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hello boss I must really confess you're doing a great job. I stumbled on this thread sometime last year though I wasn't a registered user then so I couldn't really contribute. but finally I decided to register.
There's this girl I practiced this drills on that last year when I first stumbled on this thread. we really bonded and she fell in love. though it was a long distance thing then but after few months the girl secured admission in my school n we finally got to meet. she's really beautiful. it was really rosy at that initial stage when we Finally met as she was all over me. then one day while we were chatting on WhatsApp she even asked me if I had condoms which I jokingly replied with the I hope you're not trying to come and rape me line. she laughed. she actually came to my lodge the next day and was all over me. when we actually got all touchy and stuff , after a while she realized I wasn't really in the mood at that time, she pulled back and apologized for throwing herself at me. things moved on smoothly and she was all over me during that time.
I think I bleeped up at some point when I asked her out and I was even shocked with her response. she said she has grown to love me so much that she is scared to loose me and scared that things might change if we start dating and maybe things don't work out. that she is scared of loosing that bond and friendship. so for this reason she can't date me for now. that we she just wants us to remain close friends. we are intimate sometimes although she says she isn't really comfortable when. I touch her again because it feels like its her brother touching her. sometimes it feels like I've been friend zoned but sometimes it doesn't because she tells me some things that I don't think a friend zoned guy Will be told like most times she tells me whenever her period starts and end, stomach pains due to the period and some other very intimate stuffs.
Now we still talk very well. I go to her lodge we lie on the same bed, sometimes I pet her play with her hair. we laugh and gist.
I really like this girl and it wasn't my intention to get so close to the extent she's afraid of losing me but can't date me for now. I was just trying to follow your words that we should try to start as friends before moving to lovers. I guess I overdid the friend part as we are so close now and too comfortable with me now that she said she can't date me for now. she lives with her elder sister who also knows me through her I talk with her elder sister too you might even think she's talking with her other siblings when we are talking .
Boss the issue now is that I really like this girl and I know she likes me too but according to her she's just scared to take things further because she's scared of loosing me entirely if things go south. please what do I do to change this her mentality because I really want to take things further oh? sorry for the long epistle lol �. �.