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I know lots of people shy away from the truth. After all, Truth they say is bitter. Sometimes i see guys without job falling in Love with a lady and imagine such Fantasy ever exist. How do you want to take care of her without resources.

If you think she will stay for true love, she will tell you that is in the days of your mother where love covers everything. Ladies these days even compare their working class Boyfriend with internet fraudsters. If they have a friend dating internet fraudster who spent without planning and get broke every week, until he collects another Money from his victim.

Ladies dont care whatever your plans and aspirations are, just match up with the internet fraudster lavish spending lifestyle and they will call you the best Man in the world.

Hence, i wonder if a working class guy is still not the best for a lady, but some unfortunate fraudster or perhaps an opportunist. Why then will Guy without Job be looking for Ladies around, rather than intensifying his hustling for Job or some alternative creativity.

Guys, lets call a spade a spade, dont look for love without any source of livelihood. Else you will be frustrated, as those who are working are not even guaranteed of a blissful relationship because Babes are not looking for Surulere. it is either ready-made or nothing.

Let me tell you what some hypocrites will say ( Dont generalize, not all Ladies, Men are not good, Men are not trustworthy) Some might Obviously be talking from experience, Maybe Their Fathers, Brothers and Uncle are in those categories listed.

Especially in Nigeria, where people pretend a lot, a guy who just broke up with his Babe due to lack of excess supply of material things will pretend that the writer is generalizing.

Have a nice weekend all.