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Khutie:
•••Mostly at 20-24 they are at the genesis of life, at that stage life is effusively and almost uninhibitedly enthusiastic. She shouldn't forget that birthday is only buh a day in a year. Give her the support she needs, not financially tho cause she's already on it. Focus on yhur hustle and may God bless yhu abundantly on it.
And don't forget to give her extra mile space after the birthday because she's gone for good to the highest stakeholder which is definitely ain't yhu.

scary but it's the the truthtruth one can never truly be ready for a break up but i should be ready for this one

Andrew3:
Are you invited to the party?

that's the point am rejecting the invite before it comes

schumastic:
That's the problem I have with ladies generally they won't call it quit, they would prefer to double date and continue to deceive both guys.

Anyway, is your gf, your relationship and your choice to make at the end. But if am in your shoes, my brother, I would walk away or give her an ultimatum to either chose between spending her day with the guy or with me.

If you ask her to choose between you both, then most people, especially ladies will say you are selfish and self centered, forgetting the fact that you are only trying to protect your relationship.

Since you agreed to the fact that you don't want to boss her around since she is not married to you(this I admire). Please take a walk, the relationship is still young and you will do your heart more harm than good if you continue with it.

P.s. guys lets tell ourselves the truth, to date is very expensive this days, especially if you know you are not buoyant enough to go into a relationship, just have it at the back of your mind that issues of finance will come into play even if she is not the demanding type.

There are guys out there that are ready to compete with you on your girl especially the ones who are financially stable, they may come as a friend but we all know the end result.

Ladies need to understand this, the ego of a guy increases when he sleeps with a lady and he is ready to double his efforts when he knows she has a serious relationship and that's why he will do ANYTHING on earth to get you. So forget all those he is my friend nothing will happen, the only friend I know is "what a friend we have in Jesus".

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

i feel u bro everything you say has been taken into consideration i will just wait till that day is over but from last week i have been preparing my mind to drop the relationship but it all depends on how she acts

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mofeoluwadassah:
yes its ok

thanks

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jamarifox:
It's late. Pls punctuate correctly and stop straining our eye

am sorry typed from my mobile

mofeoluwadassah:
so what advice do you need

if my decision is ok

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The thing is am going through an emotionally draining relationship right now and i can't quit the relationship because of how deep in love i am i just need some one who is a good conversationist to chat me up 07063188036 whatsapp only am guy!

Just enjoy your self do what you feel is right take the risk if it turns out great Ur lucky if it goes south life just happened , relationship is not always about the sweet feelings u will also get the bad side so it all boil to what you want then set Ur boundaries hope i made small sense

I opened this thread hoping someone would advice me on ways to give her a second chance but to my shock every one thinks otherwise and everybody can't be wrong at the same time , here is what am going to do am giving the relationship a break for now i don't know how long but i think I need the break thanks guys and ladies for ur support really appreciate

SmellingAnus:
First of all, get busier with other things that will be beneficial to your future... It could be school, it could be work, it could be joining a department in church and be committed to it... Have more female friends, maybe two or three female friends that will be close to you not necessarily for a relationship or sex... All I am saying is that as much as possible spend and focus more on other things like school/work/God/female friends... This should help at least in protecting your heart ... If you can, don't ever ask after that dude again from her but reduce your communication and dealings with her until she gets the message and maybe come back to her senses... Make sure you choose your female friends wisely because any of them could be the next person you will get into a relationship with incase this present one finally crashes... Last advice from the "KING OF ADVICE".... NEVER , NEVER , NEVER FALL IN LOVE IN YOUR LIFE BUT YOU CAN ALWAYS STEP IN LOVE AND IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT FINE, YOU STEP OUT OF LOVE" HUMAN BEINGS ARE VERY UNPREDICTABLE NO WONDER EVEN THE BIBLE SAYS 'THE HEART OF MAN IS DESPERATELY WICKED"....

thanks from the dept of my heart guess u gave what I have been searching for and also told me how to go about it Peace man, !

Divay22:
It will soon be possible

well nothing is impossible in this life so what do I do

SmellingAnus:
She may really love you unfortunately she prefers to spend more time with a Fucklicant/fuckaholic/fuckboy/man.... It's obvious you have a tender heart so what should be most important to you is how to protect your heart from heart Tsunami/break... It's in your best interest to think and do whatever will protect your heart if not you will end up a depressed soul... Sorry if I was too straightforward...

no u are really spot on please speak on what do suggest i do that is not illegal to protect this precious heart of mine

SmellingAnus:
Let me be straightforward.... That guy will surely fuckkk her... What I am not sure of is if she will be able to tell you she was fuckeddd by him

u scare me though so what do think i should do

2dice01:
ok bro enjoy

We will be expecting your thread when she finally dump you...

may i will take ur advice , i really put faith in this relationship i know girls can never be trusted but I was hoping there is one different out there hoping she b was the 1

2dice01:
you dont have to trust anybody

Date other girls...that way if she like date your ancestors ...you wont give a flying fvck

am not really the double dating type cos am a very terrible lier and i don't need any girl crying cos me

Cutehector:
Kiss kwa. Enyi its not only kiss oo. . Infact both of dem had sex.. Yes.. She won't tell u that too.



Oya start crying ..

lol its not possible yet

Yeah i know but the she promised she repeat it again but my fear is am not there with her what if it happens and this time she decides not to tell me , so basically the problem is how do I trust her again