From the views expressed so far by nairalanders here, its rather unfortunate that young men and women are being dragged into the dirty waters of ethno-religious politics which has been d bane of this country.
When are we going to learn from our past and not allow our shameless elders ruin our future by inducting us into the old ways of doing things.
Those agitating for the old order of doing things including the shameless act of perpetuating themselves in power are simply failures. My argument, is that if men who have served this country before(or is it their ethnic region and friends and pocket) in different capacities do not believe that the younger generation have all it takes to lead this country. It can only mean one thing, and that is that they have failed to raise future leaders and to that extent i see them as failures. And if at their age, they are still ignorant of their failures, then they don't deserve our attention.

Please, kindly offer your opinion sincere opinion on to me regarding this.

I once had a girl friend with whom i shared intimacy with. The relationship has long ended and she is married now. Currently i also have a girl friend whom i intend to marry.

My problem is that lately we started talking(I and My Ex). At first I tried to keep it as just friends as possible. However, lately she started talking about the good times we both shared and the chemistry we had. To cut it short, she told me i was the only one who has ever made her experience orgasm.

And is currently suggesting we have a taste of what we used to share as she claims am the only one who has ever made her feel like a woman!

though i have kept this to myself, I wish to solicit your candid opinion on this.

So long as she is legally/religiously/traditionally(depending on which of these institutions gave approval to d marriage in d first instance)divorced in d proper sense of it.Personally however, i will advice him to find out what actually broke his intended's former marriage and take other issues into perspective such as his would be step children.