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Iamurfantasy: The girl has rubbished our OP n d guy too fell his own hands by calling to ask for more. So serizly dude, chop d shit finish.....collect d 1m n find urself a nice lil virgin.

Look don't blame the op abeg! After such investment, his in a very BAD CONFUSED state if y'all don't know.

One thing with this , his pain isn't only the money spent in the gurl oh! His time, body, heart, soul, always wanting to make her happy and above all... The hope of her being his wife!

Then she comes with one dud and says blah blah blah...

Put yourselves in his shoes, emotionally no body would handle it, so y'all saying he did this did that, where's his pride and all, try putting yourself in his shoes and see if any of you will be sane.

digitalgeorgy: This case na simple thing!!
First of all, confirm dat dis offer is nt a trap to test ur love 4 her. Cos most ladies could go d extra mile to gv such test.
If d offer is 4 real, my guy! No waste tyme to collect d cash. Most ladies would marry d rich man witout evn tellng u, am so glad she has a soft heart to thynk of an offer!! MY GUY!! OFFER VALID WHILE STOCK LAST!!

TA ... What rubbish trap / test for ruv my behind,
Why would she test him? The investment tru school isn't enuf Abi?

LastApostle: That girl is worth more than a million naira to me. I am finding it hard to let go sincerely.

I understand but sincerely you will HURT, but time will tell.

You don collect the BENJAMINS?

190-the-clown:
O boy!!!!!


tell the man to up the offer to N5M collect the money and invest it heavily on 15 other girls out there

O bouwy!!

so women are Investments like this!!

I never knew ooooo - i would have INVESTED HEAVILY in all my girls (Ex's kuku)

so i can slap bill gates anyday anytime with hard currency!!

Maybe i should start investing heavily in women!

do they accept liquidity ratios and shares as well,

Odikwa good business - this is proper business thats not yet casted oh!

I tell you oh! See business.
Really up the cash,collect and tell her u hate her small, small oh! Then smile and do both business and marry a finer younger baby boo man.

You only loose her , not ur life, and life goes on!

No total loss because if u do say na ruv u ruv her and u no collect the money guy you loose both ways.because she go still marry that rich dude! Whether u like or yes!

But women una get mind oh!

No let anybody tell u otherwise oh

That's what I sAy about Us humans, u started seeing rough times with relationships before her time,u saw/ seen during her time, she left and u saw from others (2) failed relationships there, then she comes back, u being ignorant of whAt or who she must have slept with,(fling wise) and / or otherwise, you are still saying u love her and want us to advice u! Dude that alone shows u might not even tAke our advice because na where go kill us we dey find!

U will still feel same for another chick! So RUUNNN for ur life and that of ur generations unborn I use OGHENE! Beg u

D-Explorer:
@bolded. I like that part. It's often interesting to recieve a woman's threat Just becareful some could be dangerous.

True that!

shaybe baby: Mine would be two years. I begged tire in those two years even though the guy was a complete loser, I thought I was inlove. He was broke, but I thought money didn't matter and wasted all my money on him. WE'd go out with his mates and I'd give him money before seeing his friends so it would look like he was the person paying to them. what did I get in return, infidelity(over and over) and physical abuse. Must have been Jazz, .
When I left him, it was like a lightbulb switched on in my head. I told him I was off to the salon to get my hair fixed and never went back. Turned up a few days later begging(for the first time ever) but weirdly enough, he was saying the things I used to say to him when i did the begging, things I's always wanted to hear from him. I guess when he finally did, it was a little too late. It wasn't about getting back at him, at that point, I just didn't care enough to be angry or sympethic. I just wanted him gone. That was 10 years ago, he died 5 years ago and I still can't bring myself to think kindly of him. He was a first rate KNOB.

Cheiii!!! We never know/ value what we have until it's no longer ours.

Lesson well learnt.

~vicky~:
To be honest it does not will not and never has worked {not for me anyway}Don't get me wrong u don't have to be wealthy, but you have to be able to atleast take me out for a cup of coffee and that needs some money too.
I once fell in love with this incredible, sweet and loving guy, but he could not even afford to take me to the movies, now I bet u guys will agree with me that there's gotta be some money involved for the love to work

Can you imagine! The movies naim be ur story?
Thought you wanted to say fast food or chillout joints!

WATIN DO the PLASMA, and home theatre for house?

Mynd_44: I can't even imagine it. That's longer than some marriage

Like I said , started very early before university. So with the situation of the country u can imagine the whole story.

NB: I've been single like without serious commitment for the past 2 years now.

Caracta: Really?

Buhabuhabuhahaahahahahehehehehehe.....my womb oh!

Love is like ur cup of cocoa, without sugar or milk, most people can take it down the throat, u know? Like manage to stay alive and all, but with sugar and milk, the nourishment starts from ur taste buds, and it's so fun all the way,ok?

Love is you cocoa, money is your sugar and milk,so whatever happens, love is more happiness,smiles, and endless "baby,honey, sweet heart, I Love you" with money, and quarrel,insults, less I love u , and most definitely no pet names, without money.

Gerrit?

Mynd_44: Okay mine was three years and then we spilt, I am still begging to have her back. In fact there is noting I would not do to see her face again, to hold her and just be with her

MA mehn! Nice one!

Baby witches that are after me can't get to me but they want to get to me tru the man I love! And they know it you!

So I will be at my mom's place so that I will go to her church for prayers.

Then FB did it's thang of pix of her and another dude laughing and you know the rest....

Youngzedd: A 36-year-old
hairdresser, Adeola
Fabiyi, told an
Abeokuta customary
court sitting in Ake,
that her husband, Alfa Kasumu, used charm
to marry her. According to her, she
couldn�t explain how
she moved into his
house and became his
wife. Meanwhile, Kasumu, a
muslim cleric, denied
the allegation and said
she is wayward.
Adeola informed the
court that it just dawned on her that
her husband cast love
spell on her when
they met about 12
years ago through a
friend who took her to his house when her
hairdressing business
was not booming. The applicant added
that Kasumu helped
her by doing a charm
that made the
business flourish and
customers started trooping into her
shop. � I remember vividly
that a man was dating
me and l was two
months pregnant
then, but as soon as l
moved into Kasumu�s house, the pregnancy
disappeared�. She
claimed that after she
lost the pregnancy,
she could not
conceive again, saying her husband married
three other women
shortly after she
moved out of his
house. When asked how she
realised that her
husband used charm
on her, Adeola
responded that a
close friend of Kasumu who was
privy to the deed
confessed to her. The applicant
therefore urged the
court to dissolve the
marriage and beg
kasumu on her behalf
to release her from bondage, so that she
can bear children. The respondent
denied the allegation
and told the court
that Adeola is
wayward and that�s
what is responsible for her inability to
conceive. He added that it was
true that he had many
wives, but he did not
use charm to marry
them. Meanwhile, the
case was adjourned for further hearing.


So this kind thing still dey exist

Them don come again!!!

dontador: So boys and girls date for 2yrs,3yrs,4yrs and 5yrs? @post mine was 8months, other break-ups was below that. I can't imagine myself dating a girl for a year plus and then break up with her. Unless, they are pals in school. But, outside school, in the real world dating a girl for that long and then breaking up with her, is unjust. Unless, its her choice for you guys to break up. Then, fine. I will only do that when I'm looking for my ”missing rib“ with whom i will tie the knot with. I will tread carefully and it will only last for a year and half or highest two years.#my own opinion.

So was our opinion at one point in time, well honestly speaking for miself alright, and I thought she was that special one until the break up.

We did have our problems but I guess I loved her more and she felt so secured in our relationship, break up or seperation was never an option for me no matter what went wrong or worse, and that I am sure will almost never happen anytime soon, making a girl so secure, and safe! e dey make them misbehave, no offense ladies... Just an experience ok?

And the funny thing, when u see her you wouldn't know ur counting those years in no time trust me, na when e don dey go south or north, which ever happens to you, you go know say those years even dey.

190: where this evil spirit from pop out from and what language is that

Hehaaheehehehehe.... Chieee my womb oh! LMFAO

cindyrella: No one in particular!
The shitt was boring,we just walked away! But he didn't go too far!

Yeah ! We never do go far, do we now? A lil see/ saw once in a while ehh?

cindyrella: Lmao @ replies

@op, be a man and make the first move.
stop whining like a fool!
(No offense)

Non taken, it's allowed.

190: 6yrs -
she shagged her lecturer and a fellow student, claimed she was rite,she left and i begged, cried, drank, rolled into COMA stood up, slapped myself into reality - changed completely and threw my emotions, heart, feelins, love away!!

Got better, avoided her - finally replaced her after 2months with 7 new chicks

screened these 7 chicks and only 3 are in love with me

currently dating all 3 of them

2weeks ago after an 8MONTH period, ex resurfaces looking for my pin,phone number, facebook all in all, crying and rolling on the ground that she must get me back all the way from NIGERIA even when im no where even close to AFRICA

if you doubt me, [size=5pt]ask kittycat or tjiskii[/size]

The ole is back wanting to continue her 6 yrs relationship when im happy with 3 lovely burbur's, 2 whites and 1 black + plenty one nite stands and
friends with benefits, shes a serious subject of discussion between each of my individual 7 girlfriends as them don use her do SUBJECT OF DISCUSSION AND LAFFING STOCK

LIFE SWEET SHA!!

Heheheheheheheheeehaaaaaahhhaaaa! Who be dis guy ! Man u Good!

cindyrella: 5 years
And he is still begging.
I don't really know why we broke up.... The whole stuff got boring I guess

Who broke up the relationship?

deshclones: Wotever worx for u bro...the cry,sleep,drink therapy worked for me man..don't knw for u.

The wie wie up in smoke Nko? That did work for me to get a good long sleep at one point too.

Mynd_44: He did not say it is true na

Hehehehehe ... I know oh! But I want him to know that I know it's still fagbu.

Flashaldrin: This thread is so full of liars and self hypers.
Ok i'm the barney stintson type. Just two days and she's been begging me for 5 years! She just finished washing my car now.

Fagbu fagbu

claremont: 2 years. . . I left the country. No one begged, but she still remains the best girl I ever had.

I'd say the best girl u NEVER had man...but it's all good, u ld be happy soon if ur not already.

berem: But why should the women beg? It doesn't look romantic if the woman does the begging. "Just saying"

Hehehehehe... Sorry oh! But if the woman left and she wants to come back she should do the begging... And same if the man did leave.

And must every move be made by the man?

duke4ever: Could it be blamed on our culture or system of upbringing. We witness cases where mothers will tell their female kids: Adaugo, you will marry a rich husband! Adaoma, you will marry obodo oyibo husband. What will this child be thinking afterward? That her life is dependent on a man or what? Can some say something we don't really know here.

It is what it is!

slimyem: 4 yrs..
Nobody begged...
It was too long and we had both gotten bored....

DAINM!!!!

Flashaldrin: Are you done hyping yourself??

Really ?

Is that what it is ? You really think I'm hyping eh? Well try loving a gurl for that long , and let her dump u for somebody, then you'll know it not. Easy to survive that.

It's not the end of the world when ur supposed lover dumps you.

I only did this for a reason! And if it's not clear to you, then u should stop visiting this thread.

blackcat1: I am not a risk taker so I need only genuine suggestions and businesses that are sure to bring in returns.

You should try the MLM , it's really productive and without risk nor CAC registration .

The companies products are hot cakes and you can make as more as 3mil in a month.

Plz write if u are interested
Cheers
Conwugbenu@gmail.com

candieangel12: I've asked a guy I like out before. Granted I was very scared but hey what did I have to lose right? So I asked him out via txt 2 go 2 d movies wit me. I was so shy he wud reject me but he txtd back "yeah for sure" God I felt on top of the world lol because I had been tryn 2 get his attention 4 months. Well we ended up goin 2 d movies n den he took me 2 get ice cream afterwards. Well our rlship dint last more than 2 months cos we just wasn't fit 4 each other lol. Do I regret makin d first move? Hell no! Have I done it again? Nope, I hvnt needed 2 again so far

No waaarryyyy ! You will with me! Make we try am?