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Car TalkMy Volkswagen Bug Jerks by LAGATA(op): 6:39am On Nov 10, 2015
Good morning all,
i drive a bug 2002 model (manual transmission). Until recently it started jerking (atimes in motion, holdups, or when i start it in the mornings)
I have been frustrated to change plugs, service nossles, change filter, replaced plug wire, etc but problem still persists.
Please i need urgent assistance , advise and suggestions to save me from this embarassment. cry cry
I stay in Abuja. will appreciate all the help i can get on this forum especially from the ogas with experiences.....
Moderators please am counting on you guys
AutosRe: Tokunbo YAMAHA Power Bike 170k Contact 08160255619 by LAGATA(m): 6:35pm On Nov 01, 2015
No doubt the op is an inexperienced crook. I actually called him to show interest bt he said I will have to deposit 10k into his acct being delivery fee.(he can wait to collect the 170k till bike is delivered bt dat d 10k was for travelling sticker)... grin I assured him of paying all d fees after the bike was delivered to me in Abuja. We are already on his trail...
RomanceThings Women Do When They Are Cheating????? by LAGATA(op): 7:06am On Sep 04, 2015
just came across this so decide to share:
Please how true?

1. Family Detachment: One sign that she may be cheating is that she detaches herself from your family. She may also stop hanging out with your friends as well. The reason women do this is out of remorse. Basically, she feels guilty and will feel less pain if she isn’t immersed in your life- including family or friends. Remember, the less mental baggage she has holding her back, the easier it will be for her to commit the deed.

2. Consistent Nagging: The days of harmonious communication are gone when a women decides to do nothing but nag. Basically, she will find every excuse to lash out and argue with you. The reason a woman will do this is to justify her deed by rationalizing that it wasn’t working out with your anyway. It helps eliminate a lot of her guilt. So if a woman starts to point out every flaw and starts arguments about every little thing then it could be a sign that she has been unfaithful or is going to.

3. The Mysterious Friend: One telltale sign that a woman is being unfaithful is that she has a mysterious friend who slowly makes a bigger impact in her life. Whether it is a co-worker or someone that she knows from school, she may keep him a secret as well as may be hesitant to share information about him with you. It really doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that something out of the norm is happening here and you should speak with your significant other about it be.

4. Deflecting Simple Questions; when your girlfriend starts acting suspicious and starts to avoid very simple questions then this could be a sign that she’s hiding something. If she immediately repeats your questions back to you before answering then chances are good that she’s searching her mind for a lie. On the same token, she may become very defensive when you ask her questions about her whereabouts or future plans. As a general rule of thumb, if she starts to deflect information that she used to volunteer in the past, she is hiding something that she doesn’t want to tell you about.

5. Shift in Priorities: If a woman is involved in heavy romance with another man then she will definitely start to shift her priorities away from yours. All of a sudden, she won’t have time to see you and she will start to break-off regular meetings that you used to have with her. Also, if there is a sudden switch in dates for particular events like dance-lessons or work schedule then she’s probably making them to see her new fling. Basically, anything action that is designed to create distance between you and her could be a sign of infidelity.

6.She Looks Sexier More Often: A woman who is cheating will go way out of her way to make sure that she is looking as best as she can before leaving the house. The reason she does this is to dazzle and impress her new fling as much as possible. Remember that way that she dressed at the beginning of your relationship together? That is how she is going to try and present herself when she does something wrong. She’ll wear new jewellery, clothing, and even makeup. She’ll even wear these things to places where there is really no need for them like the mall for example.

7. She Becomes More Independent: Part of trying to break it off with you and having her romance with her new guy is that she wants to be independent from you. The earlier she starts doing this, the less of a burden it will actually be when the time comes to leave you (if and when she decides to do it). Basically, she will start to drop her vocabulary from “we” to phrases that favor “I”. However, what is more important to watch out for is that she will stop speaking with you about future plans. In short, she will start acting a manner that dictates that she no longer needs you to hold her hand. Whether or not she is actually going to leave your or simply create more space for your “double life” it is safe to say that she doesn’t want you in the picture. The reason she does this is because she can’t build up the nerve to tell you that it is over and that she wants to start over with someone new.
8. Have Low Sex Drive: This is probably one of the biggest telltale sign that a woman is unfaithful. Essentially, she won’t be interested in having sex with you anymore. And if you do make love, then it will only be when she wants it. Another reason why she will have a lower sex drive is because she doesn’t want to continue and string you along. Chances are good that she’s already engaging in sexual activities with her new partner if she isn’t sleeping with you anymore.

9. Have Secret Schedules: A woman who is being secretive about her schedule is more than likely hiding something. For example, does she hide her whereabouts when you call her? Does she always “go away on businesses”? If she is gone a lot of the time and not telling you where she is going or when she’s coming back then chances are good that she’s seeing someone else. As a general rule of thumb, the less you know about her itinerary the more worried you should be about where she is and who she is spending her time with.

10. You Become Irrelevant: What is worth than a girlfriend who nags about every little thing? How about a girlfriend or wife who doesn’t even know that you exist? While it may be hard to imagine, it does happen to a lot of guys. Their significant other simply pretends like they are not even there anymore. Keep in mind that this may happen right away or little by little. A woman who is no longer interested in you and becomes interested in another man will automatically start to pretend as though you don’t even exist

Please feel free to add yours
AutosRe: Reg Kia Picanto 4 Sale In Asaba Only 350k by LAGATA(m): 9:33am On Jul 11, 2015
NnamdiChidi:
Morn
Tnx for ur openness @ ops. Called u some mins ago. Hoping to seal the deal by Monday God's willing
PoliticsRe: Buhari Inaugurates National Economic Council by LAGATA(m): 1:01pm On Jun 29, 2015
oya naaa, let them start work/action asap...........
CrimeRe: Busted: "Wicked One Chance" Taxi Driver Nabbed In Abuja(photos) by LAGATA(m): 4:37pm On Apr 09, 2015
no doubt i saw this taxi on my way to the office this morning. I actually didnt bother to stop as i tot it was one of these common accidents that happen here on a daily basis. Na wa o! A lot of passengers think the painted taxis are the safest. It is well.... so sad
PoliticsRe: Patience Jonathan Commences Packing Out Of Aso Villa by LAGATA(m): 7:16am On Apr 01, 2015
Wonder wat is going on in Turai Yaradua's mind....... hmmmm! Nothing is permanent in the world we live in.
RomanceRe: My Heartbreak by LAGATA(m): 8:27am On Mar 30, 2015
@op, I can't imagine what ur going tru at the moment. Really a terrible experience. Urs is surely manageable bro.
My wife that I had married for over seven years woke up one morning ( like 3weeks ago) and told me she was fed up wt the marriage and left. I can't even explain how av been coping till this moment.
FamilyRe: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by LAGATA(m): 5:36pm On Mar 01, 2015
GentleToks:
No!!! Men need my advice more cos 90% of problems are caused by women in marriages, these ladies go out there and portray their husbands as devils while they are killing the same man domestically. In d past, our forefather could be given that stipulated % but in 21st century, women are taking d lead. Fast forward to 21st century, men are more civilised, socially oriented and educated which informed their loving attitude towards d institution of marriage. If u doubt me, take a look around your neighbourhood and tell me how many guys that are ready to marry 2 to 3 wives like our forefathers? I presume your answer ll be negative cos they are more civilised and educated than our forefathers. Have you also noticed how loving 21st century guys are by cooking for their girlfriends and wives?

If there was no camera in d elevator in which Jay Z was brutalised and battered by Solange, the same Solange could have accused Jay Z of beating and abusing her. And women world would have risen to d occasion by condemning Jay Z to death but cos it was a man, d whole case was swept under d carpet. Double standard !!! isn't it?

The above case study is exactly what men are going through in their homes but no camera to show the world what their wives have subjected them into.............


My dear, I have seen some marriages in which husbands have been turned to nothing but Mr Nobody and my heart wept for these men.

Life could be funny sometimes and full of mystery; d good men always end up with evil/bad wives while good ladies always end up with bad men.
Well said boss. I agree so much wt u. May God help us
FamilyRe: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by LAGATA(m): 8:24am On Mar 01, 2015
@op, are we neighbours? had the same bitter experience last night. We have bn married for Seven years and i have never imagined i cld ever raise my hands on my woman. No matter to what extent she provokes me, i still tru find a peaceful way of resolving issues. Mine is even a bit challenging coz of cultural differences (am yoruba and shes hausa). The past seven years has bn so challenging. we have lost 2 innocent kids so u can imagine the frustration and challenges. What is it abt our women being 'misled' by their unmarried and divorced friends?
The height of provocation was ystday. Imagine my woman exchanging luv msgs wt an unknown man. Confronted her wt all the proofs bt she was still denying to the extent of creating a fight. Had to land her a slap on her face. So sad i have never done such. Realising i shldnt have done that and controlled myself, spent the whole night pleading wt her to forgive me for my actions and not even wt wat was on ground. Even wt the sleeping pills i swallowed, i jst cldnt slp. Rather i was feeling so bad and full of regets for raising my hand on her.... To all the ladies out there (single and married), pls forgive us. Appologies too for the long gist
TravelRe: QATAR And UAE General Visa Enquiries by LAGATA(m): 10:53pm On Feb 26, 2015
Good evening all. Am actually working on visiting Dubai wt my wife and son (3yr old). Will be glad if I can be furnished on what is expected, as in the whole process. Thus, cost; process ; timing etc.
I will appreciate your kind contributions. Mind you, this will be my first trip. Many thanks
AutosRe: SOLD! SOLD!! Sweet Registered Neatly Used Peugeot 206 - Abuja by LAGATA(op): 8:20pm On Jan 30, 2015
Yes oooooooo! Car has been SOLD! Thanks to all the viewers, callers, texters, whatsuppers, those that liked the car but never cared to call, etc..... car was sold earlier today......... tongue tongue smiley wink
AutosRe: Request Free Vin Checks Here - Requests Will Be Processed 24 - 48 hrs by LAGATA(m): 3:03pm On Jan 26, 2015
Good afternoon, keep up the good work. Pls I urgently need ur assistance on the Vin 1HGCR3F89DA043979 (honda). Need to make a decision on it asap.
ajifather1@gmail.com
AutosRe: Free Vin Checks And Reports by LAGATA(m): 1:32pm On Jan 26, 2015
Good afternoon, keep up the good work. Pls I urgently need ur assistance on the Vin 1HGCR3F89DA043979 (honda). Need to make a decision on it asap.
ajifather1@gmail.com
AutosRe: SOLD! SOLD!! Sweet Registered Neatly Used Peugeot 206 - Abuja by LAGATA(op): 1:54pm On Jan 20, 2015
more pictures...................

AutosSOLD! SOLD!! Sweet Registered Neatly Used Peugeot 206 - Abuja by LAGATA(op):
Sound & Untouched Factory Engine,
Manual Transmission;
Chasis Colour- Red;
Winter cold A/C
SRS Airbags;
Mileage- 176+;
Soft fabric seats;
Power windows;
CD Player;
price: 650,000 (Negotiable)
Abdoul - 08034654459
etc.................................................

FoodRe: Calabar/akwa Ibom Food! by LAGATA(m): 9:14am On Jan 18, 2015
onila:
Cowleg sauce with unripe plantain

always a mouth watering dish 4 aliens in uyo

https://fbcdn-sphotos-b-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xap1/v/t1.0-9/10703777_10154612065330571_3300021595658664813_n.jpg?oh=7a98e2927a8b8ec10f314cb4ab05f349&oe=54ED5E9D&__gda__=1424572360_31716d7af5b8e14fd8915da84021212f
chai, na so Onila harsh? woke up dis morning to view and staring continously @ all these tempting delicacies. Been salivating for some mins now. I need to explore that Calabar/Akwa Ibom axis asap. Chai, abeg who go invite me come?
FamilyRe: Husband Of Egopersonified by LAGATA(m): 8:56pm On Dec 07, 2014
so sry about ur loss maam. May God forgive his sins, comfort u and grant him eternal rest.... sad sad sad sad
AutosRe: Kia Soul 2014 Model@2.15008038580001,08077605055aut by LAGATA(m): 3:46pm On Nov 30, 2014
megastone:
For. Sell
Pls can u reconfirm the year. This is never a 2014 model.
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Winner: Jennimma! by LAGATA(m): 2:19pm On Nov 10, 2014
i vote vivly
AutosRe: Free Vin Checks And Reports by LAGATA(m): 10:14pm On Oct 25, 2014
hello people,
kindly assist with vin check on Peugeot 407

VF36D3FZF21143504
VF36DRFNB21074224

Kindly assist and send report to ajifather1@yahoo.com or ajifather1@gmail.com
many tnx
AutosRe: abuja selling 880K , Clean Honda EOD, AC, Auto, Leather by LAGATA(m): 8:29am On Sep 14, 2014
haba this car don too tay naaaa. since April 16, 2013.... Na wa o! I wonder whats wrong!! when it was first advertised alot of us showed commitment by calling the poster, but instead he never showed any seriousness. I finally got a better and more classy EOD... Thanks to my thorough research and patience
Forum GamesRe: Tag And Ask by LAGATA(m): 7:15am On Sep 11, 2014
Funbil.... pls can I humbly request for ur digits?
Car TalkRe: Car Change Of Ownership by LAGATA(m): 4:11pm On Aug 25, 2014
what are the documents u collected backing the registered car u bought? i actually bought a fairly used car last week Monday here in abuja. we signed the sales agreement, he gave me all the documents of his car ( plate num receipt, old and renewed vehicle particulars, insurance, proof of ownership etc) we then signed another letter in respect of transfer of ownership. Hence, with all these i took to VIO office in Mabushi, gave the chap 14,500 and behold, the vehicle particulars came in my name (though they made a copy for their record)
FoodRe: What Annoys You Most At A Restaurant? by LAGATA(m): 9:23am On Jul 18, 2014
It's rly so annoying and disgusting when someone enters the restaurant, pass by ur table, look into ur plate (like he wants to pick ur meat), sits some tables away from urs then calls onto the waiter, and he's like 'abeg serve me exactly that kin food' (referring to my food)

undecided embarassed shocked so annoying aswear
FamilyRe: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by LAGATA(m): 9:53pm On Jan 06, 2014
what if its the wife that wants to be divorced? where i come from (North) the women see divorce as a part of Marriage. she doesnt believe in for 'better for worse'. With just a minor disagreement u will hear her begging the husband to divorce her.
AutosRe: 10 Fastest Cars In The World by LAGATA(m): 8:13pm On Dec 10, 2013
AutoG: HONDA ACCORD 2003 EXL GOING AT 1.35m
nice one! pls is dis ride on ground? cld u pls give me a number i can reach u on. many tnx
FamilyRe: The Birth Of Our Baby Girl Realtime Updates by LAGATA(m): 9:37am On Dec 10, 2013
congrats bro, wishing the family all the happiness that comes with this season....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancies At Embassy Of Belgium In Abuja? by LAGATA(m): 5:52am On Dec 05, 2013
[quote author=Cajetan speaks]9 Usuma street Abuja is not an address, Abuja is a big city with lots of districts. If you post a letter to that address it will surely get lost.[/qu



usuma street is definately in Maitama. Will find out as soon as possible if actually they are recruiting.....
Music/RadioRe: Your Current Mobile Phone Ringtone? by LAGATA(m): 3:21pm On Oct 06, 2013
Foolish by Ashanti........ i too like dat album aswear..
AutosRe: Peugeot 407 Tokunbo Clean Full Automatic -06- by LAGATA(m): 6:52pm On Aug 05, 2013
hi, you rly have gotten some nice clean ride... please i rly want to get a 407 very soon, can u help with more picture of both manual and auto transmission as well as the prices...
many thanks!
keep it up bro
FamilyRe: Share Your Addiction!! by LAGATA(m): 5:28pm On Aug 05, 2013
1. powerhorse
2. very pretty 'NATURALLY FAIR' ladies
3. Benz E350 (Chai i like dat car)

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