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duduade:
Hello


You doing friends with benefits and you bothered if she will *cheat* on you


Muumuu

You have fallen in love abi

God help you in this your journey

She's every man's spec, can't help it

crackhaus:
Never ever, I repeat NEVER, elevate a FWB (friend with benefits) to the status of a serious girlfriend.

This is not even about what she said, it's simply about sense.

I hope you don't think you're the only one she's been having sex with the entire time both of you were having your no-strings attached sex.

Well she claims I'm the only one she's been with since we started having sex but I'm finding it very hard to believe

drLammy:
I don't understand
Take her serious how?

Oh you wanna pay for the full cow when you already getting the milk for free??

Think about it fam

Hmm... Now that u put it that way, it doesn't sound bad after all

KAM3KAZI:
Hell no!!!

Never be worried about what another human being (male or female) will do when your in a relationship with them, they have their own minds and they will do whatever pleases them.

Unless, you just want to work yourself up, then, go ahead, knock yourself out.

Thanks

I've known this girl since my school days but we've never really had anything but we hooked up a couple of times. Fast forward to this year, after we had lost touch with other i saw her post on Facebook and then i sent her a message hoping we could reconnect. We exchanged nos and picked up from where we left off, seeing wasn't difficult but i was serving in ibadan at the time and was supposed to roundup in march so i promised her I'd be in Lagos after my p.o.p

Immediately after my service, i made my way home. We met, one thing led to the other and u know�... She wanted a relationship but i wasn't ready, so we decided to be friends with benefit. Now the last time she came around, we lodged at a hotel so the sex this time around was craaaaazy! I literally ran outta breath but madam haven't had enough, had to tell her i was exhausted and i needed a break. Went a couple more rounds and called it a day.

Fastfoward to today, we were talking on phone today and she was complaining abt how stressful her day was, but i jokingly asked if it was as stressful as the last time we met, she chuckles and asked if i meant the sex, i said yeah... The next words i heard didn't really bother me but it's been on my mind ever since, she smiles n said jokingly "Ur dick is not that big joor� and the last time she had something that big was her ex�". I was shocked

Now the thing is most people would say I'm skinny but I'd like to see myself as an average build, she on the other hand is quiet big, busty� with a big ass, you'd think she was older than me. we are not in a serious relationship and she's saying all these, I'm worried if i decide to take her serious she might cheat on me. Pls i need ur advice, insults are allowed but be subtle.