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Radking7:
Don't be scared of approaching women.
it's what I did to build my confidence, approaching women is very easy. The greatest weapons you can use to charm her are:
* Eye contact (this should be illegal, it drives women crazy)
* smile (forget all this bad boy stuffs most people are saying, trust me)
* Touch her (this gets her excited and removes you from the friendzone to the sexual zone)
* maintain a good conversation

That's all you need, as long as you're neat and clean. Go and approach women, it builds your confidence and game.
If you're nervous, then take it as a good thing. Don't freak out. In reality, you're not nervous.... you're just excited about her, so channel all those excitement into your charms and use them on her. you're excited not nervous!

When you approach her...stop thinking about these >>> "does she like me?", "I hope I did not say something stupid", "oh jeezzz...that was weird, why did I do that?"
my guy....stop!!!!
you're approaching a girl to see if she's your type... you're the prize.
so be asking yourself "is she fun?", "do I like her?", "is she smart?"

you get what I mean?

you can approach with openers like
* asking for directions
* complimenting something about her (make sure it's genuine)
* act like you know her somewhere and quickly change topics etc

Just be fun, witty and tease her....
forget about being beta and alpha, when you have fun, she'll see you as alpha. when you're boring and project insecurity, she'll see you as beta...
HAVE FUN WITH HER!

you can ask me more questions if you need.
Good luck.

lol Amigo..

the confidence and courage to approach women have never been the problem. what I mean is,it used to be a lot easier approaching women in my beta days. Nowadays, as a new convert of the redpill fellowship, what looked like normal now has to pass through several red pill filters to ascertain their integrity... I can no longer profess love to buy attraction... just want to know how redpillers change a normal conversation to sensual without sounding like AFCs

ElasmoBranchii:
You can compliment a girl but be frugal with it.

My advice is tell her you are attracted to her. I believe a man should be direct with his intentions.
But be mindful of shit test tho. It is women's way of checking if you are dominant or of high value.
Top tier men rarely get shit tested.

If you have internalize the redpill and you have abundance mentality. The test won't be a problem.

special thanks amigo

what'd a G do without men like you guys...all I can say is gracias Amigos...

can't just believe the extent to which I simped in my fresher years in the uni...simping almost cost me my education... I can only shake my head when I think about that

TheExclusive:
Start acting like her boyfriend but don't beg or tell her that you love her.

acting like her BF in what sense? like telling her how pretty she is , showering her with gifts, granting her unmerited favours,as in what sense? cos I'm only available for plates spinning..

if you reread what I put up there, you'll understand what I need...

I mean,how do you shift a conversation from normal to sexualized on the first day without sounding needy

hello Amigos,
now picture this scenario. A redpiller comes across a lady who he'd love to be intimate with, and for the records, he's never met her before (neither is he sure he'd meet her again). Being that he spends his time developing himself and adding to his bank account, we now understand that he has little or no time for frivolities.. like chasing women. So Geez, what's the best form of approach? going straight to the point with her or taking things slowly? knowledge of the redpill has made it difficult for me to shower praise on any lady... beautiful or not. what is the best way to make her understand your intentions and get laid in few days... after approaching her somewhat indirectly,how do you switch to the main deal without sounding beta...in the same conversation? In my better days,it used to be a lot easier, sounding and being needy.

someone should post a format here

IamDavid:
Mr Adamu, how far? When will universities resume? Students are getting depressed at home o, seven month break from academics isn't even healthy. Please like my post for no reason, my girlfriend just broke my innocent heart.

go to romance section and search for the red pill

As much as I'm not an ardent follower of this show,I love seeing humble and hard-working Geez move up the ladder.


the cap fits you my guy. Wear it.

Btw,I wish Dorathy an endorsement deal with 3 crowns milk

Regex:
I am but a humble learner. Tho I'm doing the bolded, not to rid myself off chaser/thirst element, but with the mindset of improving myself and to enjoy the world the best way I can. I didn't know I was killing two birds.

Thanks for this input. @KVN1 check the bolded.

yeah, thanks bro

I already sent you my email


.. maybe I should resend

nichotivity1@gmail.com

Regex:
Do you read? Send me pm I've got books to straighten you up.

Answering the bolded:

You still see yourself as a chaser. You have not viewed yourself as the price.

nichotivity1@gmail.com

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]Yeah...You have indeed messed up and any further simp moves will throw you deep into friend zone as you don first Jonze when you carelessly open your wallet.....The next Jonzing is to be beating yourself over her then before you know it,you will be bombing her phone with simp calls... That will be the end of it all.The only way to repair this is to go into salvage mode via deep introspection on where you went wrong and pledge not to act so desperately and carelessly again with your life(taking big risks because of pussy),time and money on any pussy whatsoever..Then you go into ghost mode where you stop all contact with her pending when she starts valuing your presence and tries contacting you, you have to let her go in one part of your mind...Occupy yourself with other activities or girls... Sometimes, In the foreseeable future, she will get back to you (trust me,they always do) at that point in time you must play it very very cool, no acts of desperation and recklessness.[/color]

very apt bro.. special thanks to you my man

Thanks to all my gees out there

I believe a real nigga grows through making mistakes and owning up to them...

make we keep up with the good work

but how do you eventually overcome a girl who suddenly becomes defensive... I think that's where my problem lies...
I've always been in a position where I have to struggle with them to get them laid...it works for me all the time because they eventually get to fall in love..... I've never gotten any girl without compulsion...it's always like I'm compelling them to know what it feels like to be with me.. I think that too can be risky.

I'm not trying to derail this thread. I believe this thread was created to help men get ladies while maintaining frame

Skepticus:
You better move on with your life and stay on purpose before you do something stupid in the name of "having your pound of flesh". You can get accused of rape etc ending in jail, ruining your career and life. You goofed big time by forcing yourself on her. She never chose you and her attitude was already a red flag. You should have bounced and moved on.

The aim of the red pill is for men to see below the surface and stay on course as a man. Not trifling in life with unserious issues like running after the low-value girls in your neighbourhood etc.

Your effort is better spent on new prospects than wasting your time with women who already see you as a simp.

thanks bro.. this'll be my daily manual from today

Regex:
Count your losses and move on from the girl. There were signs but you chose run a red light.

What did you learn from this little experience of yours?


If you didn't here's mine!

Women will make time for the one she loves.
You don't need to persuade, coerce or cajole her.
No matter how selfish a woman can be with her time, resources and emotions, she'd never be that way for the one she loves and chose.

You chose her, hence all the struggles to validate yourself towards her.

Once the first appointment(date) with a woman fails, never ever try to fix another one
This goes hand in hand with the first bolded. When you fixed the first appointment and she shifted it to Sunday, you should have left to your place and never call or text her. She has to call you if you are that important. It's not pride or ego, it saves you time and emotions.

You can't make this girl pay. You lacked the balls in the first place, hence she'd still see you as a failure even in the future. Just count your losses and move on. This time be smarter with the next woman. it's a step by step process. You can't master all in one day or one girl. You made a mistake, you have learned new thing. Don't relent, you will make worse mistake than this although smaller than this, but you will pick yourself up and learn from it. GL

very apt bro, very apt! but what if I had balls but lacked tactics..

CaveAdullam:
Spin another plate. Reject this kind of scarcity mentality. There are a million girls outside who are much better than her. Don't condescend yourself to such level again. Build and maintain frame!

Don't call or text her again. If possible dump her number: it works, she will call back, but if you are still interested in her, let your terms and conditions be starkly revealed unto her. Otherwise, forget her for good!

No insults. The journey of a man in all of life's ramifications is like a seed in the soil where all is dark, slow and gradual.

You are a king; the prize to be won.

Take care.

God bless.

...and suddenly,I feel alive again

2dice01:
Lmao we wont insult you bro

@ the bolded apart from her preety face and sexy curve+ maybe big boObs which millions of women around the globe got tell us what make her different

If all what these Solomon offsprings have written for more than 40 pages cant convince you

Only Jesus christ can do the Magic

lol...true talk bro

I feel so bad especially because I've been a great follower of the redpillers movement

Dpsychologist:
Damn bro. You bleeped up big time. See the way this girl manipulated you.
Mehn.
She is already done with you. Just move on

mehn.... too bad
but I'm not really emotionally invested
I just wish to have my pound of flesh

Hello redpillers,

I messed up again.

I traveled to another city for some business transactions.

Prior to that time, there's this girl I've been chatting with and making overt passes at( yeah, I've been raw and straight to the point with her), and whenever I say sth about making out with her, she turns me down weakly with words like"you're high, your head" etc

Once upon a time,I invited her over to my school,she schools in another state..She agreed to come, but I had to cancel, because I was checking my expenses.

Throughout last week,I was in the town where she stays,but I had to finish with most important stuffs first..

On Thursday,I gave her a call and asked her to come to the hotel where I was lodging..she begged me to shift our meeting to Sunday because that's the only time she's free from work. In the course of our meeting plans,she told me she'll be coming with her sister cos she doesn't trust me. I asked her to bring her purse along to clear her sister's bills..she finally coordinate shaa

Mind you,I was lodging in a hotel, and because I accepted the postponement,I had to pay for two extra nights (just to have sex... for my mind naa)

She called me two hours to our scheduled meeting time and told me she wouldn't be able to make it that she made some loss in the shop which she would be trying to pay back by working overtime... I became furious,but I was still calm.. I called her again, this time, trying to cajole her to come... that I already wasted cash for her sake...She stylishly dropped the call and claimed it was network..but this time,she was beginning to feel guilty...so I banked on that... I asked her where she stays and she lied about that...

I again remembered she once told me that so I traced her to her place.


On seeing me,she was so shocked, surprised...but happy that I could find my way to her place...

I wasn't having any of those, so I rebuked her severely, but this time,she was begging.I decided to relax and bit...she gave me a hug, but I didn't hug back..but after some minutes,the third leg took over from the brain... I kissed her in the ear twice, and she was relaxed. I decided to calm down when I noticed someone coming around.

So this time again,I made a move to hold her and bring her closer to me, but this time,she protested. This one come vex me. How she go get mind make me waste money for hotel still come dey do rubbish... I tried to catch her hand almost forcefully ..and we stuggled with it for some time with her claiming that I was hurting her

The biggest f up came when she started begging me to ''show her love" still no want make I even kiss her and I think I became needy...

I teased her with money but eventually gave it to her claiming she'd have gotten more if she had complied with our terms of meeting..

After I gave her the money without even considering what I've been through already, I felt scales fall from my eyes and I come realize say I don jonse..

Redpillers,abeg make una advise me because I dey vex..

I still want this girl to pay in kind but I think I need help on how to go about it..

Till today,she never even call me to know if I reach home in peace

Insults are allowed.

The Indigenous People of Biafra, IPOB, has directed its media team to stop attacks against the Yoruba and Yoruba nation. IPOB in a statement by the Head of Directorate of State, Chika Edoziem, directed all its media personnel, to strictly adhere to the instruction of its leader, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, and halt all attacks against the Yoruba. IPOB's statement read, "Consequent upon the directive by Onyendu Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, IPOB, worldwide during his live broadcast of Sunday, July 19, 2020, to the effect that all attacks on Yoruba people should cease immediately, the Directorate of State of the Indigenous People of Biafra has deemed it instructive to reiterate and reaffirm the adherence by all to that directive from our leader. "To this effect, all IPOB media personnel operating on different segments and platforms, be it on print, radio, visual and social media, as well as the generality of IPOB family members, must strictly obey that directive as given by our leader. "It is time to, once again, exhibit the discipline for which IPOB is known for. We must use the knowledge and information acquired from Radio Biafra during Onyendu's teachings and those obtained from individual research to present our viewpoints on issues of public interest and debate."
source: Sahara Reporters,New York

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
I dey shame for this niggarrr called bobrisky.. belle nor dey shoot out for just two weeks pregnancy

Funny enough. Na gay format this guy take dey huzzle for Grindr
Him go ask any of he friends for overseas probably all those Arab countries like oman, Bahrain and Kuwait make them help am logging

Immediately them logging for am then he profile and online details for Grindr go dey show overseas whereas he dey Nigeria.. then those Arab gay men go dey add am
Only my real niggarrrs here on Nairaland Will understand

slawormir you be sure guy

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright


You must be a real niggarrr
I understand the message you are trying to pass across here but most niggarrrs don't understand your message
I owe you some weed
Simply put the cost of living and standard of living is high

slawomir, today's argument no favour you.

Doctors in the UK earn around £10k per month, and I'm talking about those senior docs o... and you know the good thing,they live very comfortably... now imagine a footballer earning as high as £290k/wk.. and they are comparing him with a Kano pillars highest paid player...
no reason am o... highest na small tax go just slash the money small

ikemesit4477:
check your email I have sent you DM!

alright bro

ikemesit4477:
so you are my neighbor! I saw the woman wailing!

Wow! Which side you dey?

happening in my street

let's help each other. I don't have any ideas.. I am very broke

Please I'm very interested

08130772139

what an ambitious way to die

750 Soldiers with 82 Airborne Headed for CENTCOM, additional 4000 troops expected to be deployed as Iran tensions Mount ....

czarina:
Interesting. Had no idea!

Can you share some credible links to the research/cure? I'd really appreciate that.

you can just do a Google search on it.
Nigeria found the cure herself.

I still believe the cure for these so-called 'incurable' diseases have been found already.

Last time,a vet doctor from Michael Okpara University of agriculture Umudike came up with a cure for HIV,but he was sued by the NMA for operating outside his jurisdiction.

Too many rubbish going on!

He Jiankui, a scientist in China, who said he had created the
world's first gene-edited babies, has been jailed for three
years.
He was convicted of violating a government ban by carrying
out his own experiments on human embryos to try to give
them protection against HIV, the BBC reports.
He was globally condemned when he announced his
experiments and birth of twin babies last November.
Xinhua news agency said a third baby was also born at the
same time, which had not previously been confirmed.
The local government in Guangdong province said it was
keeping the babies under medical observation.
As well as the prison sentence, the man was fined $430,000.
The court also handed lower sentences to two men, Zhang
Renli and Qin Jinzhou, for conspiring with He to carry out the
experiments.
A court in Shenzhen said the men had acted "in the pursuit of
personal fame and gain" and had seriously "disrupted medical
order", Xinhua news agency reported.
"They've crossed the bottom line of ethics in scientific
research and medical ethics," the court added.
source:Sahara reporters

it's an undergraduate program in computer science

rkarang:
Are you applying for an undergraduate program? If yes, maybe. Depending on the sch admission policy.
But as for graduate program, in most cases, it won’t.

Hello guys,

please, will my NECO grades ( parallel Cs ) affect my chances of getting fundings?

hello peeps
I found out that most German universities require at least a B2 in language proficiency level..is it possible to jump directly to A2 level since I am self taught in A1?

again can I really meet up with the language ish before July 15, since I am still good at just the basics