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RomanceRe: My Amen Was Not In Vain..my Pre Wedding Pics @ Oniru Beach by Kwinesther: 11:53am On Apr 23, 2022
maxwell530:
Ekiti marriage

My state
Which part of Ekiti are you from?
RomanceRe: You Can Leave A Broke Man But Can't Leave A Man That Beats You by Kwinesther: 11:50am On Apr 23, 2022
sollolucci77:
Dont you know there are some rich men who beat their wives?
Yes of course. I'm saying MOST of the men that beats their wives are the poor ones.
RomanceRe: You Can Leave A Broke Man But Can't Leave A Man That Beats You by Kwinesther: 11:28am On Apr 23, 2022
Premiumwriter:
stop trying to turn the point around.

No one is discussing about poor vs rich men.

The focal point is why a woman finds it easier to leave a broke guy but not a rich man that wounds her to the point of death.

We all know that a man is a man which even adds to the mystery
What makes you think these men beaters are rich? Most of the men that beat their spouses are the poor ones living in one room with two or more children. A hungry man is an angry man. These women stay in the marriage because of the foundational love they have for their spouse and the children. Do your findings.
FamilyRe: Husband Caught Having Sex With His Housemaid Few Hours After His Wife Gave Birth by Kwinesther: 8:26pm On Apr 19, 2022
justscorchone:
Are you familiar with NFTs and the crypto world?
Just because I want to help does not mean I still won't like to jizz on dem tits.
Yes I am, but don't bother.
FamilyRe: Husband Caught Having Sex With His Housemaid Few Hours After His Wife Gave Birth by Kwinesther: 9:44am On Apr 19, 2022
justscorchone:
I don't abuse women unjustly, if not that you are a brainwashed sheeple we for run things. Have you finally gotten a job though?
Cool to know you are not like most men here. Run things like what? Yes, managing one here but still looking for better offers. Please link me up if you've got any.
FamilyRe: Husband Caught Having Sex With His Housemaid Few Hours After His Wife Gave Birth by Kwinesther: 8:50pm On Apr 18, 2022
justscorchone:
The majority outnumber the losers sticking to one woman though, that could be 90 to 10. Forget all that,I could picture the cross you wearing between dem tits..damn
Well, I'm not surprised by that ratio. A few number of people tend to do the right/moral thing while a large number mostly do the opposite. "Wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction and there are many that goes through it."

It's a cross pendant on my necklace na, so I expect you to see it. Lol, he don quickly check my profile. So won't you bully or insult me? I haven't heard the usual tag of ugly, olosho and useless from you ooo abi you be female ni?
RomanceRe: No Lagos Wedding Is Complete Without Ladies Wearing These - Leo Da Silva by Kwinesther: 6:06pm On Apr 18, 2022
Too revealing style can't wear such, it seems I'm the only young lady that haven't used that net on my natives. It is so common even in churches.
FamilyRe: Husband Caught Having Sex With His Housemaid Few Hours After His Wife Gave Birth by Kwinesther: 5:52pm On Apr 18, 2022
justscorchone:
Lol you are one of them damn sheeples, keep safe in your bubble babe.
Believe it or not, the word of God is the standard for a life to be lived right. Being an atheist won't take you anywhere and EVERY man is not promiscuous, you should always speak for yourself alone.
FamilyRe: Husband Caught Having Sex With His Housemaid Few Hours After His Wife Gave Birth by Kwinesther: 5:08pm On Apr 18, 2022
justscorchone:
I said it before and I will say it again, it's engrained in every male gene to be promiscuous,
Since the beginning of time it has always been the case. A woman who knows this eternal secret and accepts this fact will find favour in the sight of God and also will have a beautiful union with her man.
Every male? Is that why Paul, Timothy, Joseph,Stephen, Philip, Nicholas, Timon, Andrew,James, Mathew, John,Jesus and his other disciples were promiscuous? If you and your lots lacks sexual discipline and control, just say it and let your wife know as early as possible, if she accepts you that way, that is her eternal problem but saying every MAN is promiscuous, is even worse. God bless all the disciplined men out there.

Your last sentence, stop saying what God never says, HE is not your mate.
FamilyRe: Husband Caught Having Sex With His Housemaid Few Hours After His Wife Gave Birth by Kwinesther:
kabukabu50:
If this comment actually got that many likes,we are doomed.

She already has grounds to divorce him for adultery,which is what he did.

Its obviously clear that he is not in control of his manhood,and he lacks empathy,morality and judgment.

Not only cheating on his wife but perhaps spreading STDs,possibly getting a lady pregnant and having a child out of wedlock,and propagating endless cycle of poverty.

This above post is a literal example why Nigeria is a poster boy for misogyny.
We are really doomed, especially these generation. I didn't know you observed the over 100 likes too. Fornication and adultery is now seen as normal. My major concern is the type of fruits (children) these kinda men will produce? What will they teach them? In terms of morals, what will become of their daughters? I'm so worried.
CelebritiesRe: Only A Brave Man Can Marry Rita Dominic by Kwinesther: 7:25pm On Apr 17, 2022
zinaunreal:
Haha...my mother shall drop dead cos she's a bitch
CelebritiesRe: Only A Brave Man Can Marry Rita Dominic by Kwinesther: 5:09pm On Apr 17, 2022
zinaunreal:
I am an Ugly thing.... my witchcraft go kill me .
RomanceRe: Let Me Find My Lover On Nairaland by Kwinesther: 2:56pm On Apr 17, 2022
Soffyh:
thanks! Yo re not bad kwinesther cool good vibe
Thanks thanks.
CelebritiesRe: Only A Brave Man Can Marry Rita Dominic by Kwinesther: 2:28pm On Apr 17, 2022
zinaunreal:
I am a Vulture.
Okay.
CelebritiesRe: Only A Brave Man Can Marry Rita Dominic by Kwinesther: 1:20pm On Apr 17, 2022
zinaunreal:
Thunder fire me . I got the message.
Look at my vulture face. That's how I will remain rotten biiitch till I die.
Fixed.
CelebritiesRe: Only A Brave Man Can Marry Rita Dominic by Kwinesther: 4:51am On Apr 17, 2022
zinaunreal:
My mother's stinking punnani dia.... My mother is a baboon
Fixed.
RomanceRe: Let Me Find My Lover On Nairaland by Kwinesther: 10:38pm On Apr 16, 2022
Jeon:
see around..

grin
Okay...
RomanceRe: Let Me Find My Lover On Nairaland by Kwinesther: 10:30pm On Apr 16, 2022
Jeon:
you are welcome..
I see you are an old member here but you hardly comment..
Yes you are right.
RomanceRe: Let Me Find My Lover On Nairaland by Kwinesther: 10:21pm On Apr 16, 2022
Jeon:
wow..
you are so beautiful..
wink
Thanks dear sis kiss
RomanceRe: Let Me Find My Lover On Nairaland by Kwinesther: 10:17pm On Apr 16, 2022
Soffyh:
grin grin I reject any lady like Riri nor Nicki
Okay oo grin. Goodluck in finding your missing rib.
RomanceRe: Let Me Find My Lover On Nairaland by Kwinesther: 8:25pm On Apr 16, 2022
Soffyh:
Seriosly Looking for my Beyonce huh
Lol, Rihanna nko?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Any Lady Available For Friendship At Akure? Hookup Babes Stay Away From Me by Kwinesther: 8:06am On Apr 16, 2022
Collinss11:
No
Okay.
RomanceRe: Bad Boy Vs Nice Guy...(photo/ by Kwinesther: 7:21am On Apr 14, 2022
Kylekent59:
It has to do with the country. Here in the Philippines, Nice guys are all that the women are after.

That only applies to Nigerian girls because of money and greed.
I'm in Nigeria and my love for good guys no be here.
CelebritiesRe: Only A Brave Man Can Marry Rita Dominic by Kwinesther: 6:03am On Apr 14, 2022
zinaunreal:
I can't abeg. Why should I be brave when women are useless
Your mother being the most useless among them.
FamilyRe: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kwinesther: 11:23pm On Apr 13, 2022
Kobojunkie:
You claimed a "right" spouse would be given you by God to somehow make marriage of God, however, there is no such promise given of a "right" spouse to make marriage good this since God cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16. undecided
So since God said, "in pain women shall bring forth children and their husbands shall rule over them" automatically means there is nothing like RIGHT spouse and God cannot give the right spouse if one ask for it? Just read what you wrote again and again, doesn't make any sense. Una go dey interpret the Bible to suit your thinking, na you sabi but keep this opinion to yourself cos I won't reply you anymore.
FamilyRe: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kwinesther: 10:46pm On Apr 13, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I didn't express an opinion since what I stated is what is written in scripture. undecided
The bible verse you quoted does not in anyway relate to the things I mentioned. It is not necessary you quote me in the first place.
FamilyRe: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kwinesther: 10:38pm On Apr 13, 2022
Kobojunkie:
There is no "right" spouse. God never said marrying a "right" spouse will remove God's curse - Genesis 3 vs 16 - on marriage from off of your union. undecided
...your opinion.
FamilyRe: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kwinesther: 7:54am On Apr 12, 2022
babajeje123:
That God directs you to marry someone won't make marriage work automatically. The parties involved must work together to make it work.
My point is God will help you to choose the right spouse if you seek his help. When you are now married, you join hands with your partner and make things go well but with the right spouse it is usually easy...
FamilyRe: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kwinesther: 7:05pm On Apr 11, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
She lived life on her own terms in her "husbands" house. Got up from bed when she wanted. Cooked stew only on Sundays, and would not cook any other day. She also made it known that she cannot go to the market, if she does, then she will be too tired to cook. So I got the list and bought the food stuff. She had an income, but if she stayed indoors and wrote me a list, how then will she touch hers?

I did the house cleaning, threw the trash out, she only needed to remind me that the bin was full. When I expected visitors, she only needed to remind me that the house was "scatered", and I needed to arrange it. That was her going through a lot of stress.

I suggested using goat meat to cook stew, and she screamed, "they don't do that", the day I got cow leg and ask her to do stew, she blatantly refused, "that is not the use of cow leg". I suggested she was not washing the fish well, and taking away the inner content, and I swallowed back my word after being washed down with words. It's a harsh world for men out there. Nobody says it but I will. Many men go through solitary confinement, and worse off is when they acquire this prison with their own money.

I carried on. There were nights I slept alone praying for grace. During the good times, living all alone by myself, I almost forgot a God exists. But through difficulties, hardship, torture and distress, I saw a God who gives strength to the weary and grace to the humble.

I took my daughter to nursery first thing in the morning and picked her off in the evening while returning from work. Maybe once or twice she helped me pick her up, but this was not up to four times in total. When I then get home she would call me to come and get her from work. She could walk to the bus stop, but she still asked me. I had no issues it was less than 10mins drive, so I did that. There were days I was exhausted, so asked her to get the bus instead. It was all frown, all hell when this was the case. Nurseries were calculated per hour and I payed every single hour with no outside help. She blatantly said its my responsibility.

Humans have a heart. Some are strong others are not, so the weight may tilt on the "stronger", or the other may claim weak to avoid a fair share. Its the dynamic that always play out. What is sad is when you do all these and they go back and lie that you do nothing. That they are going through torture and stress, that they are in hell. The same person that lived on her own terms, cooked when she wanted, woke up anytime and never sweeped the house for a full year. But they lied against us, and painted a picture of hell. There was no thank you for all you do, when we said anything they said it was our responsibility, and we should live up to it.

How we survived, there was no telling. It must only have been God.

Cntd

SgtPonziHater
I have been reading your write ups from the start, you obviously married the wrong woman sir. From my observation, most people that married wrongly were not directed by God but did it in their own terms. If they prayed about it and be patient, HE would surely guide them.

Marriage is not what one can just dive into without involving the institutor of same institution but we tend to ignore this fact. No matter how wise and careful we might seem to be, we are bound to make mistakes.
HealthRe: Now I Know Why Cheating Married People Don't Like Condom by Kwinesther: 6:43pm On Apr 10, 2022
BlueAir:
lipsrsealed someone's high on codeine
Yes, the person is you.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Any Lady Available For Friendship At Akure? Hookup Babes Stay Away From Me by Kwinesther: 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2022
Collinss11:
Any lady available for Friendship at Akure? Hookup babes stay away from me. We'd go out, Go on dates, Have fun e.t.c I don't need hookup babe please. Send a mail to kestar73@gmail.com
Hi, are you a lady too?
HealthRe: Now I Know Why Cheating Married People Don't Like Condom by Kwinesther: 11:07am On Apr 08, 2022
BlueAir:
smiley Really feels good to be alive doesn't it? May u not jam a woman who has a husband like me. Trust me,I would kill and bury just for suspecting u. Not to talk of catching u. And nobody would link me to u.both u and d stray bittxh
Yen yen yen, he will jam a woman who has a husband like you and sleep with her. She will even bring a bastard home for you to train and nurture. Sheyb you men are polygamous in nature and are proud of it. The consequence of your polygamous nature is sleeping with each other's wives, so enjoy your nature while it lasts.

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