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Wish I could but ... Don't bother. |
So you know there's more to marriage than love! Marriage is sacred , it takes more than love, to keep a good home and when a guy is really seriously putting things in place to ensure he doesn't mess things up after he takes a wife, the woman wants to pressure his behind into it, and when he doesn't take give in to her pressure she considers other men? Daim funny, you are all aware of all these and yet you wanted to paint a different picture in Defence for leaving a man because he's bursting his heRt and soul to ensure he gives her and the family they would make a better and comfortable life.... Wow... ***smiles**** uj_sizzle: I'm surprised u homed in on the 30yrs thingy and yet have deliberately chose to ignore every other question posed to u guys. That's very hyporitical n funny in my opinion. |
kitty kat: Since she has seen a ready man or men, why force her to remain with the poor guy and kip mountin more pressure on him.Daim., woman did she sAy the guy was poor? Or are you concluding that on your own ? If yes! How can he now do those things that she actually acknowledge in her poster! Women ! How do you guys see this thing called marriage? Na say time no dey female side, find one man hook or na say you love am and you are too damn sure you would be happy spending the rest of your God given life with him? Don't know about you though but I think we are all entitled to our very own opinions ... So .... Whatever it is , stay positive And be happy! |
uj_sizzle: Laberry sometyms u dey talk like say no be naija u dey.Ok since na 9ja we dey so let her go and meet that new guy na, and stop asking us questions, since it's marry before 30 be law for here na Abi? She should leave the present dude, that isn't game with her pressure for marriage and go to the met in the wedding guy, if that would make her happy, time will tell. Great luck Antie.... |
uj_sizzle: so what do u suggest Laberry? That the OP sits home n waits for the current bf to finally make up his mind??Didn't say that! But lemme let u in on something, a better you, would it bring a worst man, or a better man? Let her get herself busy with work and all, like making herself a better , self sustaining woman, strong and no matter her aged , when it's time ... Even d devil can't change that, bcox it's time. Go to God and let him guide you OP... Don't do what will make you be like one of my Ex's that is married now and she still wants me to be talking to her and do the taboo. Ladies only see the now... And it's wrong. See more than the now, no one said it must be a must for the females to just sit around and wait for a man to come and put her in his house all in the name of marriage. Be a better woman and a better man will come, afterall there is time for everything, don't rush yours bcox you are getting fresh to deff vibes from a stranger that could easily play 2 soccer games with ur kunta kunte and zooms off Go Pray jor make we rest for NL , and leave all this desperaDo thingzzz.. |
uj_sizzle: so what do u suggest Laberry? That the OP sits home n waits for the current bf to finally make up his mind??Didn't say that! But lemme let u in on something, a better you, would it bring a worst man, or a better man? Let her get herself busy with work and all, like making herself a better , self sustaining woman, strong and no matter her aged , when it's time ... Even d devil can't change that, bcox it's time. Go to God and let him guide you OP... Don't do what will make you be like one of my Ex's that is married now and she still wants me to be talking to her and do the taboo. Ladies only see the now... And it's wrong. See more than the now, no one said it must be a must for the females to just sit around and wait for a man to come and put her in his house all in the name of marriage. Be a better woman and a better man will come, afterall there is time for everything, don't rush yours bcox you are getting fresh to deff vibes from a stranger that could easily play 2 soccer games with ur kunta kunte and zooms off Go Pray jor make we rest for NL , and leave all this desperaDo thingzzz.. |
uj_sizzle: so what do u suggest Laberry? That the OP sits home n waits for the current bf to finally make up his mind??Didn't say that! But lemme let u in on something, a better you, would it bring a worst man, or a better man? Let her get herself busy with work and all, like making herself a better , self sustaining woman, strong and no matter her aged , when it's time ... Even d devil can't change that, bcox it's time. Go to God and let him guide you OP... Don't do what will make you be like one of my Ex's that is married now and she still wants me to be talking to her and do the taboo. Ladies only see the now... And it's wrong. See more than the now, no one said it must be a must for the females to just sit around and wait for a man to come and put her in his house all in the name of marriage. Be a better woman and a better man will come, afterall there is time for everything, don't rush yours bcox you are getting fresh to deff vibes from a stranger that could easily play 2 soccer games with ur kunta kunte and zooms off Go Pray jor make we rest for NL , and leave all this desperaDo thingzzz.. |
kitty kat: This is wat waec examiners call OP : off point.I see u are on a very personal MISSION !!!! Great luck.... |
kitty kat: In 9ja love doesn't exist until he is bold enuff to marry you. Chopping punany without commitment of marriage is not love. If its love, why would the parents refusal make d man leave d babe sharp sharp. Or finding out she has a ddreaded disease in her family or that she is of a diff religion. Blv me love, marriaGe and romance in 9ja is played in a very confusinG manner. They want to d bf/gf like oyibo but when I reach time to marry dem go remember culture. But dey forGot that culture said don't shag her before marriaGe.Very good , tell that to sexkillz so that next time he should remember that very well. |
uj_sizzle: .....and if he won't pay ur bride price show him the door.Can you imagine!!!! Oh yelz , very good clap for you self, she should really ask him for marriage and all that. If he refused., show him d door! If he accepts and takes her for a wife, and then probably ends up being a wife panel beater? Or turns her to his personal punching bag... What happens then? Chei I fear something oh, I swear!!! ![]() |
sexkillz: [color=#000030]You are a kid. . . A sick kid. Why don't you shut up and sit on your fingers when issues beyond your scope are being discussed. While you are at it, do well to read your signature.I remember telling you on one of our threads involving matters of the heart, that love doesn't exist anywhere around the boarders of the country's surrounding Nigeria, leg alone Nigeria herself! How can somebody say all that stuff about her long relationship , her man doing things good or bad and still is confused between that same her man and some dude she just met and barely knows from a wedding she attended! Would u now agree that ( some) Nigerian females are so desperate and eff'd up on this Love issue? I most DIVINELY Hate this... With so much passion, NO offense young lady, you did well to seek this advice but the only thing I can tell you is do not be desperate for any reason, that new dude is good and obviously has a way with words and that's why you are confused, BUT... Go to your God, he alone has the answer. |
iyatrustee:Waaarrrrttttt Daimmmmmaaaa!!!!! |
iyatrustee: all i smell is looove in the air. who is gonna love me now?190-the-clown.... Is more than capable,he's d only one authorized to have more than 3 wooyee!!!! banky dey learn for where this dude dey. I swear ![]() |
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Story. . .Oga Sexkillam is going ohhhhhhhh * puts hands on his head**** And they said this was a game.... Ok me too dey go.... Gree-die...**where am, looks around*** chei too bad our own letters na opposite direction... L-Y...G-E |
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Story. . .Oga Sexkillam is going ohhhhhhhh * puts hands on his head**** |
Idowuogbo: bounce na! infact jump sef!Hehehehehe.... I love this gurlz jare... Life of the romance section... Nne .. MA peppermintiem.... How doeset thee? |
Shollypopz: Well, everybody except youOh yelzzzzz!! Good chikala.... |
@idowuogbo.... Peppermintiem .... Chikala chikinto... I troway for your royal flyness, Ur mouthed..... |
freecocoa: I honestly don't have your time so please jog on.Ayaarrrrrr!!!! My eye!!! |
Shollypopz: I'll free u if u free us from ur lame a*ss poems!!Speak for ya self oh this chikala ... |
gree-die:Oh yelz porporripor... ***receives kisses with a serious ear to ear smile*** |
Chei this game was a 3much .... Morning peepz .... *yawning and stretching* hails baba God ! Oshe Baba.... Where's my new found poporripor ... Chei baby.... Ya words still dey dred lock my Afro oh..... This is selious * Igbo accent** Gree-die Honey na dis morning u commit for e-bed, and I'm missing you MA bobby boo... *** blows her a Divine KISS...*** |
gree-die:No qualms baby boo...you turn MA cute Afro to dreds Congratulations on the win... Name ur destination boo... We're bout to go woonified moon.... **private jet engine starts***** |
Idowuogbo: Thank u! * crying* heartbroketh**kissing ur tears, necks, eyez, and then lips**** Babymmmm, chikala chikinto. Peppermintieemmmm...... Sorry oh.... It's allight... U know I ruve u gidigbam... Who beat you Em..? No wary oh babym... **kisses her forehead**** |
***drum rolls**** @idowuogbo.... Peppermintiem... You know you are always razzifying my heart and for that you remain my baddest chikala chikinto.... Nice combo , but didn't feel d struggle for a real win from you... Other than that... GREAT Jabbb MA babym. @ Gree-die(f) ... Hmmmmm.... Speechless ,but it all started as a game but gurl you went too offing far and that there was scaryyyyy DIE... And even though I hate to pick one of ya! I must still... So .... The woman who won my Heart , Daim this is so hard. Gree-Die(f) .... Baby I know this is a game but you truly pulled it off, when I posted earlier that I think I like you...D -X asked to chill but now I know why honey.... Your worth tha wait, and you totally went personal and I love that... Be coming for ya for reals Boo. Rated 10.. |
slimyem: babe,if he doesn't pick you,then he's a confirmed slacker!!!If I hear.... @ sexkillz... I am oh.... Una plan don work Abi? Una satisfy Abi Still thinking.. |
D-Explorer:* nodding my head like a mesmerized puppy*** Ok I will... |
No. Wait wait wait , who did this.... Who nau.... Chei!!! Explorer this isn't fair now una wan set me up Abi? Wait wait how can dis be * confused already* gree die is killing me here ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...... I swear I no go ever toaste woman again.... Chei jezzzuuzzzzzzzzzz!!! |
Daaaiiiiiimmmmmmm!!!! Greedie ? MmmmThat gurl is somethang.... Waiting ..... |
gree-die: |
I can't wait anymore ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh MA poporipoz |
gree-die:Chei!!! That's d spiro talking! Hey explor baba ....I think I like this gurl already.. |




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