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Demobbb:
Hello
Please help on how i can deal with this withought upsetting my inlaws & my husband.

I must add i am not Nigerian by birth.

Please forget it.
There is nothing you can do.
It's a fight you can't win.
Nigerian families have entitlement mentality.
Start saving money secretly so you can have something for your kids.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

I have decided to stop pitying women like you that have refused to have sense.
If you die, the same society you are trying to impress will shame you for staying.
Since you have decided to go ahead and marry the beast, My only advice for you is;
Please go on family planning or remove your womb.
Don't bring innocent children to this world to suffer.
We have enough Motherless children who are suffering already.
Don't add yours to the statistics.
All the best in your marriage.
Don't forget to buy Shea butter so it can conceal the beatings from showing on your skin.
Pls buy plenty foundation to cover the marks on your face.
Many more years of tears.
Goodluck.

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SamsonJohn743:
Hello…anyone

Hi, how can I help you?

IWillRiseAgain:
Source: https://www.infoguider.com.ng/2021/10/how-to-protect-your-childs-innocence.html

I have decided to raise my kids in a sane country.
Some countries still value their Morals and they didn't allow civilization to corrupt them.
They only accept the good side of civilization which is the technology that comes with it.
They have rules which are strictly enforced in their country.
Example: You must dress decently and it applies to both Male and female
Lewd music or songs with sexual lyrics are not played in public.
Songs played in children parties are censored.
Their internet is also restricted.
You can only visit porn sites with VPN.
Punishment for sexual abuse or rape is Castration, Beheading or flogging in Public to serve as a warning to intending rapist.
There are lots of countries like that but Nigeria is not one of them.

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