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She doesn’t have the capacity to take care of them. She will still not allow who will to do. They like forming sympathy and using the children to beg for money up and down. The only reason I can condemn the man is if he would not allow her access at all.

DarkkManB:
Tinubu is underrated, people out of hatred underrate his political mastery. He literally has control over all opposition parties, but he should apply the same skills at governance

He is practically doing what you are asking him to do. There is a reason all past presidents of Nigeria couldn’t solve myriads of the country’s problems despite having the goodwill of the people and huge resources at their disposal. Our problems are complex and look unsolvable: the reasons why there are agitations and calls for dissolution of the country here and there from IPOB to Afenifere to ND militants to Bokoharam. bandits and the rest of them.
Tinubu is the first president since 1999 who has shown the capacity to deal headlong with these problems one after the other. The issue with Nigerians is that we are unrealistic and too impatient to get solutions.
He is getting it right from all angles and what ne needs is our supports and not bad politics. If e easy why Obasanjo, Yaradua, Jonathan and Buhari all left the issues that have destroyed Nigeria behind without even making attempt to solve them. Issues like Fuel subsidy scam, Dollar subsidy scam, Mono-economy, Petroleum Bill, Oil sector debacle, State governors killings of LGA. etc.
Look at those demons I listed above and tell me if a country can survive in their presence. Tinubu has dealt a big blow to all of these which past 4 president couldn’t achieve in 32 good years. He solved them in just 2 years. Give the man his onions nah.
Things are expensive, fine, but that is not the sign he is not doing the right thing but the sign that Nigeria is long dead and that all what past leaders have been doing with our humongous wealth and natural resources are mere cosmetic management of our economy. Many of us are are just following the band wagon walai…….

Women always want to eat their cake and have it. You chose money and fame over character and now u want to sideway dey do hustle for marriage bcs no feeling btw you and Potable.
Potable is right LOYALTY PASS JUJU. Women don’t know that to just be loyal to your husband can fetch them his undying love. Not only Ashabi, most married women have extramarital affair with men they actually would have love to get married with. Na who dem catch be thief.

“She said that despite requesting counselling and mental-health support, none was provided. “After that hearing, priests and other staff showed up at my house with a nurse. I felt trapped and scared,”

When asked about her viral Facebook post claiming she had converted to Islam, Kinse clarified it was an emotional outburst born out of despair. “It wasn’t a real conversion,” she explained. “I was angry and broken.


The highlight above said it all……..
All other things she is saying are just mere manipulations…….typical of women

Most of the deeper life female members truly are chaste in terms of sexual purity but u know one things they lack CHARACTER. And this is what can get them a suitor not the sexual chastity whatever. That’s why they find it difficult getting married. Even those married are either living with their spouses in hell or divorce altogether. The church meanwhile teaches about Godly character but move close to them, u will find none in their lives. May God airpus

May the Lord have mercy on those children and help them return. The mother probably was looking for greener pasture in the wilderness. Stay in marriage una no go hear

She is deceiving herself. Someone that cries everyday in her closet. She fails to retain a suitor bcs of her bad character. Ordinarily her father’s wealth should have been a great advantage but u see that thing they call character, it can either make or mar you.

Women, no matter whatever that is going on between you and your husband, never allow another man lay on u. Bcs if it happened that is the beginning of the end of the marriage whether the man is aware or not. If God will be merciful onto u, u will be caught. You will lose your dignity, respect and family. Even your children will grow to hate u for the stupid act.

awon relationship coach isonu
wo unto any lady that takes this one's advice
relationship expert that can not keep relationship

You nailed it
1. If u cant respect him, decline his marriage proposal
2. If u have unforgiven spirit, dont get married to anyone bcs they will surely offend you.
3. If u are too wise, dont get married bcs marriage is for foolish people
4. If your philosophy is "tit for tat", pls dont get married cos that philosophy is what will end the marriage las las
5. If u are not teachable, pls dont get married bcs marriage is a school for students
6. If u cant sacrifice, pls remain single bcs u will burn in marriage for sacrifice. You will have to sacrifice your life.
7. If u still want to own your body 100%, pls dont get married bcs u will have to lose urself to the other partner in marriage. He or she owns you 100%
8. If u can never trade your freedom, pls remain single bcs marriage is bondage. You lose your freedom in it.
9. If u dont like sex, pls flee from marriage bcs the essence of marriage is sex. Every other thing is an addendum
10. If all the points raised above speaks about you, Please and please remain single for the rest of your life, marriage is not for you. Save the world from children from broken homes. PEACE

He married a beauty queen. He never knew he married devils first daughter. The team, I cant hurt a fly baby, I cant see blood but when little arguement ensued they usually carry knife or harmful object and mark you . Fear who no fear daughters of Jeze

women cheat on good men bcs they believe the good men are too good for them of which they need some bad vibez which the good men dont have. Women are too complex and insatiable.

spiSeyi:
Don't be confused nah your ear dey pain you nah
3 more characters needed

That’s the difference between a genius and ordinary artiste. Don Jassy is a genius. They see greatness in what other see as ordinary. Even looking at the title of the song, a good artiste should know it will be accepted. Another magic there is the unconventional afrobeats it has. People like new things and when u introduce one you gonna sell like mad. Another selling point was the quality of stars used in the song. If na me and one pangolo friend record, the thing no go pass our phone

The best INEC Chairman Nigeria has ever produced He conducted election where the winner lost all the KKK every previous winners have always won. The winner lost his own state. The winner lost the capital city. The first three contenders won same number of states and had almost same figures where the winner only emerged on simple majority. This is the realest election I have ever seen in my life. Thanks you Yakubu

Kwinesther:
May didn't leave him, it was Yul that packed his belongings to live in the house of a woman that was divorced twice, he even stopped catering for his children. With his bullshit, he still wanted May to accept him but the wise woman rejected she didn't lose anything here, it was after her decision that she got fame and endorsements here and abroad.

You men with your rubbish doings and sleeping around but still be demanding for peace. No peace for irresponsible men.
Judith gained nothing but an adulterous, shameless and classless man. She obviously makes bad choices when it comes to men, reason for her divorces and even Yul will still leave her because a cheat is always a cheat, only time will tell.

How can someone who left still be looking for acceptance from someone he left. There is a reason he left in the first place. You are just contradicting urself. I think u are one of the online inlaws that led May to where she is today. Someone lost her husband and father of her children to gain endorsement and u said he didnt lose anything. Seems endorsement is better than husband
Keep deceiving urself. The woman alone in her closet cries everyday for losing what God gave her. You online inlaws think she prefers the endorsements to her husband? Since the day he married her till their divorce, another dick never enter May toto? Women are the smartest and the regular victim in every marriage collapse.

ademijuwonlo:
What makes you think they want to let go of their new found freedom to go be with a man. The whole World knows that men don't like to be alone and women don't really care when they are comfortable themselves.

The guy was right and u are also right. Men dont like to be alone wether poor or rich. They dont change this position throughout their existence. But u see women, they want to be alone when they have financial freedom and when they get bored, they want a man again. And when they get the man, they get bored again and want to be alone. They are a confused creatures

Kwinesther:
Mumu talk! Any marriage that doesn't work, it's the woman that doesn't give peace.

But same senseless adulterous husband could find peace in the arms of a woman that has once married twice with children from different fathers and now with her third husband, if the woman can eventually give him peace, why did her previous "husbands" divorce her Logical gender indeed! Mumu men plenty for this country sha.

Esther, the truth be told. May Edochie is better for Yul than the new wife bcs they are both first love and started life together. But u see why Judith could take her position? She became too comfortable, allow pride and online inlaws to deceive her into leaving her marriage for a strange woman bcs the husband didnt send her away, she left by herself. She is the greatest loser here bcs she lost what God gave her and Judith gained what does not even belong to her in the first place. Presently Judith is the peace, the rest is the story.....

Kobojunkie:
Women need to stop dating and marrying their bullies/enemies. 🥱🥱🥱

Koboko abi wetin be your name gan
men dont marry with the intention to bring the woman to surfer or punish her. They marry her bcs they love her and ab initio have good plans for her. Where problem starts is when she begins to disrespect him and look down on his effort to care for her. Women often do these when their expectations in the marriage are not met. And men too are humans, they can react. Let women treat their husbands as they want to be treated and u will see most of the problems in the marriage will vanish.

No woman is interested in you. All they want is to use u to climb and once they are above you, they move. Women dont look down, they look up. This is the reality peole have failed to understand. The man said the plain truth. The lady is only gas lighting. Women call men they cant control narcissists and their experience with them abusive bcs they cant control them. Madam, u have already moved on, let the man breathe. And I hope he too has learnt his lesson in life.

Tinubu should be careful. This is another US influence in Nigeria election gradually brewing just like Jonathan 2015. They want to use the religion card against him just like Obama used security card against Jonathan. Obi is likely to be the beneficiary here.

All these candidates are complicit in this move by the lawyer:
1. Tinubu, bcs Jonathan contesting will reduce his expected southern dominance in 2027;
2. Atiku, bcs Jonathan will kill his PDP old bloc votes and some northerners will abandone him for Jonathan who is lesser evil to them compare to Tinubu and who will only have 4 years in preparation for full 8 years tenure for the North.
3. Obi, who will immediately become another Dele Momodu in Nigeria politics by Jonathan appearance bcs both SS and SE votes that Obi largely depends on will be harvested by Jonathan.
But of all these candidates, Obi and Obidien movement are more likely to have sent this lawyer on errand just to remove this Jonathan's threat. Tinubu is the least unlikely to have instigated this type of opposition to Jonathan.

Sangoamadioha1:
I thought they said after El rufai no more attacks in southern Kaduna
Lies can never last long because the truth go 'everly' show face.

and the Elrufai is still alive now, even have new power bloc in the state, though not governor again. He is still a fulani man and all destructive influence still intact

People dont value what they have until they lose it and they will now appreciate it from afar. That is life and there is nothing anybody can do about it. That thing that is in your possession that u dont value, there is someone somewhere wishing low key u throw it away. The way they will grab it ehn. Even your friends or siblings dont wish u well. Only sensible ones will understand this. She is learning the hard way but they will keep pretending all is well.

NOETHNICITY:
You are absolutely right. There are some like that.

For me I will not turn it to fight. I be master of the game. She can easily be very useless in my eyes. Totally without relevance. Na she go use her leg run comot

u may not be totally right my brother. She wont be bothered by your estrangement. In fact if it is kondo, she will get it outside and if it is money, she will work for her own and will be ok. Two of you will just be living like flatmates. Marriage don scatter be that. Those women can manage ur attitude till old age till when they will now unleash terror on u. Unless u react on time and pursue her from your house, she wont disturb u. Not every woman will react to your silence treatment.

I pity ladies who are listening to advice from faceless people online. Most of the comments here are only in movies and imaginary. It is a different ballgame when u are inside marriage. No man and woman live together without a friction bcs women will always challenge men's authority. Women only fear losing u or the marriage when there is enough money but if she has the capacity to stand alone, the marriage wont stand. Women only marry for financial stability but if she is financially stable already, she wont need you or the marriage.

NOETHNICITY:
I come house no food, I’m going back. My wife knows I love eating out. She is always trying not to give me reason to continue to eat out. So if I come and there is no food, I’m driving out immediately to help myself without complaint
Anyway, she’s not even my kind of girl since I love ‘only’ naturally beautiful girls that aren’t fat.
Stomach must( I mean must) be flat.

Me I also get standard

some women dont send u. that is how u will continue to eat from outside and she wont even bulge, so far u dey drop money for house especially bcs of the children. Na when u tire u go turn am to fight and marriage go scattered. Just pray u dont meet them.