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MediMedi:Its a mad one! |
Its really a mad one o!
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Stay away from Ignoramus kind of people; who're too ignorant and don't care at all or want to be enlightened at all, simply because they're ok with who they're. They know they don't know and they don't want to know. These set of people don't even like taking corrections for their errs. How then can one survive with such people in this contemporary age? Being in a relationship with such people can come with huge mental stress, even if you love them and believe they can change. The best option is to mingle with people that are compactible with you thoughtwise, goalwise and otherwise. To avoid unecessary regreats. Do you know that education can't even exclude some people from this ignoramus category? They actually exist, incase you don't know...
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Mide3367:Thanks |
CustomII:Good... |
MrTAnonymous: Abi? |
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6. Develop Yourself: This is where every lady will love. What if I tell u that u can make ur man make up his mind to spend the rest of his life with u & stay loyal for real too? Good news is u can, but it all depends on ur choice & will power. Self development is a choice, this is a stage where u choose ur left from ur right, this is a point where u chase ur dreams, a time when u choose who u really want to be with... You can add yours but remember, Dear ladies don't forget that if u don't develop urselves u can't be the best version of urselves & make ur man thank heavens for having u. Its ur choice to make. Think!...
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5. Look Good For Him: Many ladies stop looking as good as they use to do when single & searching, merely 'causd they felt they've secured a man so there's no need to add effort to look good. Most of them end up getting fat & shapeless, leaving smelly hair, tying wrappers up & down, not making up at all, not trying to be decent. All these end up making the man loose interest & look elsewhere for what he can no longer see in u. Keep fit, hit the gym & keep ur body in shape, eat right, make up, wear cool clothes, smell nice; this is part of the reasons why u need to be doing something & be earning too. Even after child birth still try & look good for ur man. Even when at home, still look good, quit those local women outfits & watch ur man go crazy or gaga for u everyday. Give this a try, start it now; believe me u can't loose ur man to any other woman.
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4. Advice Him: I don't know who needs to hear this, but a lady needs to be advising her man; he needs it & will always appreciate every good advice u give him. Two heads are better than one they say; with ur advice joined to his plan, he'll achieve something u both will be proud of. Even if the going gets tough for him, encourage him to never give up; this will light up his mood. Don't always nag & blame ur man for anything, rather seek for ways to bounce back, 'cause if it gets cool u two will enjoy together...
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3. Pray: Nowadays ladies look out for made men, but the funnyest part of this is, is that they're always in a flash to forget that 'behind every successful man, there's a woman.' it dosen't mean the woman that comes after a man becomes successful, but the one that prayed for the man & built his empire with him from the scratch. If u're a woman & u don't pray for ur man start now dear, for its important & he really needs ur prayers. Try this, it works. Add prayer to ur lifestyle but don't over pray, for too much of everything is toxic, not just bad. If u know what u need in ur man, be it anything, add it up with prayer; it works, just back him with your prayers. No sane or just man can leave a partner who does this for any other woman. Unless u're dating a 'God fearing money ritualist' or 'Yahoo plus man'...Pray for ur man & watch miracles happen for both of u not just him.
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2. Cook: Yes! You heard me right! Women of this contemporary age are always in a haste to make cooking look less relavant in relationships, but this has been one of the key lubricants of a healthy relationship, since time immemorial. Don't u know that history repeats itself? This will show u that, this quality u take for granted still works. I don't mean cook any shit! Am talking about a delicacy here; don't even say u can't cook 'cause u can learn cooking from anywhere or anybody, if u have the passion you can learn that skill; man or woman, but the scope here is on ladies. Eating ur food makes ur man love u more. Hope u've heard the saying that 'a man's stomach is a gateway to his heart.' Even if u as a lady don't always have time to cook for ur man, try as much as possible to make out time for that, at least thrice a week, u may not know what u're doing until it starts paying off. Start now if u don't do this before & watch miracle happen in ur relationship. For further inquiry ask Davido & Chef Chi...
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1. Respect: Every man naturally has pride. The only way to first get a man's true attention is by respecting him; whether u're richer than him or not. I mentioned true attention because ur body is not what makes him want u more even after sex, but ur personality, that's why u need to work on yourself. You're like a diamond in the rough, but it's ur choice to make, if u want to be a well processed diamond & shine or remain in the rough. Respecting ur man endears him to u & makes him want to make u feel comfortable (happy) always, its all psychology. Think of how u treat a child that respects u, then u'll understand. When women respect men, it drives them crazy & automatically makes them think u're humble even if u're not. Am just telling u the nature of men & how much they adore respect. When u truly respect ur man, he'll automatically respect u back, that's what the talker means by 'respect is reciprocal'. Y'all know Sarah & Esther's story in the bible, they got respect! Think deep about this...
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Nowadays ladies find it very hard to keep their man to 'emselves, even in marriages. Many ladies thought they could keep their man with their body or money but this in turn has failed them countless times, hence many ladies lost hope in owning their man alone. With this new development, ladies now resort to the saying that 'a man who will stay will stay'. But in the actual sense, there're some characteristics that will keep any man you're with; no matter how rich & powerful he seems to be; he can't help it but keep on falling in love with you, in fact with this characteristics you don't even need to be monitoring your man or stressing yourself about him cheating, he'll be loyal to u, in a way u won't be able to doubt his loyalty. Men can still be loyal in relationships nowadays, but you need to know how to make that happen. This is the best gift am giving to Nairaland ladies ever! This shouldn't be free but am giving it out, 'cause I know it will help many ladies. Ok! Here're those 6 things u need to know; |
Pancakeey:That's emotional for me dear. Share yours |
Bigmanpickin:Great! |
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Dreadlock69:LOL...Try and know what's really wrong, but never give up. |
Sonnobax15:No be small thing... |
ugochukwun:Damn! |
Offpoint1:You're right man, shit happens... |
chatinent:Hmmm... |
chatinent:Chai! You've seen something man... |
Sundrus:Chai! Are you kidding me? |
poshestmina:Awww! |
Offpoint1:Wow! |
Offpoint1:Ok |
We all have our most emotional moments... Mine was when I finally got to talk with a girl I admired and was scared to approach for some time in school and be friends with, 'cause I thought she'll be a proud type 'cause of the way she dresss in coperate wears and carrys herself. The most emotional part of this is that she's easy going, free with herself and funny; but her outward appearance looked so serious and taciturn. I finally summoned courage to talk with her. Guess what? She's even humble and friendly, she really enjoyed the little time we spent together and asked why we never knew each other since, 'cause we lived in the same lodge that year. She even wanted to be friends with me earlier according to her. She later went for NYSC camp sha. I should have talked to her earlier, that's the most emotional part of it... NOW SHARE YOURS! Don't be shy to share yours |



