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UjuJoan2:
LMAO . . . you've going to wear yourself out if you keep responding to all those silly comments.

Marriage is not an easy journey, and at the risk of generalizing, it's the men who ruin it most of the time. I know what it takes for a married woman to remove her ring, it's quite symbolic and it's never just about the ring.

I'm glad you have forgiven your husband, but please learn to deal with issues the right way. Removing your ring is not a healthy way to deal with issues. I'm quite confrontational and I actually don't see the essence of removing a jewelry to make a point. I'll rather trash it out face to face. God knows that if my husband insults me I'll probably give it to him back twice over . . . And then I'll go pick up my ring and adorn my fingers . . . I no send anybody!

As for the cheating, I can only say that you need to let him know in clear terms that it is completely unacceptable. I've said it several times on this forum that my husband knows the repercussion for cheating on me is me cheating back. I know it's petty, but that's the only way I can deal with such betrayal. My husband knows that if he cheats on me now he's giving me the go ahead to cheat, so it's completely up to him.

Your marriage is still too young to talk about infidelity . . . he needs to understand the gravity of his actions.

It is well!

Dyt:
It is well


Fucktoto

Dyt:
Wow
Wow
Wow

smithoo:
Guy! Next time, collect the ring from her and remove yours in her presence. She either beg for her ring to be given back to her or DHL herself to her family.

tamethem:
Next time she does that if you know where she keeps it, go there pick it and go and help her keep it , so that it will be more save. Don't give her for months.
Since she likes her fingers empty help her with her decision. She is just being Childish.

Apina:
Very immature. God knows i can never be in your shoes cos after d first incident, i would treat her like a jew, no time for nonsense

mimimile93:
My advice for you is,
if she has given you a child/children, divorce her and take care of your child/children.
But if she hasn't, divorce her and get yourself a loyal girl and marry.
That woman never loved you.
I bet you, she wouldn't be proud to call you her husband in public.
She's just happy being married but never loves who she's married to..

Babatunice:
Sit her down and talk sense to her she she continue my brother do the same thing and I swear to you she will change ...if she remove Ring you self remove yours no come chop her food too she will be the one begging

OfficialDad:
Remove her from the house. Shikena

Benwems:
She could also be removing her pant without you knowing.

oshe11:
She is using it to threaten you mentally, so she can successfully control you physically


***Lets hope it hasnt graduated from mere threat on her part


She is removing Ring for Now, Tomorrow she might remove PANT

oshe11:
She is using it to threaten you mentally, so she can successfully control you physically


***Lets hope it hasnt graduated from mere threat on her part


She is removing Ring for Now, Tomorrow she might remove PANT

UjuJoan2:
If you really love her you will learn to resolve issues with her amicably rather than expose her online for total starngers to ridicule her.

So now she's a cheater? Because she removed her wedding ring? Nawa!

greyham:
Pant she don dey remove since yesterday

Dyt:
@Dyt I do not bring my personal issues to social media but I think I need to say something, am not here to justify myself, I do not need to answer to anyone I am d wife in question... I have been nothing but a patient n honest wife, Ave done n will keep doing my duty as a wife... My husband betrayed our union by bringing infidelity into our marriage something dispeakable. It is d order of d day but I won't allow it in my marriage. Yes I do take off my ring, everytime we have an argument he is verbally abusive, speaks to me in a condisending and aggressive manner (nobody deserves it?)n I begin to wonder if he loves me n what d marriage means to him... I watch n hear him say terrible words to me severally n I ignore him not dat I cant give him back, cos am not one who knows how to do that, after all said n done he apologizes n we are good. A lot of people on here have judged me n said a lot of things, you are entitled to ur opinion but let's make one thing clear I love my husband, I have always loved him n still will. Basically, he let me down he let Wat we have / share down, I have forgiven him for what n how he's made me feel,everyone deserves to be happy. Up until now I haven't forgiven him but I guess I have to let it go my marriage is too early for a break up, we didn't get married to break up.. He has been my best friend, my amebo partner � but he broke d trust I had for him... My husband is a good man but very hot tempered too just as I am but when he starts I just watch him n give him space den he comes apologizing. I feel said taking off my ring cos I feel his got no respect for me as his wife n our marriage by bringing infidelity to our home, (I won't be d first person it's happened too, but in my home I won't have it) Pls don't kill me for it, no wife will take it. I Ave been very sad about he whole issue but I forgive him, dunno how to trust him again, dunno if am gonna be free with him again, only time will tell. Him doing dis to us won't make me traffing anyone cos I know my worth, never will I even thing of it, it is abominable in d eyes of man n God so it's a big NO NO for me. I am a married woman who loves her husband dearly, marriages has got der ups n downs, we learn everyday no-one is perfect, we only pray dat d will of God be done in marriages. Lol... Yes he calls me mad n expects me to take it, am not mad am only his wife dat loves him so much dunno if it's a crime to love my husband? A lot have said divorce her, lol do u think he can? No-one knows what goes on behind closed doors. My husband brought this issue here but I beg u all not to crucify him, he's learning everyone does. I really want us here on dis platform to die d matter. Am begging God to help me love n trust him more again after all these, it's not gonna be easy but I will try. I know my husband will read this, n see the level hes hurt me n adjust. (not dat I haven't discussed with him o, we have sat down n we have talked but am not convinced) well as for d ring issue, not wearing one doesn't make me single, divorce is! He's hurt me bad n I forgive him.. Just need time to adjust n everything will be good. @obidevine u are my husband, I love u n respect you no matter what has happened I still care about u, very much in love with u but very hurt. Nairalanders oooo make we die d matter oooo thank u.