₦airaland Forum

Drsnives:
So if I stand up to preach inside campus shuttle I'll pay 50k

Yes!!! But terrorists and bandits that have murdered several lives wouldn't be punished at all but reintegrated back into the society.

Afrah04:
nothing surprising, we all think different na

Most naija men think the same though.

adebowales:
I am regretting at the moment, I wish I could correct my mistake but it’s too late

Please can you share your story or mistake so that others can learn on this forum.

Amovingman:
Person see website like this and invest their hard earned money on it the owner is even on nairaland but I won't tag him

If you are really serious about knowing the owner here on nairaland, please tag him or her for some people's sake.

cr7lomo:
Peggy isnt years younger oooo... infact leonard is about 10yrs older ...or almost 10 years older... hes approaching 50

Yes so I heard too.

Afrah04:
I am a Nigerian 🇳🇬

Wow, that's so so surprising.

Afrah04:
that is why I emphasize leave wretched men to stay and suffer alone, marrying and bearing children with them is disservice to humanity.

I wish Nigerian men have same idea as yours. Which country are you from?

MemoriesAndMe:
So whats the alternative option here? Women should save their funds while their man struggles to provide everything? Is that fair?

I said nothing related to such. My point is that the fact that a woman doesn't suffer with you men doesn't make her a bad woman. Even you will not pray for that kind of life for your daughter. African men, especially Nigerian men should change that mentality.
The love and desire for good life, soft life, luxury and wealth are all human desires irrespective of gender or age.

Gerrard59:
Don't blame them. Their wives deliberately deny them sex. What should they do, soapy?

Keep deceiving yourselves. So all those men having side chicks, all their wives are denying them sexDoes that justify their acts of putting up all those lies against their wives just to get laid? Going by your words, married women that their husbands also deny sex, doesn't give them money for upkeep or refuses to be responsible, their wives should also go out to sleep with other men so as to get sex, money and attention??

lightwind:
You will be very lonely at old age... Your siblings children at a time no go dey reason you again, they will be very preoccupied with things to meet up with. By that time you will be regretting why you no marry or have children when your mates are marrying and having their own children.

Except you decided to be a baby mama or a single mother in the future. Just have 1 or 2 kids in your name and forget about husband.

You see now at this age you are, of course you can do lots of things with your strength and power, go to work, market, cook, go out with friends etc.. time will reach when you will be unable to do any of this again..real matter o no be play. Na that time you go see the value of husband and children except you wouldn't like to get old in your life.

You see that loneliness at old age is what most people are scared of, nothing else.
Loneliness at old age is very brutal and real sis.


Even people around you at that time sef will be calling you a witch at old age, WEH NO GREE Marry Or Get Children. He be like you still be teenager or still enjoying life at your parents house

Remember Nigeria doesn't have old people homes, unlike Oyibo land where they have all this facilities they use in taking care of Old people in their country.

The reason i wrote all this long message for you is because you are saying i don't have sense.

Her matter really pain you sha... use this same energy to advice your gender that always says they don't need women nor marriage or they only want baby mama's while your fellow men keeps supporting and applauding them.

ukaface:
And why do you think I want to read all this epistle?
Why my statement dey pain you like this?

Don't mind the guy. When their fellow men says they're not interested in marriage that women are these and that, they are usually happy and highly supportive. Let a women say the same thing, they start wailing and sounding pained. Just see epistle...

MemoriesAndMe:
Lets appreciate good women like this. Glad she made it up to you @OP. Thats an understanding woman. Not every man has someone like that in their lives. Cherish her please.

To Nigerian men, suffering with them makes you a good woman. When a Nigerian man equates you to a good and understanding woman, hmmmn...just know that you don see shege for their hand and their families.

fyzaila:
They said for better for worse,I am wondering when will your wife see for better

I tire, na only worse she dey see...

Amovingman:
Hope women on nairaland can follow your wife footsteps for their husband or boyfriend

The women in your lives including your born and unborn daughters,wven granddaughters will follow his wife's footstep and be in her shoes for their husbands and boyfriends. Amen.

22tiger:
Ask Nigeria girls out . what you will hear is can you take care of me ? How much can you spend on me ?
Beggers in disguise

When a Nigerian guy asks a lady out, what you will hear is, I am single even when they are married. Or I am married but I no longer love my wife, she is a witch, she's not a wife material, she doesnt give me peace, she's now fat like pig she can't cook and she's not supportive .
I need a young lady that can give me peace and make me happy...do you live alone? When will you come and visit me? Are you good in bed? Can I see your sexy pics? Bunch of liars and sex starved men in disguise.

israelmao:
A woman who has high sense of worth and value will not go after man for a morsel of bread but for integrity,high moral standard and great potential.

A man who has a high sense of worth and value will not go after a woman for "secks" and just to get into her pants but for commitment, integrity and marriage consideration.

Angelfrost:
Your concerns are valid, but an adult over 30 should be in the best position to decide her life or the direction of her life.

In all you mentioned, they might both be able to make it work once there is true love and mutual respect.

Besides, who said being well educated (formally educated) is a sure guarantee for success in anything including marriage?!!

It isn't about being successful or making money. An uneducated person is an uneducated person, if you are very close to them you will observe that their way of thinking, doing things, interaction, decision making, handling issues, training children etc is usually different from that of an educated person. That being said, the educational gap between a MSC holder and a FSLC holder is extremely wide. Coping with eachother might be really difficult, especially for the woman.

silibaba:
Oga rest!

Bible said I will increase your child labor but you will still desire to have sex. Is an inbuilt thing. Except him man don't know how to make her climax.

There's no female animal in this world that don't like sex. You can only put it in check but that doesnt mean you don't like sex.

Oga pastor, chai this matter pain you wella ooo , as she said she doesn't like sex, go and kill her then. Your body go calm down.

spiceadole:
Are you minding the e.diot?

That gender? Most of them are not just smart. Dumb species.

silibaba:
Sex is not your thing and you already have three kids (abi you be virgin mary)

The way women deceive themselves these days baffles me.

I hate women that pretends when it comes to sex.except you have infections that makes you not to enjoy sex, then I will reason with you.

Yes it's possible sex isn't her thing even with 6 children. If she had sex just once or twice a year and each copulation led to pregnancy does that make sex her thing How does that make her pretend? Get educated and informed, that done? Be reasonable!

fykes:
I leave you to your opinion

You go hold me before? If you can't answer simple question then f-off.

fykes:
Men should set boundaries and know its not your place to deal and tolerate a woman's insecurities.

Boundaries are a healthy sign of self respect and confidence.

Would you have said this same thing if a man comes to visit his girlfriend unannounced? Wouldn't you have accused such girl of cheating? Should women set boundaries too?

BigYash:
Overdose of hard drugs ,no be any juju.. Go ask yerimo how e dey do am,when he take those hard drugs

And the hard drug overdose would make them all sleep exactly the same time and the same way??

cr7lomo:
Men and women are judged differently.... a man can cheat , a woman can't...a woman can be broke and loved , man cant be broke and loved .... we abide by 2 sets of rules ...is it too hard to understand... have u heard of a woman marrying 2 husbands at a time ... do women pay groom price ... are women given list for marriag?... both genders are judged differently.... a man that have slept with multiple women, no one cares , a woman that has slept with lots of men is disrespected , when a man hits a woman,
the world attackshim and they callnfor his head , he is cancelledand imprisonedfor a long time , but when a woman hits a man , no one bats an eye , they even laf at the man... most people even think that domestic violence is only when a man hits a woman and not the other way round .... I dont know why when it gets to men , u all get mad

Story!!! ....And who gave the rule that a man can cheat while a woman cannot? The bible, government or what? When and how was the rule set Who assigned the judge(s)
Okay, women are now cheating just like men and even more than men, has heaven fallen Now it has come to stay and nothing can change it. Men are the leader and women are following their footsteps.

Men can marry as many wives as they want, that is not a problem. But sleeping with another woman or more outside marriage is cheating and women have joined the gameplay. Enjoy!

cr7lomo:
So cheating is now a sport or brag...uts now a good thing... u de compete with man when it comes to cheating but run away when it comes to providing...

Is being a provider an excuse for men to cheat? If so, Frank Edoho's wife was the provider in their home. So she is justified for cheating right? Moomoo talk...

These men are really pained, see tears everywhere. Non of them criticised Frank Edoho for cheating with different women including married women. But see them shouting fear women because his wife did the same. Y"all cannot take what you dish out. Women shall continue to follow your steps and examples. You never see anything. We love Chike!!!

kingsways:
Something tells me she is lying

These kinds of women are some of the most terrible species of human beings


Let’s even assume it’s true, is that a justification for your own animal behavior

Let Frank come out and tell us that she is lying, you are not in position to do that.

brain54:
If you were tired you could have just left...


Must you cheat? Such dramatic entrance. Because your reputation is tarnished you want to drag the poor man and everyone else you can along like the devil wants to drag people along with him to hell!

If the husband was tired of the marriage, he could have divorced her. But he started cheating. Must he cheat A man that can keep malice for donkey years, a man that started sleeping with multiple women including married women is a "poor" man? The woman did exactly what the man did, what should be the problem??

Hullcity:
Out of all the thousands of single young and beautiful ladies available , u went for a maried woman. Now u have succeeded in breaking the home of your fellow man. And you think you can have peace of mind, never! .
Ur career is over before it started becos if your Foolishness .

Your fellow man Frank broke his home first by cheating on different women, then his wife took his step. Call out Frank for breaking his home not Chike.

Harddiskng:
When the guy marries the girlfriend’s friend, he would have the last laugh

Be testing your partner, well done. Assistant Satan

Some babes are so foolish ehn.

The girlfriend's friend will be so f00lish to marry such a low value and indisciplined guy, na cry cry and hell go end such marriage.

esnbrutality:
Again...

Igbo Amaka.


Where competence is needed and essential lions ROAR

He is from Edo State, bini tribe not Igbo.

Countersam:
This gender when...
Only introduction you pack go the man house for years, if na we average hustling guys you will be singing "piya ring on it" song for us.

I shame for my gender, we no dey ever learn.