed to be. And i will leave here.
If there is a God, he will Love me no matter what i become in this world. He will never 'Judge' because he knows it is not of my doing. I will only learn from this experience and take from it the vitals for where it is needed.
I dont know. Neither do you. The best you can do is not to cause pain to your fellow human.

Lets leave here better than we found it.

Cc seun lalasticlala

M. Mereba
6lack
Mansa
Russ

They all make good music y'all should listen to

M. Mereba - Anesthesia

So you’re 23 and you have no idea what comes next.

First of all, congratulations. You’re ahead of the game.

Do you know how long most people wait to realize that they’re lost? Do you know many people never do? Do you understand how many people go through their entire lives aimlessly floundering; only to realize at the very end of it that none of what they did was what they wanted? It’s a lot more than you’d think. And most of those people thought they had it all figured out at twenty-three.

After all, it’s not so hard to be found when you are twenty-three years old. There are infinite hoards of people who will tell you what to do and where to go. There are endless opportunities for you to make money and prosper. All you have to do is let go of what you want for yourself. You just have to subscribe to living someone else’s dream.

If you are lost at twenty-three, you are exactly where you need to be right now. I know that it is not where you would like – stuck in the middle of uncertainty and failure and your own inconsistent desires. I know it’s not the place you thought you’d be when you screamed, “Cheers!” on your 20th birthday in anticipation of the next exciting decade. I know that you would rather be just about anywhere but here except you can’t figure out where to go and it is driving you slowly up the wall. I know what it’s like to be twenty-three and lost. I know that it’s the worst place on earth.

But the fact that you are lost right now tells you something. It tells you that your life as it has been is not your life as it will be. It tells you that you’re not the kind of person who settles for okay or sort of good enough. The fact that you are lost tells you that you would rather be living in the middle of uncertainty than dead-set on something that makes you consistently miserable. And I’m not sure if you realize how rare that really is. How few people still give a shit about doing something meaningful with their lives. How many more people we need who are just like you – lost and reeling, yet still pushing themselves to do better.

You are lost because you care. You’re lost because you’re passionate. You’re lost because you know that there is more inside of you than what you’re currently offering the world and that is a brilliant thing to know.

At 23, JK Rowling was broke. Tina Fey was working at the Y.M.C.A. Oprah had just gotten fired from her first job as a TV reporter and Walt Disney had declared bankruptcy. None of these wildly successful individuals could have predicted what was in store for them next but the one thing they all had in common was that they knew that there was more to them than what they were doing at the time. And that’s what you have in common with them, too. You know that there’s a bigger, better version of yourself to bring to life. You just haven’t gotten there yet.

So let’s look at where to go from here. If your life is lying splintered on the floor, which pieces do you want to pick up and keep? Which do you leave? What do you choose not to re-create now that you’re given the chance to start over? Because that is exactly the chance that you have at twenty-three. You get to strip your life down to its bare bones and build the whole thing back up from scratch. It’s not the easiest thing to do. But it’s the best thing. The bravest thing. The most rewarding thing and the kind of thing you only get the opportunity to do through being lost.

So right now, let yourself be a little bit lost. Because you don’t get found by staying comfortable. You don’t get found by running away. You don’t get found by fighting your deepest impulses and you definitely don’t get found by hiding out. You get found by doing exactly what it is that you are doing right now – which is delving right into the heart of your life and fighting like hell for what matters.

If you’re never lost you never get found.

And you’re the kind of person worth searching for.

fnep2smooth:
thanks so much... Guess i will start learning them. Though its hard and very Logic but its fun writing the code myself thanks once again.

you're welcome bro. Take it easy

euromilion:
I hate Nigeria with passion,this's partly why I hate visiting naija,if na nite time be that kind man could easily kill someone for no reason.

Typical case of mad people leading the sane.

R3B3L:
Nigeria is more or less a failed state already. Military rule is best to counter this. A hard reset. Firstly take a look at d arguments following this thread. Everyone that has said sumtin is speaking from d same myopic tribalistic point of view guiding our leaders' judgements. Abacha dissolved all political parties, local govts, etc under his rule. Let's dissolve and restart over abeg. And pray we maintain it right this time. Cos getting it right after resetting is sure bet.

Chief a hard reset will take us all along with it. Too many corrupt people in the system even the people supposed to do the hard reset are influenced.

I cry when I'm alone
I'm wondering why would God send me here
Knowing that they hate us
Knowing that they make us feel like we evil so we kill our people (J Cole Caged Bird)

eugene12345:
Do you still remember the last time you were sick? How did it feel? And did it feel worse as you succumb to negative thinking as you unconsciously focus your mind on the sickness? This happens as we allow our mind to dwell on the negative. But how did it felt when a loved one takes care of you and reaffirms you that you are going to get well? Your attention shifts as you dwell on healthy and positive thoughts.

Positive thinking is no magical pill that removes all sickness instantly. However, in a few days time you do get better. The effect is similar to the use of medicine as it formulates the strong belief that you are going to get well. Positive thinking, believing that you will be healed, and together with the effects of the medicine work hand-in-glove for a speedy recovery.

There have been many researches about the effects of positive thinking on healing a person. Some studies show that positive thinking indeed can help a person heal.

A scientific research was done to see how thought can affect health status. It has been proven that when a person is in a lot of stress, the immune system of the body weakens. But when a person thinks positively and alleviates his stress, the immune system of the body strengthens.

How to develop positive thinking:

1)Say Positive, Think Positive – always use positive words not only when speaking but also when you are thinking. Phrases such as “I can” and “I am capable” are just some of the examples.

2)Feel Positive – let positive feelings flow through you. Get the feeling of happiness, strength and success.

3)Around Positive – be with people who think positively. Positive and negative feelings are contagious. Being with people whose spirits are damped can also make your spirits damp. But being with people whose outlook in life is positive then it will rub off on you too.

Developing a positive mindset is the key to self healing. It is not that easy to develop but it is attainable. Having a positive outlook in life will empower you. Even if your situation or circumstances are not what you want them to be, just think positive and expect favorable results. With a positive outlook, your life will change.

In healing through positive thinking, it would not be proper to say that you don’t need to seek out the help of a doctor when you are not feeling well. It would not also be correct not to take medicines anymore since all you need is to think positive about your condition and you will be healed. What is implied here is that you use positive thinking side by side with your current treatment.

While you are in treatment and you think negatively of your condition, you will surely deteriorate. Conversely, if you are in an unfavorable situation and you use positive thinking side by side with your treatment, then it will help you dramatically. Your mind and thoughts have a tremendous impact on your body and life!

Read also http://www.infogen.com.ng/taking-control/

Thank you

fnep2smooth:
i am building this responsive site from scratch and am through with the homepage and other pages link to it but am having a problem or should i say stock in this particular stage.

1. to create a upload section and a database for where it will store?
2. to create a vote section and will be visible to my visitors?
3. since am building it from scratch will it warrant me to also build an admin page so that i can monitor every activities going on in the site like file uploading and downloading , comment and spam etc?
4. how will i get access to all media file and upload form that are submitted in the site, will i also create a section on it?
5. since am using only html and css to build it, do i need to learn php or or related language to continue with the site?

Note: i am building it offline with notepad++ and am through with the pages, navigation and content that should be on it but am having a challenge with the lists above. thanks

Your website contains alot of functionality and therefore would require more than just the basic front end dev tools.

Your database to store uploaded files, thats Php and Sql.

Youll can also play around Javascript and some of the libraries

Enjoy!

Engineering maths I-IV, Mathematical Modelling. You could throw in Control Engineering just for fun.

Cook Good and don't nag.

First ever post ever on NL and it had to be on this thread.

Here goes....

I had this babe in secondary school that i was crushing on hard and we later bacame close and love was in the air.
Being a loverboy i'd throw stunts only seen or heard of in the movies, get her flowers and chocolate, and there was a day i rode in my bike all the way to her house (about four blocks from mine) while it was raining just to deliver a gift , silly i know right?
Young love, and things seemed to be going well until one faithful day.
It was the holidays (Christmas) and she called saying she was coming around to see a family friend very close to my place and she asked if she could stop by my place. First time she would have been to my place and my dad was out though i didnt know how long for,......from that moment it was obvious i wasn't thinking clearly...didn't care about the consequences, my brain took a break...after all if he showed up i could cook up some lies about why she was here.
so she finally arrived and we go to talking, showed her around my compound, almost kissed her while we were touring but it was clear she wasnt quite ready as she was waiting for me to take her to my room.....lol, now the part that is going to leave a scar..
we entered the house and were headed for my room when i heard the sound of a car horn at the front gate,yeah you guessed it, the old man was back.....at that moment i got my brain functions back, and i told her we needed to be at sitting room for a bit then we sat and he came in and saw both of us sitted and talking, i introduced her to him that she was a girl from school who i ran into when she came to visit some people in the area(had to make sure he wasnt thinking i invited her over,get that heat of me first...lol)and it was clear by the look on his face that he still wasnt all comfortable with what he was seeing. he went straight for the dinning table for his lunch clearly glancing at us at every chance he'd get to see what we were doing. At this point she wasnt comfortable and wasnt even talking anymore and then sent me a text on my phone asking if we could move to a place more private, we waited a few minutes after he had left the dinning room and we qucikly moved to our room, (the end to this short film and there won't be a sequel, my dad made sure of that).... whilst we were in the room, it was obvious the vibe had changed but i was still bent on getting something out of this, while it had on gone as well as i initially planned it in my head. Then i heard a loud shout from the sitting room, it was a dad furiously calling out my name and then i knew it was all over...told her to wait while i go answer his call....on getting to where he was, he asked one question which was where the girl was and i replied "in my room". He quickly set a court meeting with a jury consisting of my cousin and my brother and him being the judge and the prosecutor...lol.. he layed down his case and told me everything down to how i was born and all this while she was still in my room...im pretty sure she heard all he said and at the end, i went back to the room and told her that she had to leave and she agreed. She left and we kinda lost touch after the incident.
Do you want to know how we are now?