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dayokanu:
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EVIL

V for vendetta! YAY! in fact im going to watch it now,

thanks so much.
@ notice me, this is not a tale of woe, like i said, my mum was just talking to me generally, it wasnt malicious or anything,
the only reason i came here is that ill get anonymous non judgemental responses from Nigerians, unlike if i discussed it with my friends or family.
@ all, what my mum said is not heresay, they are still together and i see some stuff that is not right between both of them, esp fro, my dad's side of things.
im a known face here so thank goodness i used another account

thanks,
he's a really good guy, i even feel guilty about putting it up here,

Hello nairalanders.
I have this issue that has been burning inside me for about a month now, unfortunately I cant share it with close friends and family
I have been dating this guy for some years now, he is extremely wonderful
He is always concerned about me, my dreams and everything that has to do with me, inc my family
He doesn’t have a lot of money but no matter how little, he gives me an amount every month
We are not engaged but we plan to get married as soon as we are financially stable,
He trusts me implicitly with most matters and even put my name on the company he recently floated,
His family are all wonderful to me.
He is God fearing and always encourages me to wake up early to pray, read my bible, e.t.c
He has never given me any reason to doubt his love, or any reason for me to think he is being unfaithful.
Recently I was talking to my mum, and she said that ‘never trust a man’, that my dad promised her heaven and earth, before they got married, within 2 years he flipped on her, started mistreating her BAD. She was not talking about my guy oh, hust mother to daughter yarns, she was just talking generally, that if anyone had told her that my dad would treat her bad, cheat on her with no regard for her feelings, she would have said, NEVER!
My question is, is there any way to know these things? little signs? How do I know that this my perfect guy isn’t gonna turn into someone else 4 yrs down the line? Its really doin my head in.

Thank you for positive responses